Guys,
We have Polls for Frequency of Use & How much is too much? and duration - How long to ride the Aneros? but no Poll asking "What is the Best Time of Day to have an Anerosession?" so here it is.
Obviously, the time of day any of us has available dictates when we CAN have Anerosessions, but my question seeks to find if there is an optimal time period for our sessions.
Personally, I have found the BEST time of day for me is upon waking in the morning after a good night's rest. My body is already in a relaxed state, well rested and energized. My mind is still susceptible to re-entering a hypnopompic play state. Testosterone levels are peaking (morning wood?) and I haven't started to encounter stress associated with common daily activities. This is the time of day when I am most primed to experience bodily pleasure. The main drawback to this time of day is that little to no time can be spent building arousal to enhance an extended Anerosession.
Please vote for your BEST time period, if it straddles one or more choices just pick the one most closely associated. Please add any relevant commentary to your choice.
(Note: I've reconstituted this poll due to the data corruption which occurred during the switchover of forum software. Poll counts prior to the corruption were Midnight-4am = 8, 4-8am = 12, 8am-Noon = 9, Noon-4pm = 4, 4-8pm = 5, 8pm-Midnight = 9)
My best sessions are in the morning after showering and shaving. Rested and energized. The best of my sessions have been in the morning.
Morning, right after you wake up. You are still in that hazy dream state where cognitive abilities to analyze an aneros session are lessened.
I voted in the 4-8 a.m. slot. As an older guy, my T level (between 435 & 485) is usually submerged. It typically spikes between 3 a.m. and 4:30 a.m. and my libido sticks its head above the surface. Anywhere in that 90 minutes is a great time to start a session.
Early morning sessions are pretty ad hoc, spontaneous and not well thought out or fantasized in advance -- there's little serious meditation involved. If I've been considering a new approach, a different stim-target or combination of techniques it works out well in the 8 a.m. to 10 a.m. or an afternoon when I'm more deliberate, mindful, focused and less haphazard. For those sessions, I'm substituting mental anticipation, self-targeted fantasy, sensuous prep and serious meditation for brute T.
Late edit: I have adopted Cockadoodle's approach. Now I douche out when showering before retiring. That works well if my wife opts to play. If the 3:30 a.m. mood aims for a solo session, it's a simple pee-call and lube-job and I'm GTG. That takes the nuisance out of bothering with an enema in the wee-small hours of the morning.
I voted noon to 4. I have had great sessions at most times, but it seems like by noon, I am awake, got a bit of daytime living in me but I am not whacked out from the day. I really do enjoy wasting away an afternoon in Aneros bliss!
Hello Rumel, 🙂
I didn't vote, as I don't feel there is any one time that is better than another. My own experience seems to show that my body is receptive to prostate pleasure and Aneros sessions when it feels like it. Although, I suspect having Aneros sessions at similar times seems to encourage those times to be what is best. Although there are certainly times that are not best, say like when you are stressed out or tired.
Love_is
Great question, rumel!
I'm kinda with Love_is on this as I can have a session any time of day! But if I have to choose, I'm with you, rumel, mornings are ALWAYS good for me. I often suggest to guys who are having a harder time getting going with Aneros that they try having their sessions in the morning.
In fact, I set the soft alarm on my clock-radio to wake me at about 5:45am and if I'm aroused and ready, I often do a morning session...which brings me to another point. Lubrication, etc. I make sure to give myself an enema before going to bed...just to clean things up in case I want to do morning session. This prep works very well, as you'll very likely stay "clean" over night. I use a small amount of AstroglideX, a silicone based lube which is very slippery (no flames here, guys...we have lots of other lube discussions) and easy to use. I slip it in and away I go. Very handy, easy clean up and plenty for a short(er) session.
YMMV, of course.
Cockadoodle
Hello, rumel.
Too bad there's no "anytime, all night" option. So, I had to select midnight to 4 AM.
The nice thing about the all-nighter is, you're always ready when your body tells you to start and available for enhanced sex with your partner, if you have one.
I agree with cockadoodle that Astroglide X Silicone is the best choice for all night, plus a little Vaseline at the entrance.
Cheers,
Dave
IMO best time in terms of response is early AM wakening after a reasonably early night and a better-than-average rested state sorta drowsy dreamlike state where you could easily drift back to sleep but are alert enough to be horny able to direct yer thoughts and enjoy yer libido able to do what needs to be done yet able to let it all happen without being in control ...
that's how it was the first time i got there with my progasm
... have a good session like that and every time i think or write about it my dick gets rocked and leaky
same thing for gettin' laid it's the best time wake up early rested eat a couple grapes to salivate swallow and freshen yer breath then make a move on yer partner
- rip
Hi. Well elected the 12-4 am.
I'm a bit of a tope (not the fish) though in an indirect way it is, in other words I drink like one.
No, I insert it when I go to bed about 2 ish on a morn. I then promptly fall asleep and hopefully the Aneros is still parked there when I wake up.
When it's a nice day it's already inserted and hopefully 'BINGO'