Hi all,
I've been playing for a while and still feel lost. I am trying to find the sensations are they deep inside, near you anus or what? I can't seem to focus on them or even find them.
I am hoping someone can pinpoint roughly and describe the feeling, so I can have an idea what I am looking for.
Thank you to anyone who replies.
You can feel pleasure everywhere. However,for your question,anal canal,inside your perineum,just above the anus,base of penis and tip of penis. But you must be open to the pleasure. I think maybe you look too hard. Relax,give what you’re doing for arousal your attention and let pleasure come of it’s own accord. What do you do to arouse yourself?
Thank you for the reply it is really appreciated. I think I am looking to hard trying to pinpoint it. In my head, I am like where should I be focusing, is this the right spot. Though, I should just think more generally around the area and not worry.
I normally start with some relaxation, mindfulness then my imagination, bit of nipple but then after an hour I surrender to porn.
Though, I should just think more generally around the area and not worry.
Yes, focus on the whole are between anus and tip of penis, the sensations tend to move around but the prostate kinda-sorta feels like it's behind and below your penis.
I am hoping someone can pinpoint roughly and describe the feeling, so I can have an idea what I am looking for.
The easiest sensation to identify is the feeling of your anal sphincter being stretched from the presence of your Aneros massager. Another sensation is the urge to urinate upon first penetration/seating of your device, this is a good indication that your prostate is being engaged. The myriad of other sensations may originate anywhere in your body, hands, feet, earlobes, neck, eyelids, nipples, etc. they may feel like they are vibrating or buzzing/throbbing. muscles in arms or legs or abdomen may experience involuntary spasms or little electric shock like sensations.
You might want to also take a look at some of the Milestones listed in the Aneros WIKI for other signs. New prostate massage adventurers may experience many new sensations that they do not yet associate as pleasurable. This is where your mind has to reinterpret these sensations and focus your intent on them as pleasurable, this does not occur automatically for many men. I would recommend that you not look for any specific sensation as this constitutes another type of expectation which may blind you to the more subtle sensations which are part of the whole Aneros experience.
Good Vibes to You!
Wow guys!
You all really sorted it out with the information it's really appreciated. I will carry on playing and see where it takes me. I relise I need to stop getting caught with the idea that feelings will be in the exact location of the prostate. I am going to start trying aless to also see if that helps with generating feelings. I will get back in a couple of weeks and let you know my progress.
Best wishes,
Paradise
I am going to start trying aless to also see if that helps with generating feelings.
Might wanna rethink this until you get a grip on things. I would not say that aless is for advanced ppl, but try to get a grip on things first. Right off the bat I would say read up on helghasts anchored tension I think for most this is the fasy track to get things going. You also may want to try Mindgasm which is free this month. Don't worry about the no nut nov. challenge . This basically teaches anchored tension, and familiarizes with how everything works down there and how to exercise it.