What do you think about?

Here is my oddness. When I get an erection I get amazing feelings,when I have none I feel much less, so the opposite of you. I think seeing my erect cock with the feelings I describe is what I think about, what turns me on. I see it pulsing and stuff and it is what does it for me, which sounds very random to be turned on by such a thing.

If I don't focus on the feelings and trying to stay relaxed the whole session goes down the tubes.

I'd say what I think about in sessions has changed throughout my journey. Earlier on, I was more focused on 'riding the p waves' and consciously trying to amplify what I was feeling into something more.

Eventually I started to realize that I was forcing a lot of things. Sometimes the 'orgasms' that I was feeling weren't all that pleasurable, and the contractions that I thought were involuntary, were really just me trying to move things along.

So I started to focus on telling myself to relax; if I experienced pleasure, I would tell myself not to try to do anything with it, but only to experience it and enjoy what I was feeling.

Over time, relaxing became automatic and I didn't have to worry about telling myself to do anything. So now, I only pay attention to what I'm feeling and I let the aneros and my body do the rest.

Guys,

For the "do nothing" method to work for me, I focus on relaxation which enables my body and mind to open up to whatever arises in a session.

Likewise, I enjoy employing the "do nothing" method during Aless when I can sit still, breathe calmly, and turn inward to enjoy the benefits of Aless sweetness.

Thom./BigGlansDC

I also just focus on relaxing. When I use "The Quick and Dirty Method" or another technique that uses contractions I try to breathe deeply, relax, but also build arousal with fantasies. With the "do nothing" technique, I definitely have the most success with simply deep breathing and relaxation. It seems natural for such a passive method.

I focus on relaxing, at least at first. Then as the "feeling" takes over I tend to focus on what the Aneros is doing and on my prostrate and anus combo. Mostly I focus on the pleasure, no matter where it's coming from.