On January 18 (today), it has been exactly two years since I first inserted my Aneros Helix Syn. At the time, my back door experience was limited to a few weeks of finger exploring with minimal results. I had been reading the Aneros forum for some time and so I knew there was a chance I was going to discover a new world of pleasures and possibly improve my health in the process.
At 61 years of age, my sex life was abysmal, enduring a very low libido and hardly able to have an erection. On occasions, I felt pressure in my lower abdomen and irritating sensations while urinating: possibly a touch of BPH or prostatitis as so many males experience at that stage of life. Porn was plentiful but had become ineffective and boring. I was also getting up countless times to urinate at night (3 sometimes 4).
I was feeling my age, I had become an old man with a lazy prostate and almost on the edge of depression.
I cannot remember exactly how I came across the topic of Aneros but somehow my curiosity and interest in seeking more info on prostate health must have lead me here. As mentioned above, I started exploring the dark hole with my index and found the intrusion interesting. The more I read the Aneros forum, the more intrigued I became. I simply had to get one!
In hindsight, I was totally oblivious to perineum sensations and my nipples were as useless as a pair of tits on a bull. I had no idea on the size and actual location my prostate let alone the possible pleasures it could yield. The words Kegels, edging, and Taoist, to name just a few, were non existent to me and so was the term sexual energy flow. I never would’ve believed that orgasm and ejaculation are actually two very distinctive events and could be controlled with proper training. I was totally encased in my little world strapped with ED and sexual blandness. Life was boring.
At the beginning of my journey and throughout the first year, I read the forum entries and Wiki infaticly in desperate search for the keyes to experiencing the so-called Super-O! I even added a new Progasm Ice in the mix thinking surely my Helix Syn must not be reaching my prostate or something. The PI provided different sensations but didn’t get me to my illusive ultimate goal. I was frustrated. It just did not register that, in prostate play, the simple math equation is very simple “expectations=disappointment” even if I read about it in the forum time and time again.
Had it not been for my newfound Aneros friends` encouragement and wisdom, I probably would have given up in frustration. I’m certain a number of frustrated newbies do.
I feel I became `Aneros mature` later in my second year. My definition of Aneros mature is:
– a user who no longer thinks his massager does not touch his prostate and
– no longer questions if he is doing something wrong in his sessions and
– no longer chases results while in sessions and
– does not expect `the big one` when experiencing a new twitch or sensation and
– recognizes and thoroughly enjoy all the sensations and good feelings at hand and
– has mastered the art of hearing his body whispers and
– clearly understands that when it comes to prostate play, patience truly is a virtue.
Most recently, (later in my second year with Aneros) whenever I questioned the success (or lack of) of a session, I quickly reflected on what was already accomplished since the initiation of my journey:
First, from a health point of view:
– after learning about Kegels and it’s benefits, I committed myself to engage in a strong regime of the exercise and I stuck to it. I believe this was instrumental in my evolution and this is thanks to the encouragement of my friend @BigGlansDC
– the frequency of my trips to the bathroom at night to urinate went from 3 to 4 per night to once every two to three nights or so (seriously!),
– my urination flow is much stronger,
– my lower abdomen discomfort are gone and replaced by sensations of prostate hornyness (if that’s a word); any sign of BPH and/or prostatitis have vanished,
From a sexual point of view:
– I can now induce erections almost at will (not like a teen, but rather like a middle aged male),
– overnight ererections are back, frequent and rock hard,
– my libido is now much higher and ED is much lower,
– I discovered the pleasures of MMO with edging,
From a pleasure point of view (where do I start)? Today, it seems every sessions produces new sensations at higher intensity than in the last session. I honestly don’t remember having had a dud session.
I have a minimum of two A-less sessions per day and the level of pleasure they produce are at least as good as my regular Aneros sessions. How can I complain about that?
I discovered some of the many pleasures available by stimulating my perineum. I have several tennis balls, in my office, shop and vehicle. It’s amazing the pleasures experienced sitting on one of them in the vehicle while waiting for my better half to return from shopping
The famous question on everyone’s mind is `have I achieved Super-O level yet`? I really don’t know for sure. If an average Super-O is higher in intensity than the penile version, then the answer is no. If a Super-O has longer and more controllable great sensations than the penile version, then, yes I get them all the time! I no longer worry about that.
My point is, what I experience today in my Aneros or A-less and edging sessions, two years into my journey, is far superior to what I had before I began my journey. I rejoice in knowing things will continue to progress with time.
Today, I feel like a new man and I can only attribute my success to Aneros company and their well engineered products. Their devices are like keys to pleasure doors; each rib on their different models energises different sensations on one’s prostate. Their success is not only attributed to their products but also to the social media environment they provide with their forum. Their forum`s members are very generous in providing sound advice to anyone seeking it, encouragement to those needing it and accolades to anyone having achieved milestones in their journey.
I truly value the friendship I developed with some members and appreciate their support and encouragement. I know I can always count on my friends @BigGlansDC, @goldenboy, @rumel, @techpump, @SOwithoutAneros (and many more) for their wisdom.
OK now I can get off my soap box and get ready for my next session.
Life is wonderful!