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@letithappen999 Congratulations on your journey! It sure sounds to me like you are progressing towards something bigger! You didn't say how often your sessions are. I find that the "do-nothing" method works well for me. Some sessions are mind-blowing; others are just so-so. I (and you) can't control how our bodies (prostate) respond to the stim. Unlike a penile orgasm, you just can't "rub-out" a prostate orgasm. It doesn't work that way. Just let whatever happens, happen! IMHO, I would not try to "force" anything through more contractions. You don't want the Aneros' mechanics to become too tedious or repetitious. If your prostate is ready for a dry-o or a super-o, it will happen on its own. If it doesn't, don't force it; just ride-it-out and see where it leads the next time. You are making great progress; don't get discouraged! Good luck to you!

PS You didn't mention anything about Aless. Are you experiencing "non-Aneros" pleasures? Does your prostate tell YOU when it is ready for another session? Or are YOU forcing the sessions? Something to consider...

My sessions average about once a week. I do experience Aless sensations and sometimes get really aroused just flexing and clenching my ass. I watch porn without the Aneros inserted and try to exercise the muscles down there while I'm really horny. When I think about the Aneros I start to get really horny and start getting slight buzzing down my ass and inside, and then decide whether or not I can put the time in. My sessions are semi-spontaneous and sometimes last more than 2 hours. How much of my Aneros time should be invested in fantasizing about sexual pleasure? I have sexual fantasies that I hope to fulfill by having different kinds of orgasms in addition to traditional ejaculatory orgasms. Is it possible to have an Aless orgasm before having an orgasm with the Aneros inserted?

I believe someone else has mentioned they had their first super-O A-less, so it's possible.

You could try some erotic hypno (Kinky Shibby is a good one), and concentrate more on what you are feeling instead of what you are seeing; it could be help you relax and build aroused at the same time. I do tend to watch some porn, always before my sessions not during, and it helps me build some mental fantasies and images that really builds arousal. Sometimes I listen to some erotic hypno or audio porn during my sessions, sometimes not.

I would also suggest you forget about the mechanics of muscle groups/contractions and basically do nothing and experience what your body/prostate is doing; follow the pleasure, breath, and try to relax. Enjoy.

@letithappen999 I can offer further comments on your questions. These are based on my own experience and may not reflect your "ideal" Aneros sessions.
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"When I think about the Aneros I start to get really horny and start getting slight buzzing down my ass and inside, and then decide whether or not I can put the time in. My sessions are semi-spontaneous and sometimes last more than 2 hours." When I get that 'urge' for an Aneros session, I usually find the time right away. Delaying it sometimes is not the most productive in terms of arousal. The sessions don't have to be very lengthy (most of mine now average 30-45 minutes and no more). I find that I have more "alone" time in the middle of the night or very early morning, so I try to coordinate my sessions around that.
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"How much of my Aneros time should be invested in fantasizing about sexual pleasure? I have sexual fantasies that I hope to fulfill by having different kinds of orgasms in addition to traditional ejaculatory orgasms." An excellent approach! I find that when my brain concocts sexual fantasies, I know I am getting really aroused. Don't suppress these fantasies; try to build on them by incorporating an Aneros session. Let you mind be open to further fantasies! The fantasies can be wild and off-beat. It will be up to your brain to generate them. They will come when you are aroused sufficiently.
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"Is it possible to have an Aless orgasm before having an orgasm with the Aneros inserted?" Absolutely! Keep your mind open to any and all possibilities with pleasurable prostate sensations. Frequently, my prostate will "signal" to me when it is time for a session. Listen to it and you will be rewarded!

Hi @letithappen999, you have choosen yourself a wonderful name. That's what it's all about, stick to it and don't get too concerned about doing something else than relax. If those involuntaries happen try to sense whether your mind already wants to take over and support them voluntarily. Exactly if that happens, refuse to give in this shaking, squirming and writhing, instead try to calm down and wait for something new, never experienced. It will come out of nowhere, you never did feel the same before. And suddenly these feelings will crush over you and wash you away. And only then you will know you'll have made another little step forward. But the best is yet to come, again and again and again. And none of us knows, where all this may lead to. Perhaps we will transcend to another realm, to me it already sometimes felt that way. Be glad about your success so far and take that inner smile with you into your next session - to discover vibes mankind has never seen before. Expectations can't help because you still have no idea what is waiting for you. The only thing you can do: Let it happen! 😉

P.S. If you dare to

try some erotic hypno (Kinky Shibby is a good one)

I'm with [USER="54633"]busdrvr[/USER] and, too, recommend to let Shibby take you a little deeper into trance to get in touch with your vibes floating through your body and to learn to visualize them and later to direct them. Please, by all means, follow the instructions for beginners. Later or to repeat a session you can access the files directly. To preempt your questions, there, too, are files involving the use of an Aneros on her command. Though she truly endeavors to do you no harm, her sweet voice is so seductive, it might become addictive. Take care, have fun and good vibes for your further journey!
P.P.S
If you want to take a book with you, perhaps I may suggest: Mantak_Chia_The_Multi-Orgasmic_Man. It was extremely helpful to me to understand and not to become too anxious about what's going on with me.