What an unbelievable journey over the last 18 days...
I'm writing this in a complete state of arousal.
I am no stranger to anal play, having used a number of toys over the years, but I finally bought a Trident Helix on the 1st Feb, having read a lot about the Aneros range. I have used it 5 times now, with a break overseas for 6 days, where I left it at home. I have scoured the forums in the last few days to try to understand the feelings I've had and to understand what I might expect. There are some great posts that have taught me a lot.
The two times I used it before I went away, were pretty intense and gave me some great feelings and I got plenty of experience with playing around with positions, kneeling, on my back on on my left side. I found that kneeling worked best. A week ago, I used it for a 3 hour session, which didn't really do much, as I could not get the noise out of my mind.
However, on Friday, I have a really rewarding 2 hour session, where I tried to stop chasing the wave and 'just let go'. I had some really good pleasure waves and pleanty of involuntary contractions, but nothing that took me over the edge into something like others have written about. I'm still trying to work out how to 'label' the feelings I am getting. 5 hours later that day, I was still squeezing my PC and giving myself some incredible feelings, with plenty of pre-cum - and this was standing in the queue to order Thai lunch.
I really wanted to involve my wife in my journey, so plucked up the courage on Saturday to tell her about what was happening. Her first question was what it would do for her and concern that it might replace her but I reassured her that it was more about finding a higher sensual and spiritual level for our sex life. Yesterday, we ended up having sex, without the helix, but after licking her to a number of orgasms, I asked her if she would touch all parts of me other than my penis.
Wow! My penis remained quite soft, but as she rubbed my inner thighs, abdomen, perineum and nipples, I started to feel quivering in my abdomen, centred just above my pubic bone. Finally I asked her to touch my penis and she brought me to an amazing climaz.
Wind forward to last night. I still had amazing feelings and buzzing in my perinuem and abdomen and woke up at about 4am. It was pitch black in the room and, lying on my back, I started to try one of the techniques described by [USER="46030"]DarkOrb[/USER] . Without the helix, I introduced a tiny squeeze of my transverse abdominis muscles, pulling them down towards my spine. It felt like the TA muscle squeeze was causing my prostate to be massaged internally. After about 30 minutes, my whole body was buzzing. My back was tingling and I was warm all over and then suddenly I felt my abdomen 'turn over' and a clap in mhy brain along with an incredible sensation that lasted a few seconds.
Then for the next 30 minutes, I had what I can only believe were 7 or 8 dry Os, but leaking a large amount of pre-cum. My hips thrust up and my whole body was shaking. My hips and head came off the bed as lights flashed behind my eyelids. My penis was soft the whole time. It almost felt like cramping in my abdomen. I was then able to just allow the small squeeze to take me over another hill.
My wife's alarm went off at 5:30, but I continued to have dry Os while she got ready for work. When she left, I then got up and had a BM and a flush out, before getting back into bed in darkness for the next two with helix inside. At first I just lay there listening to shibby's waterfall seduction and not moving, but quite quickly I went back into dry Os - or maybe they were mini Os - not sure I know the difference.
I could feel the helix right on my prostate but I didn't have to make any contractions at all, as I could feel tiny movement sensations there and it buzzing at me like a frustrated bee. Over the next two hours I had the most incredible orgasms, both on my back and side. There were so many huge involuntary contractions that sucked the helix so far into me. I don't know if this is what the auto-fuck refers to.
I have also discovered the connection from my nipples to my prostate, something I never knew existed.
Now I sit on the train, with my prostate and perineum screaming at me, demanding that I make some contractions. I have to resit the urge as I'm off to a job interview. My prostate is awake!
Thanks to all the expert members here who have shared their valuable experiences, that have helped me hugely, in particular
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