Too Good To Continue (OMG!!!)

The only way I can describe this is ... as if I, myself were becoming a orgasm! Wow! The orgasms became so intense that I felt as if I was being catapulted out of my body. This feeling kind of scared me a little, like I was reaching a point of no return. ... it was kind of freaky, like maybe I had transcended to a point where I am in a continuous state of orgasm. I thought to myself, "maybe my body isn't designed to handle this much pleasure??" Has anyone experienced anything like this? Having to stop a session out of fear of no return?

I chuckle to myself every time I read a similar account of one's Super-O Don't worry! Your body IS designed to handle that much pleasure, it's just your ego messing with your mind out of fear of losing its illusory control. You will find numerous similar descriptions in the threads My First Super Orgasm & My Best Super-O and How I Did It.

As far as I know NO ONE has ever failed to return from their Super-O voyages. So, congratulations and fear not Captain, keep sailing your orgasmic oceans.
Good Vibes to You !

@Years2CenteR as @rumel said, don't worry, I've been there when every cell in my body came together at the same time for nothing but pleasure. I know the first time I started climb higher than I had before, I had a split second of doubt but I allowed myself to relax into it more knowing I was safe and no physical harm would come to me, letting the pleasurable sensations flood over me, envelope me, take me over knowing that my mind wouldn't allow anything more than I was able to handle. I haven't looked back since, I'm just waiting patiently now for the next level to be presented to me.

@Years2CenteR
Great recounting of your session! I once panicked during a super O. I though I was losing control... it just kept hitting me and hitting me... I remember thinking okay I gota stop this or I’’m going to cease to exist!

Interestingly I haven’t come back to that level in a year... so I think It possibly did freak me out a little. Lol

@Years2CenteR, Congratulations to your marvelous experience with waves of Super-O's and just pure pleasure. Can you tell us which Aneros model that triggered this experience?

@BigGlansDC and anyone who would like to know... I am using the Helix Classic. The same one I purchased 10 years ago! Call me old school, but it still works for me, lol. I have experimented with other off brand prostate massagers but I always get back with my Helix Classic... Don't wanna make her jealous and besides, I think she loves me! Lmao

Btw, this experience does not detour me from sailing the "orgasmic seas" @rumel .. I like that one! We are all captains of our own voyage.. it's all up to us how near, how far.. to wherever we want to go. These oceans are expansive. So much to see, so much to experience. You never know what your going to find? Not a single person's voyage is charting the same coarse. But we can all come together on this dry land to discuss our journey's.. share our unique experiences. At the risk of falling off the edge of the world, I will continue to sail. You flat earther's might appreciate that one :p Anyway I wouldn't give up this beautiful discovery up.. not even for a million f#$!ng dollars! And believe it or not, there are men who have racked up that much money on a quest to achieve ultimate sexual gratification... Look at all these wealthy porn producers.. There is not a single ''sexual fantasy come true" that even scratches the surface of this!! This knowledge inside of you, is like a surefire map to the Holy Grail.. it's worth more than it's weight in Gold! Would I ever give it up? Ummmm... That would be a Big Hell No!! 😀

There is not a single ''sexual fantasy come true" that even scratches the surface of this!!

That^ is a REALLY good point. The fulfillment of sexual fantasies are always - at least for me - experienced as a bit of a disappointment. They are always less in every way than they seem they will be, or as they appear from a distance.

On the other hand, my experience with the Aneros so far seems quite the opposite: it's always more than I have imagined.

Another way of saying this is that there is something in us that is oriented to the infinite; and the finite nature of matter - no matter how salacious the fantasy being manifest - always comes up short.

@Katzy I think fantasy is infinite, as fantasy is in our head. A glance in the bdsm world shows how far things can go mentally. Playing out fantasies doesn’t ground them in reality if done correctly, because our minds are involved. Maybe what is hard with playing out fantasies is that they often involve more than one person so there is much more room for a fantasy to not be fulfilled the specific way we imagined it. BUT there is also the unpredictability of the added mind that can make the fantasy even more special.

In my experience, played-out fantasies have gone both ways, that is, they have been way better and way less exciting then imagined, depending on the partner(s). I defend fantasies adamantly because I have had orgasmic pleasure through fantasy fulfillment alone, and I know others for whom fantasy play is the basis if their sexuality. How can I tell a friend who loves dragging his girlfriend around the bedroom on a leash like a dog and whipping her, that the sensations they attain therein are less beautiful and valid than a series of time-altering orgasms I might have in an aneros session. Both are incredible in their own ways and both involve an infinite amount of imagination.

However, I too think that prostate play works on the infinite. It is easier to explore that infinity of possibilities as it only requires our own minds, and not the cooperation of others, those hard to find others, especially in this monogomous world where we don’t choose our partners solely on sexual compatability. Actually while with fantasies you go in hopes high and can be let down or brought to incredible new heights, with prostate play, you go in not even knowing what your hopes are. Funny, that.

And the ultimate is having the capacity to have prostate orgasms while living out fantasies. That’s the big combo.

@Years2CenteR I too wouldn’t give this toy up. I tell friends to buy it and they say it’s expensive. And I’m like, with the amount of orgasms I’ve had with my 70$ helix, i think I have in the last few months paid less than a penny per pop. And that is not counting the whole change of outlook on sexuality and life in general that came with it. Best deal ever.

@KatzyActually while with fantasies you go in hopes high and can be let down or brought to incredible new heights, with prostate play, you go in not even knowing what your hopes are. Funny, that.

Very interesting post!

Well, I suppose for me - and maybe this due to a poor imagination haha - fantasy is always mediated or conditioned by the finite; and this is why for me I totally lose any interest in fantasy of any kind once I get going on the aneros. We "go in not even knowing what [our] hopes are" because it seems to me we have nothing to relate to "it", analogously or otherwise.

I see what you mean when you say that one could remain mindful of the fantasy while participating in the actual manifestation of it; but somehow for me - at least until now - the flesh/matter/finite gets in the way and, for lack of a better way of putting it, the whole thing becomes a bit of a let down. But obviously you've been able to do this, and I envy you.

@Katzy yes exactly, we have nothing to relate to “it”. Describing “it” is like describing what strawberries taste like. And feeling it is akin to eating the strawberries themselves. I think I’m craving strawberries tbh.

I think that acting out fantasies correctly, like prostate play, takes practice. in order to live out a fantasy properly (every)one needs to be in the proper headspace. I don’t know the fantasies that you have tried to live out, but... In the world of role play, a lot of talking helps. In the world of physical acts, the act has to be done correctly. For example, have you ever gotten a terrible blowjob from one person and a marvelous one from another? Or the same goes for kissing. Think about the possibility that any physical act might just be poorly done, and that has to do not just with your partner but also both your compatability. I.e. maybe you fantasized about being spanked. Well not everyone knows how to spank well, or maybe you prefer harder spanks than your partner desires to give you (compatability). And for group sex fantasies that’s a mystery for me as it has always been a big letdown personally...

sorry to change the focus of this thread. Yay for massive orgasms so good they are scary! I say keep going!!!

Sounds like you are enjoying your journey haha. Helix classic never fails, what
​​​​​​ lube are you using for insert?

I use a thick layer of solidified coconut oil. it's has a consistency of vegetable shortning, spread evenly over the surface of the toy. Then I apply a messy, dripping handful of KY Jelly on top. Once the coconut oil melts and blends with the lube it provides amazing slippy movement.. its some sexy shit man!

Wow! finally! Seems like forever man.. finally a weekend off 🙂 After what I consider to be another Intense week of work.. you bet I'm ready for a little sexy Aneros alone time! But first I gotta hand it to @somebody Dude, your post really inspired me! Short but Sweet.. Your "experience" grabbed me in that you pretty much described my experience.. only I freaking chickened out, lol

Thanks for sharing. I have had one session like you described. I too got frightened. Now, I try to get back to that place, I want to explore it deeper and see where it takes me. This journey is awesome.

@Years2CenteR , I'm glad my post has inspired you. There is no feeling that comes anywhere close to that. I have found that when I can melt into the sensations they become even more soothing and sublime, not unlike the feelings you get after having having cum deep within your lover, your cock still hard and deep within, you both lie together holding, rubbing and kissing each other slowly and passionately. The sensations become part of your being.

@Giveitago56 , try not to chase it, you will get back to that point. I know it is so hard to think I was just there, why cant I get it back. The first time I had a big o I spent quite some trying to get back there only to wonder why I couldn't. Once I came to the realization it was my mind stopping me, I was able to let go of the expectations of how and why I got there to begin with. After that I was able to return to that place of ultimate pleasure I was seeking out, not every time but quite a few since.

@somebody Excellent advice given to @Giveitago56 It is absolutely counter productive to chase after or attempt to re-create a session experience. It almost never works out and almost always leaves you feeling unsatisfied and discouraged. My most remarkable sessions have occurred when I go into a session as a explorer, getting ready to embark on a journey into uncharted territory. I've been sailing these seas long enough to know that no two sessions are exactly the same.. Infact i am discovering new and unique sensations, opening new doors, surpassing any and all expectations continually! I have been on this journey for 10+ years.. I am still completely blown away by it all. Like how is this even possible? Lol!

I'm a little upset, I just lost half of what I typed!! Is there a way to restore? Please

Lol.. ah im just going to break it down. Last night I had one of the best sessions I've ever had, it was nothing short of breath taking! I'm hitting new and unique heights on my journey! Flowing with all the amazing advice from all the contributors of the forum, I reminded myself not to go into it with expectations, and my session was just, I am actually at a loss for words! It felt so damn good that I laugh-cried, uncontrollably for maybe 10 solid minutes.. I can't even explain how good it felt. Ground-breaking!

@Years2CenteR , outstanding! To me it feels quite liberating to just submit to the sensations, being in the moment to enjoy the pleasure flowing through me, just for me. Weather it is a calm seas orgasm where I feel like I'm floating above the bed or full body orgasm where it fees like my entire being is pulsing and ejaculating. No thinking is this good enough, am I doing it right, can I do more?

As far as restoring, I have closed out of a window where I was writing a story and when I returned in the posting box is a message at the top of the box that allows you to restore or discard. You should also see in the lower right corner every so often a box that pops up "autosave". This is how the post gets restored.

@somebody Thank you! Yes I did see the restore link. However, and for whatever reason, it only restored half of what I typed.. oh well, no biggie! I will just include some of the points I was trying to make in a future post. Thanks again my friend! Enjoy these remaining hours of the weekend