well, so much for saying i'd wait--had the promise of oral sex and thought that i'd try the helix then, but when the promise fell through i went ahead anyway with the session cause i was so het up--same story as before--a little something but not a lot--this time tried a lot of very small contractions and some slight holding with my pc group but didn't start anything worth noting--will try again to hold off for a few days before...
i was at my local sex shop and they had the helix so i bought one--this was not a snap decision like when i bought the progasm while i was waiting for my mgx to arrive--i have read and thought a lot about getting the helix because of all the comments about its greater mobility and more robust massage than the mgx--i figured since i was having such small reactions with the mgx, maybe the helix would be better--anyway...
since my last post i have had many sessions--sometimes with several days in between, sometimes daily and sometimes more than one each day--they are at least 1 hour in duration, usually 1 1/2 hours or more--also i've tried various times of the day--i've tried all kinds of different methods and at last i'm getting some results that indicate i may be on the right path at last--i've tried to force involuntary contractions by holding a contraction till i'm fatigued, which...
well, i didn't wait another day after waking up today with some "funny" feelings--i used the condom method with lube inside and out on the condom--i think it gave the mgx more movement--i think that there was some small progress but nothing earth shaking--it didn't help that i got three phone calls during this session--anyway i definitely felt some very small flutters in my legs, above my penis in my lower abdomen, and other various places--nothing that gave me anything...
well my mgx arrived and i've been using it instead of the progasm--it's been very tough going with not much to show--i've tried the breathing with the anal contractions--the held pc contraction--the do nothing and relax for an hour--the try to sleep with it in--i don't touch my penis--i do get a lot of precum but no orgasm feeling or feeling of well being--nothing seems to be working--i thought that i may not be aroused enough at the beginning--i try...
today i thought that i would relax entirely and try to go to sleep to see if anything would happen like some other posts have said has happened to them--in other words, don't try to force anything but just let it happen--well i think that part of my problem may be that i am not aroused enough or at all when i insert the progasm and then nothing happens--so many posts talk about relaxation that i think i overdo it...
this is the fourth day--it's easier to insert the progasm now and feels less invasive but moving it is still a problem--now i really know why i should not have bought it on impulse and should have waited for my mgx to arrive--just noodling around trying to give the various muscle groups a workout and trying to separate them so i can control them individually --will probably wait for mgx which should arrive soon ...
tried again next day--now know how to do an anal contraction, a rectal contraction and a pc contraction--when i do the pc contraction it feels like i am tapping my prostate with the progasm--so now i know how to move the progasm up and down and how to "tap" with the pc group--nothing happens when i try to hold contractions to start spasms in my anal muscle group ...
well the next day i gave it another try--spent most of my time relaxing with nothing happening and then contracting and holding it and waiting for something to happen--nothing happened--decided i was contracting too much so tried holding a lesser contraction --spent most of my time trying to sort out the various muscle groups so i would know what i was doing--thought i felt some funny flutters down in my feet and ankles but who knows? ...
i am a 64 year old male with everything in working order--i was reading the web about the male g spot when i came across the name of aneros--well, all i can say is that reading the posts and threads, etc i ordered the mgx--while waiting for its arrival i was in a sex shop and asked if they had any aneros massagers--i wanted the helix but all they had was the progasm, and at a good price--i thought about...