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It sounds awesome, whatever it is! I wonder if a Super-O for a newbie would be a medium level O for an expert.??? Everything is subjective and each person's experience is unique. But let's say it were possible to objectively measure the intensity of an orgasm. A level 5 could feel like the most intense orgasm to someone experiencing it for the first time while the experienced person would say it was a medium level orgasm. Or could a person be capable of achieving more intensity through practice? I have no idea being a newbie myself. Feeling anything at all was an accomplishment for me after months and months of nothing. I am happy for any orgasm that comes my way. 🙂

Hey @DarkOrb ,

long time no see.

The bigger amount of pressure was the key!!! Something happened!!! And it happened so fast I couldn't even comprehend it at first. I can't even really describe it, but I felt a massive amount of sexual energy located in a space not bigger than a ping pong ball.

I felt a massive orgasm wave rolling in. I had a dry super-o, but it felt "fuller", bigger (I wouldn't say more "intense") and warmer than an Aneros super-o.

I had this once or twice while riding a dildo and one time when my partner massaged my perineum vigorously. I don't have the explanation for that, but some thoughts. First of all, your prostate is not a switch. There is no failsafe "this touch", "that rhythm", "this pressure" or "that speed". There is only learned & trained response and the occasional lucky punch where your nervous system is very receptive for a random reason. When you catch such a random moment, you get the hefty immediate response you described. I hope your next try works just as fine, but it may not (keep us posted).

Our pelvic floor does some clenching by reflex when we are aroused. That's why it's so hard to masturbate your penis to orgasm w/o ejaculating, because your pelvic floor muscles will tense and stimulate your inner sex organs every time you stroke your frenulum and/or coronal ridge. It seems to me that massaging the prostate vigorously, can sometimes spark involuntary deep pelvic muscle contraction in the very same way. You hit some kind of reflex and that's why the arousal escalates so quickly and the feedback loop is so strong and feels so "full". My guess is, that consequently you had more muscles and breathing involved (reverse kegels even?).

See, the do nothing approach doesn't encourage body-scale muscle tension and panting (to much blow kills the initial spark), but stillness. When you think of classic ejaculatory orgasms, you may know that these can push and expand an orgasm quite a lot. So I guess you just squared the circle: listening in to and finding the spark in your nervous system while managing to build massive amounts of oxygen and musclework w/o losing the spark in the process.

I'm made a lot of assumptions here, so pardon me if I got everything wrong. 🙂

When my Aneros super-o was an 10 (from 0 = worst and 10 = best), then this was a 15. This blew everything totally out the water and I have the feeling, I can reproduce that easily. Have I found my prostate and is that how manual prostate stimulation feels like?

Hm, what I learned is that there is no end to the scale - sky is the limit. There is always the possiblity to experience an orgasm, that outshines all the previous ones, just because there is no top end that would set a limit to what's possible. I'm very happy that you expanded your scale so spectacularly! The best part is, that this can happen again at any time - for the rest of your life. 😀

Cheers, Unfug

Hey @DarkOrb -

"Lucky." - Napoleon Dynamite

I have this Njoy too, but haven't gotten that kind of response. I don't use it much, because it milks me a bit, then I feel drained. Not always in a satisfied way, either. Sometimes it's an emotional drain too, like just after a traditional wank, and I don't want anything to do with sex or arousal for a while.

Qs:

1. What position(s) were you in? I want to try what you did, and shoot for stimulation instead of milking. That big Njoy ball always signaled the end of the road for me-- once I went there, anything smaller that I put in afterward felt a little lost.

2. What was the Reddit advice you're referring to?

Cheers.

Z

@Unfug

Very interesting read. Unfortunately you are right, I wasn't able to reproduce it yet. However, like you said, it can happen again at any time - and to know that is very exciting.

@Zenopause

1. I was lying on my back, with angled knees.

2. That the bigger bulb is for brute force and somebody who didn't found their prostate yet, while the smaller bulb is more for precision and for guys, who already know on how to locate the prostate. These informations seem to be obvious, but it wasn't as clear for me in the beginning.