It is easy to get discouraged. Initially, I tried to make the Aneros products work. Proactive breathing and the like weren't particularly effective. Soon anal entry was no problem. The sphincter muscles and G-spot were sort of in training mode, but it all didn't seem worth the bother. That's changed! After a few years away, I am using a Progasm and the softer deVice. Following insertion and laying down, it takes less than 15 seconds for my feet to begin...