How old were you when you discovered nipple stimulation or diddling?

Thought it was just a 'gal thiing' until I got serious about Aneros triggered orgasm.

I was about 45 when it started really working for me. I'm 54 now.

When I discovered the pleasure of diddling my nipples and caressing my erogenous zones at age 64/65, I found that diddling and caressing myself during my Aneros sessions gave me facility for greater attention into the operation of my Aneros devices. This also spilled forth into a greater appreciation of both foreplay and postplay in my Aless.

During years 1968-1972 when I was in college, I was certainly sexually "aware" but this was years away before Aneros came out in the mid 1990's. Aneros could have enriched my sexual experience years earlier!

I finally found good use of my nipples about a year ago, at age 62. This was one of the result of discovering the Aneros world and reading the very informative and interesting posts of this forum. My wife has no idea about my escapades nor the newly discovered sensitivity of my love buttons.

Life is wonderful

I always liked nipple play since my early thirties mostly along with some lustful pain from twisting or even using clothes pins, but still was wondering at how intensely - especially asian - guys could react when ever so carefully caressing their nipples. Only now in my mid fifties I understand. With re-wiring nipple play has become an out of the world experience to me. Today already the imagination of touching them can start involuntaries, can cause a sudden hard-on and even multiple orgasms.
Thanks, Aneros, thanks to you all for your posts sharing your experiences and thus having made this possible. Cheers! 🙂

Isn't it crazy how so many guys don't know or care that they can get dry orgasms by stimulating their nipples? It is all advertised for females, but not for males. I personally trained them in the month or so and it is a great alternative to penis or prostate pleasure. I was 21 and it is a lot of fun when I travel and want something nice and arousing, but don't have time or need to 'get off' in other ways.

@doncejankius, it was at age 21 when I was sexually aware as a "young" adult that I could have derived a great deal of benefit from stimulating my nipples or diddling. As a gay man, I was hardly sexually promiscuous, but I had occasional good times with a few guys over the years. None of them knew of nipple stimulation or didn't show it. I regret I didn't know of this pleasure until I discovered it by accident at the rehab hospital recovering after hip replacement surgery at age 67 a few months back! I could have been a great teacher of this pleasure to other men or women in sex!

It could also be cultural, at least in videos there are many South East Asians who use it part of their masturbation routine. But potential for all men to use as pleasure devices is completely forgotten and ignored in Western and other cultures. I guess it may be embarrassing, not manly enough. But it is entirely possible to either ejaculate for some (not for me) or pass several stronger and stronger dry orgasms before eventually drifting into a mental full body orgasm.

What I lack is patience and time. And of course with a permanent sexual partner my arousal level doesn't always build up to train my body to understand nipples as a main sexual organ. So they complement the activities now but once in a while I have a pure nipple session

My discovery came about at the onset of puberty - my nipples have always been 'perky' & the object of fascination by others - when I discovered that some shirt fabrics rubbing across my nipples would totally set me off.
However it required a very adventurous partner in adulthood to translate that into truly sexual terms.

@TommieBee, I must say that you have been truly blessed with 'perky' nipples at the onset of your nipples and then later in life with an adventurous partner. I like to diddle my nipples ever so lightly through my T-shirt during the day, but more so when I am naked in bed at night. I have also found that diddling myself ever so lightly revs up my Aless! 😉

BigGlansDC at the time it didn't seem like a blessing, since I found it embarrassing & I stuck out as different.
But in the end it's been a blessing. Mine are a bit larger than average for a male, & very sensitive - nipple stimulation to full body orgasm has happened a few times, but is not consistent. I sometimes miss my adventurous partner, although emotionally that relationship was a mess.
And yes, the quickest way to get me all hot & bothered is via my nipples.

I've never discovered it 🙁

Need an option for "Not yet"

@TommieBee, thank you for your response. Do you enjoy stimulating your nipples when you use the Aneros?

@lonewolf8, I just added a "Not Yet" option to my poll above. Feel free to respond.

Guys, nipple stimulation or diddling is very exciting when you come alive sexually not only in your nipples, but also in your breasts (pectorals) and chest. I, for one, have discovered the sheer delight of the connection that my nipples have with my genitals, groin, prostate, anus, and perineum. There is no need to be rugged or harsh in your stimulation. Gentle stimulation would do. Stimulate, diddle, or play not only with the nipples themselves but also the aureoles (the immediate fleshly areas surrounding them). Nipple stimulation is awesome not only in Aneros sessions, but also done with the Kegel Exercises and gentle breathing. It is fun and feels so good!;)

@BigGlansDC I believe I found out about my lovely nipples in my 40's through masturbation. Do you have any other techniques to help stimulate them more? What are more things I can do to "awake" them?

I normally rub the nipples or squeeze and release. When my wife does this during sex, I am ready to fly over moon.

I'm guessing there's no guides on how to achive this?

@BigGlansDC I use nipple stimulation as a prelude to using my Aneros, because over the years my body was trained to that simulation as a prelude to sex.
And you're right, gentle, gentle gentle!

I'm guessing there's no guides on how to achive this?

@lonewolf8, please see the following thread containing a short Webology of Internet articles on male nipple stimulation:

https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/nipple-stimulation-resources

@BigGlansDC I believe I found out about my lovely nipples in my 40's through masturbation. Do you have any other techniques to help stimulate them more? What are more things I can do to "awake" them?

I normally rub the nipples or squeeze and release. When my wife does this during sex, I am ready to fly over moon.

@MisterFantastic, just caress slowly and gently your nipples and try to get in touch with the sensations that this touching opens for you. You may be surprised. Also I have discovered that nipple stimulation or caressing opens up your body and grows upon you. You may do this solo or get your wife in on the action of this sexual play.

Stimulate, diddle, or play not only with the nipples themselves but also the aureoles (the immediate fleshly areas surrounding them). Nipple stimulation is awesome not only in Aneros sessions, but also done [...]

... on its own!

It is fun and feels so good!;)

Affirmative!

The more I do it the more I love it, meanwhile I can send myself into a state of sudden bliss only by playing with my nipples. It's such a fun!

Don't miss to try wetting your fingers with really cold water before touching!

Cold is hot!

Btw, touching is not even necessary, coming close as possible without touching can be even more intense. And if touching do it as slight as possible and don't move for some minutes, only hold your finger's position but let go involuntaries moving your legs, hips and pelvis. It's so awesome!

I'm guessing there's no guides on how to achive this?

Maybe my report about my "standinggasm" can give you some helpful hints how to awaken your nipple awareness.
Especially NOT touching them but coming as close as possible enormously heightened my sensitivity. Good vibes!

Maybe my report about my "standinggasm" can give you some helpful hints how to awaken your nipple awareness.
Especially NOT touching them but coming as close as possible enormously heightened my sensitivity. Good vibes!

You lucky guy @SOwithoutAneros !! so awesome!!

I discovered nipple stimulation when I finally matured sexually at age 68. I had my first dry, contorting, full body multiple orgasms, with nipple/breast stimulation, and A-less. I finally activated my dual button control panel, for my lower half. They were the most intense multiple orgasms I had ever experienced, at seven months into my journey.

my dual button control panel, for my lower half

That's it! Such a long time underrated! But finally the benefit to consider even our later years still worth living as full of surprise and undiscovered pleasures. Push the button! 😎

@SOwithoutAneros, oh at 68 I have just begun to discover all the buttons all over this beautiful body I was blessed with. "Full of surprise and undiscovered pleasures" is an understatement!

Go forth and Discover!

"Full of surprise and undiscovered pleasures" is an understatement!

Go forth and Discover!

Yeah! Affirmative! Cause the best is yet to come! 😀 Life is so wonderful!

@SOwithoutAneros, I fully concur with your post about not touching the nipple, and sending yourself into a "state of sudden bliss".

I actually forgot that the method you described was exactly how I had my first contorting full body multiple orgasms. Since I started on my journey I have been able to move my sexual energy throughout my body with the hovering hands technique. I decided to place my index finger about 1/4" above my nipple(s), never touching them. About five minutes in, everything lit up in my lower regions and my body started convulsing and contorting, which sent me physically, mentally, and spiritually beyond anything I had ever experienced.

WOW, what a ride!

@m-bc, thanks for your post, making me doing it just again and experiencing that the technique's results have become awesome beyond belief. As if there aren't any limits for the bliss our nipples can provide us, this was overwhelming. Every technique I skip for a while comes back with even greater pleasure and ecstasy. Phew!

@m-bc and @SOwithoutAneros, the most wonderful thing I have discovered about nipple stimulation or diddling, is the most delicate touch calls forth pleasure which can result in a Super-O or a MMO. I love diddling in bed at night!

@BigGlansDC, it's interesting that you mentioned "the most delicate touch calls forth pleasure." I don't recall seeing that phrase before, but it absolutely needs to be a lesson in pleasure. I sometimes have to remind myself, be gentle, when finger touching any part of my body. I have found that my body always responds much more favorably to a light touch than a heavy handed approach. I do understand that a heavier caress may be called for, depending on other circumstances and anticipated outcomes.

Take the time to gently explore your body with your very sensitive finger tips. You will push buttons you never knew you had.