This is better than I expected. I am going to enjoy it as much and as long as i can for now. Down the road, there's still so much I could learn from you and others who have been through this and travelled long and far on this road on how to break the bottleneck, and how to enrich the experience and add more fun to it. Thanks, man!

Please come back and share/post more. And I'm here to call @fred27 again. Hope he'll come back soon too.

I wish my wife would do it with me! She is so freaked out by it she thinks I'm crazy I do it and I like it. Makes me want to sound her, because I think that kind of stimulation will make her cum so hard, she squirts pretty often, and I can only imagine a sound would make her ejaculate like crazy! I can dream hahaha

Yes, it started that way for me. When I started to have dry Os after about 5 minutes of insertion, I felt like it was going to happen quicker more often, and it did. Then the Os started within 3 minutes. Then within almost 2 minutes. Then in the first minute. Now, sometimes I have an O within seconds of it being in me, and it doesn't have anything to do with how horny I am, length of time from my last traditional release (although I'll admit, if I wait like 3+ days to do a session after I've cum, those Os come really fast and furious instantly as if my ass is saying "ok fine, be that way, if you don't want to make an orgasm happen with your cock, I guess I have to be the one on the other side to take you there!!" hahahaha! I'm not sure all men here have Os quickly or if it takes time, or if some developed like I did, and probably you are developing as well.

Looking back, I think during my short period of working with Aneros, what I've changed mostly is mentality. First, I took @Fred27 's advice and gave up expecting "anything" from every session - just let my Aneros take me where I'm taken. That helps a lot. Secondly, I started understanding everything doesn't have to be "explosive". The edging, the antsy feeling even some frustration is all part of this experience, and part of the "new" orgasms we are trying to learn!

The "do nothing/expect anything" coin is important. I expected so much based on, for real, 3 men talking about their super O. I missed my small normal little Os while wondering where this monster truck O was and when it would hit. As soon as I had that first for real "OMG this is a prostate orgasm!" orgasms, all sessions that followed had all these orgasms that I know I'd felt for years before. I forgot to mention, it took me 10 years to finally realize what a prostate orgasm was and felt like, I tried and tried and tried and felt hopeless but I kept trying and one night doing a session with my wife on a 8-day cum break, some dildo play from her working me inside, and me taking over the dildo at the right moment gave me the fireworks display 4K reality of "prostate orgasm is hitting right now" and yes it was the superest of super Os and I hadn't felt that in my life before that moment, so my journey to the end of those 10 years and the beginning of the last 12 did not happen on my own. I had that moment with my wife helping me and being with me, unplanned, it was just a fun night of making out while we were on a specific sexual adventure of 13 days of waiting to have sex together and finally cum (had to do with our anniversary and other personal, very relationship-oriented themes), but it just so happened that was the moment for me. I spent too much time doing everything and expecting the world. It wasn't until I gave up all fucks and cares and worries and wonder and just went with it. And I always went with it and never counted on anything, and its been the best since then :)

For those who might be still looking for "tricks", I think other than focused belly breathing (don't let your mind wander around!), really feel your lower belly's up and down movements, and relax your sphincter (aka don't clench). The only thing intentional I do is when I feel the pressure is building, I pull up my pc muscles while trying to relax sphincter still... With Aneros relentlessly poking around, and your balls pulled up to your belly button, your ass will respond in miraculous ways! 

I have not spent time on the breathing aspect. I haven't pulled energy or used my breath and breathing to trigger, enhance, or move the orgasm. I have spent the last 7 years working with tantra, a particular branch of it that is "pink" tantra not red which is fully sexual or white which is completely not sexual at all but a blend of both. I can do all kinds of things with my chakras, Kundalini has been awakened but not fully mature yet, meditation is sometimes psychadelic and awe inspiring, and of course sex is even more intimate and spiritual/magical/mystical than ever before. Yet, I have not incorporated what I've learned and what I can do into my prostate sessions?!?! God how have I not done this? Why?!? Thanks for talking about this I guess I haven't been reading a lot on this forum about breathing and if I have it just didn't hit me like it did right now. I do some stomach/belly movements and contractions in my practice every day. I should think about how to incorporate this. I might even ask my guru she might have some tips. 

One thing that happens before my Super O, my anus contracts extremely hard and I can't make it relax if I think about it. I consciously try hard to make it relax but it won't. It makes the Aneros feel like it is rotating side to side ever so slightly, no idea if it is or not, but it feels that way. And for reasons unknown to me, my anus relaxes or contracts again I have no idea, and when the toy starts to move out of me my anus contracts and rams it back into me hard and fast and that space between the super clench and the toy coming back into me to hit my prostate is when my Super O hits. Then its rhythmic contractions of various speeds and intensities, and this enormous relief as orgasm washes over me. I usually don't move at all, I can't, I'm glued to the floor. And I "need a minute" after that. My body and mind are reeling and squirming when that strong anal lock starts. The toy is pushed against my prostate hard the whole time; everything "feels like it is building" it feels like the "it" is growing and "it" is going to build until something explodes. And when it relaxes, wow. It is like a miracle this happens! 

I can't attach a photo so the link is below. I currently live in Spain so not sure if available in other countries.

The largest bead is 8mm which took me a while to get to and the base is 10mm + which takes time to get there. The more I use it the easier it is to insert and my wife loves to help me. It’s amazing to insert slowly and remove it periodically while it’s vibrating. I've been using it for about two months and can only use it once or twice every two weeks as it takes 3-4 days to recover. It hurts on the end of my penis to pee for 1-3 days, but one time I felt no pain and my stream was like I was a teenager again. I wash it with antibacterial soap before and after use and haven't had any UTI issues. I have a Eupho Syn and Psy that I use before and during a session with the dilator but have never had a prostate O in the 2 years I've been using Aneros products. Still working on it but the vibrating dilator feels like a constant O. I'm 71 and have had ED for 6 years but the dilator gets me really hard on occasion. I see a set of sounding rods in my future as I’m not feeling the vibration when I check my prostate with it fully inserted. It's great to have such a supportive community to share this type of thing :-) Thanks all!

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For those who might be still looking for "tricks", I think other than focused belly breathing (don't let your mind wander around!), really feel your lower belly's up and down movements, and relax your sphincter (aka don't clench). The only thing intentional I do is when I feel the pressure is building, I pull up my pc muscles while trying to relax sphincter still... With Aneros relentlessly poking around, and your balls pulled up to your belly button, your ass will respond in miraculous ways!