today i thought that i would relax entirely and try to go to sleep to see if anything would happen like some other posts have said has happened to them–in other words, don't try to force anything but just let it happen–well i think that part of my problem may be that i am not aroused enough or at all when i insert the progasm and then nothing happens–so many posts talk about relaxation that i think i overdo it and not only am i relaxed but i am not aroused either–anyway when i get my mgx i will try to get a lot more excited before i do the insertion cause the laid back relaxation technique isn't leading anywhere–ed