as per the topic, I am looking for an aneros forum user that doesn't want their older Helix white plastic model and would be willing to sell to me or a possible trade

I dont care about the box, as long as the device has been cleaned and is unmodified in any way, and ideally want the user to be uk as I dont wanna pay the extortionate shipping charges from the US, although I would be willing to buy from elsewhere depending on shipping.

Thanks

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Im new to anal and prostate play. I've only recently ordered my first aneros toy, the helix syn V. Before, i've experimented a few times with other prostate massagers. As a cis married male in a loving but vanilla marriage i was blown away already by the first experiences. Subsequent reading about the possibilites that prostate play can bring im very eager to explore this.

Having read quite a lot on the aneros wiki and posts here on the forum, I eagerly started my journey just 3 weeks ago. Although its still very early and i know that patience is important I already have quite a few questions. I hope someone here can help me out.

Firstly, I excercise with my aneros every other day for about 45min. I make sure my breathing is right and i perform my pelvic floor muscle contractions. Eventhough ive only been using my helix syn V for a few times now i already think i can feel something. Its hard to describe and it feels very elusive. its a faint feeling of pleasure building inside, somewhere distant somewhere where i cant seem to reach. Its a bit like the feeling when you get the first tingles when you know a "normal" orgasms will be coming, but its more distant and less obvious. Its nice feeling but also a bit dissatisfying because it leaves me hanging there, it doesnt lead to anything yet. Also it comes and goes. Sometimes leaving me the rest of the session without any pleasent sensations. At those moments I try not to be frustrated, but I am a bit because the feeling is so nice and relaxing. Is this normal, am i going in the right direction? Any tips on how to proceed from here?

Also, i discovered that during this play i feel the need to move my arms, legs, hips and head. I become kind of restless. Is this also normal? I try to be still because the moving  distracts me from the nice buzz im feeling. What are your experiences? Also, i feel the need to be vocal. Hearing the sound of my own moans seems to increase the nice feeling.

When i get into that nice, tingly feeling, i kind of zone out. My mouth is wide open, sometimes Im almost drooling and my eyes just seem to stare into nothing. I loose all sense of time. Maybe it feels a bit like a sensual high after smoking weed... Thats the only metaphor i can think of. Is this good, or should i be more "mindfull" not trying to get into that detached state?

And lastly, i thought that the arousel would make my penis grow hard and throb, like it does when im watching porn. The opposite is true. When im enjoying the nice warm feeling during prostate stimulation my penis shrinks to almost nothing, leaving me with just this tingly feeliing at the tip. Do others also experience this?

I hope someone here can help me out. Im almost 50 years now and I whish i had descovered the aneros decades earlier. It feels so liberating and - without trying to be dramatic - transcendent. I struggled with  a porn addiction since i was 15 years old and had periods of ED because of it. Already i dont feel the need to go online and watch endless streams of pornography anymore. 

Thank you,

Robert

I am a 43-year-old male and a veteran practitioner of "The Work" since 2010. My journey has taken me from the early MGX models to the Maximus, and eventually to mastering high-end 8-inch p-spot dildos. My studio sessions are 2-hour meditative deep dives, using noise-cancelling and sensory triggers like chocolate paste to reach a total flow state.

Crucial context on my Identity & Orientation: I am 100% heterosexually oriented. My romantic and sexual desires are exclusively focused on women. Furthermore, I have a profound aversion to BDSM power dynamics, "sissy-training," "cuckold", FLR-scripts, or any form of humiliation/coercion. For me, this 16-year journey is about anatomical mastery and the beauty of mutual surrender, not about "playing a role" or fetish-labels.

Through my dedication, I have discovered how to trigger both oral and anal prostate orgasms (HFOs). I’ve reached a point where the passionate "priming" of the instrument is the key that unlocks the door.

To be explicit: I find the act of passionately "servicing" the instrument—treating it with the same oral devotion I give to a female partner—to be a massive trigger for my arousal. This leads directly into a vagus-mediated "oral prostate orgasm" and sets the stage for a full-body anal HFO. By reviewing video recordings of my solo sessions, I have eliminated a long-standing "blind spot." I saw a man in a deep, passionate, and intimate flow state. It is a powerful, uninhibited display of male pleasure, but I am acutely aware of the social stigma that tries to push this into the "BDSM",  "Sissy", "cuckold",  box—a box I strongly reject.

My questions to the women and "Switch" partners here:

1. Beyond the visual 'heat' of seeing a man in a state of raw, unmasked lust while orally 'priming' the instrument—how does this impact your deeper connection to him? Do you perceive this level of devotion as an intimate bridge leading toward our shared union—a form of collective foreplay? Or is there a risk of it feeling like a solo meditative dive where you are merely an observer? I am curious how this uninhibited preparation dissolves the barriers between us, or if it creates a 'private space' that feels difficult to enter for a partner.

2. Dealing with Stigma: How do you, as a partner, navigate the gap between the world’s 'distorted lens'—the BDSM or sissy labels I so strongly reject—and the raw, authentic intensity of the flow state we share? When you witness the depth of my pleasure and surrender, is that private reality powerful enough to render the social stigma irrelevant to you? I am curious: does the 'realness' of our shared intimacy outweigh the noise of the public labels?

3. The "Hidden" Life: Does the gap between the man I am in the world and the connoisseur I am in the bedroom add to the excitement for you, or does the social stigma feel like a burden?

4. The Disclosure & The "Anti-Kink" Stance: How do I explain that I enjoy this "priming" without a woman thinking she’s dating someone who wants "sissy-training" or "BDSM coercion"?

5. The Visual Impact of the HFO: Does seeing the "authenticity" of a full-body, hands-free explosion of joy make it more attractive to you, knowing it’s about biological peak performance and not a fetish role?

6. The "Sweet Spot" for Disclosure: In your experience, when is the best moment to hear this while dating? My theory is that sharing this after several successful dates and established intimacy is best. At that point, she knows me as a man. Does this "phased" approach make it feel like an exciting option rather than a "must"? What's the women's perspective about this? 

7. The "Glass Box" & Radical Honesty: I keep my collection of about 20 tools (including 17 unisex toys) in a transparent box in my bedroom, decorated with hearts as a tribute to a late loved one—a reminder that life is short and should be lived to the fullest. I choose not to hide them, as I believe in being unashamed of my journey. How do you react to a man who is this open and transparent about his collection? Does seeing the "hardware" as a life-affirming display change your perspective on the man, or does the social script still create an initial hurdle?

8. The Power of the Key: How does it impact your sense of empowerment to be the "key" that unlocks these profound HFO releases? How does witnessing a self-assured man surrender so completely to your direction influence your perception of his masculinity?
   
   
   

What a rush! I don't know if the rod is making my prostate have an orgasm, or if the toy in my ass is making it happen, but they kinda happen together and the feeling is incredible. Tuesday I did this and had an orgasm that kept going and going it lasted well over a minute and the only reason it stopped was because I started to pull the rod out of my penis. 

Sounding must of course be done safely, sterile, clean and secure. But the feeling is incredible, and when paired with Aneros, stimulating your prostate from inside and outside, it is nearly a life changer. 

Anyone play with both at the same time? If you sound, have you considered incorporating sounding into your sessions?

Eupho syn

MGX Syb

Helix syn v

vice 2

Program 

Aneros Psy

i enjoy them all at different times and maybe have had pleasure waves along the way but something happened this weekend that felt pretty close to what maybe a Super O - i had a weekend to myself and didn’t plan it but basically did 3 hours last night and, on and off, almost 12 hours today and in the last 2-3 hours I had these waves over and over of feeling like I was approaching and then beyond the point of no return - kind of- of a normal orgasm  I was shaking and making sounds and saying things I didn’t even know were in me.  I added a Playboy Seeker to the mix but just kept going from one to another (usually when a battery died).

It’s been an hour or so since then and I’m still getting these beautiful aftershocks and my prostrate and rectum still seem to be reacting like these things in there  

i have not known pleasure like it and it feels like such a unique experience it can’t really be described in the words I have. It was like there was pleasure everywhere and also nowhere. It was like I could stop it at any moment but was also completely powerless. I was in the experience, commentating the experience and watching it  

i noticed some things - there are choices along the way to lean in or pull away - to follow what your body wants or what your head wants. I made some movements and got into positions that I had no idea I could do and certainly didn’t think of them myself. For a lot of it just the slightest movement brought a waterfall of sensation.

And like I have read, it was kind of a spiritual experience.

I kind of pushed out a regular orgasm at the end and it was powerful but I didn’t need it, I kind of wish I hadn’t done it.

interestingly no porn, no music, a little thc, lights off. I got an erection once but had no interest in my penis at all which is a first.

celebrating!! And hoping now that my body knows what it is, it won’t take a day to get there every time!  

Note: this contradicts lot of advice, obviously this is very personal, everyone's journey is different. This is a good overview of mine.