Trying aneros for the first time.

Expectations are already high. You’re going to need to dampen them down. Go into tomorrow with a clear and open mind,and just be open to any new sensations or experiences.

Enjoy the experience second by second,don’t chase the o,let it come of it’s own accord. And try not to be disappointed if your don’t get a big O.

Good luck.

I've experienced this same phenomenon in the past. I would urinate and after finishing feel the urge again,  expressing clear semi-sticky material. I've come to the conclusion that it's seminal vesicle fluid. 

Oh, and good luck on your journey! Stick with it even when you feel nothing is happening, it's definitely a process and fully worthwhile. 

Posted by: @amstel86

The main reason I’d like try prostrate play is because I’m into semen retention and producing loads of precum and cumming hands free.

Let me know your thoughts and any advice please.

First, let me welcome you to the forum. I'd like to reinforce what @Helghast said about lessening any 'expectations'. It seems to me you are hinting at or might be interested in 'prostate milking'. Please see my post in the thread Prostate Milking during Semen Retention which contains links to prostate 'milking' related information resources. Remember to enjoy this exercise as your world is going to change with the use of these massagers.

Good Vibes to You!

Thanks for all your reply’s. I’m not expecting anything amazing on the first attempt but I am looking forward to seeing what happens. I think this forum has given me a good understanding of what to expect and I’m willing to be patient. I guess I’m feel like I’m not starting from complete zero as my bathroom escapades seem to suggest my prostate already responds to stimulation from muscle contractions. Also I’ve been ejaculating hands free for some time now just through mental stimulation. I’ve even managed it while still soft on two occasions, which is a huge turn on. I was thinking to try some 420 before my attempt tomorrow, it always makes me super horny although something tells that might not be wise. Any thoughts?

Posted by: @amstel86

I was thinking to try some 420 before my attempt tomorrow, it always makes me super horny although something tells that might not be wise. Any thoughts?

Please see the recent thread Who has achieved Super-Os unassisted—meaning sober only?. There are numerous threads on this Forum which discuss use of various recreational drugs/substances to augment one's Anerosessions. Cannabis is frequently cited as a substance of choice. A few such threads are "drugs with the Aneros...?, Would pot help a new user?, Weed, Marijuana + Aneros = 🙂, Marijuana! and Aneros and Microdosing & Aneros? to help you decide for yourself if you want to go down that path.

Good Vibes to You!

So session complete!

My overall verdict is amazing. 
Let me talk you through my experience. I woke up this morning excited but quite quickly I realised I wasn’t really feeling horny, even a bit negative. It felt like some of what you guys had said on here was beginning to ring true and I had built up to this day too much. So anyway I decided to smoke a little weed and watch some porn and see if I’d get turned on. It already felt like I was trying force things a bit before I’d even started. Before smoking I had a shower and cleaned myself properly still determined to try out my aneros. While in the shower I finger my ass a little to see how it would feel. The answer, pretty good. It felt nice and got me hard pretty quickly. Finally a positive sign I thought. So I went and enjoyed a nice relaxing joint and watched some porn, which again got me hard. 
So now I’m feeling nice and relaxed and tiny a bit horny but still surprised I’m not feeling super turned on. It’s time to start my session. I spread a towel on my bed and position my self on my back with feet flat and knees up, with a pillow under my lower back and just relaxed for a bit. I felt pretty good at this point. So I lube up some fingers and start to lube and finger my ass very slowly. Which felt good. After a little while like this I decide it’s time, so I give the toy a generous coating of lube and begin to insert it. It slides relatively easily in at first which felt great and then my ass just sucked in to the hilt with a bit of a slurp noise. I loved that bit. Instantly I felt good so I decided to just try the “do nothing method” and I just lay there. The toy felt super comfortable in my ass and I just lay there feeling super relaxed. After a couple minutes I notice my ass give a small contracting without my input after another minute it did again. I notice my legs are shaking. Not sure if this was from the position, the toy or the weed. Suddenly I realised I could feel the toy against my prostate. And I actually feel the prostate like a glowing ball just up behind my ball sack. It’s like im feeling something I never new was there and it’s so tangible. I’m feeling amazing now and I just try and focus this feeling. I just lie there for a while utterly amazed it can feel this good. I decide to try a contraction so I pull in my ass and feel the toy push up against this ball of pleasure. It made me cry out even though I was expecting not to do that. I haven’t moaned like that since I can’t remember when. So I carry on like that for maybe 5 mins. Trying more contractions and just loving it with my head loling from side to side and moaning with pleasure. It was truly fantastic. But then it started to fade and I started to come back to my sense. I thought this is just the beginning I can’t wait for more. But more never came. I tried relaxing and trying get that feeling back but I couldn’t find it. I could feel the toy inside me but it wasn’t doing anything for me. After about an hour of trying different things. I decide to switch the vibrator on see what it did. It felt great but not in anywhere near the same way as earlier. So I just lie back and allowed myself to ejaculate hands free in my usually way expect the orgasm was very intense and I produce a huge load of spunk. The end. Can’t wait till next time. 

Welcome.  Great success in your first time and posts!

Posted by: @amstel86

It’s like im feeling something I never new was there and it’s so tangible. I’m feeling amazing now and I just try and focus this feeling. I just lie there for a while utterly amazed it can feel this good.

Yes!

But then it started to fade and I started to come back to my sense. I thought this is just the beginning I can’t wait for more. But more never came. I tried relaxing and trying get that feeling back but I couldn’t find it. I could feel the toy inside me but it wasn’t doing anything for me. After about an hour of trying different things. I decide to switch the vibrator on see what it did. It felt great but not in anywhere near the same way as earlier.

Worry not.  My early experiences yielded much less sensation (albeit sober), and as they became more successful, were more along the lines of the following.  Allow and accept the appearance, and disappearance, of even minor swells of new sensations or excitement.  Happily let them go at the drop of a hat.  Their appearance are what fuels us to try again another time.  Your body responded remarkably at this early point.

@helical thanks and yes I really think it did. Might try again later if I get the urge lol. 

@amstel86

You had a pretty good first day. Congrats.

Posted by: @amstel86

But then it started to fade and I started to come back to my sense. I thought this is just the beginning I can’t wait for more. But more never came.

Sounds like the body ending the session. It’s normal and a good idea to learn when it’s over so as not to waste your time. You’ve only just begun,it’ll need a little time.

Posted by: @amstel86

I tried relaxing and trying get that feeling back but I couldn’t find it. I could feel the toy inside me but it wasn’t doing anything for me.

This was a learning mistake. Trying and searching usually have the opposite effect. As the good times fade,it’s possible to paddle up the wave again,but instead of chasing it or searching,work on re-arousing yourself. Some erotic fantasy maybe,refocusing on breathing and relaxation.

Dont make the further mistake of trying to recreate what happened,this often results in session death. 99% of sessions and super o are never the same as before. Just start over with your do nothing technique and let it take it’s own direction. 

@helghast thanks for your reply and all the advice I’ve received. Your obviously right and I was aware I was getting in my own way once things had died down. I enjoyed this first experience and it’s been a real eye opener. So many of the things I’ve read have come to be and I hope I can progress more in future. I’m confident I can progress.