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01/21/2017 2:04 pm
First post here after using the Aneros Helix Syn for about a month. As stated in the title, I'm 17 years old, and I feel as if I've kind-of hit a "roadblock" in terms of progress towards a Dry/Super Orgasm. I've tried following the guides and such, and I haven't been in the mindset that a Dry/Super Orgasm is supposed to happen within the first few sessions. I believe that either my technique is off, my arousal doesn't last long enough, or I'm not patient enough before it really kicks in.
For point one, I'm not entirely sure if what I'm doing is the right method. I'm effectively doing Kegel Exercises during the session, and while it does feel stimulating, it doesn't feel as pleasurable as standard masturbation, and my PC muscles get tired eventually. My largest point of progress was thrusting with the Kegels, and experienced my first involuntary pulses alongside much more pleasure than before, though it didn't escalate into anything bigger than that, and I haven't reached that point since.
For point two, I do try to start my sessions aroused, and I do incorporate nipple stimulation and erotica in these sessions, but that arousal just seems to fade away after a period of time. As mentioned before, while it does feel stimulating, the Helix Syn doesn't add much "pleasure" to the session from my technique, so this still doesn't feel as worth it as doing regular masturbation.
The last point has more to do with the fact that I don't have much time to use this at its fullest potential. Using it at night is a no go from my own personal findings, as the feeling of tiredness overpowers any real feeling of stimulation or pleasure from the Aneros. Any time during the morning is gone to school (Obviously), and the afternoons are often gone due to homework or other hobbies. After 1 to 1.5 hours in a session, it even feels slightly uncomfortable. In the last few sessions, I've just reapplied lubricant, and that feeling goes away anyway, but I'm still pressed for time given my age.
I know I should probably read up on the Wiki more, but I just wanted some help with using this to its best potential. Cheers to all your Super-O's, have a good day.
01/21/2017 11:25 pm
You sound like you are in the exact position I was when I first started my aneros journey. I too am 17 and I am quite excited to hear that there is someone else here that is my age. I don't know if being young is a advantage or disadvantage but I think I have come along quite well in regards to success.
Most things you're going to have to learn by yourself on your own and it's going to take time. Maybe a considerable amount of time, depending on your mindset. People around here can give you advice and tips or even things they found to work, but in the end you have to find the right keys to your own door.
I'm on my 10th month or so and I'm just now starting to unravel my prostates secrets and let me assure you, it is entirely worth the time and effort. So patience is very nessacary.
If you dont already, a big factor if not biggest factor, I think, is finding that having an aneros inside of you to be generaly arousing and pleasant. I started off this way so I'm not too sure how you might start thinking this way besides in the beginnings using kegals to become aroused.
The problem here is that you are b6eong forceful in your play, and nothing about aneros or your prostate can be forced, atleast in the area of orgasms. So you are going to learn how to do nothing in your sessions and by nothing I mean nothing. You've got to find out how to let your body take over and a way to steer your way into that is by first getting comfortable with all your muscles down there and adventually finding the perfect ones you can squeeze lightly to get the engines going. Theres muscles ypu can exercise that will get you all twitchy down there but they are hard to feel and seperate from the rest. You'll rely less and less on holding thos certain muscles and get comfortable with the twitching. Things will become very pleasurable which of course will let things to escalate more. Pleasure will enhance itself and you'll find yourself not actually doing anything, it's just your body's natural reactions! It wants to please itself and all you are doing mentaly is acting as an aid and reciever. Relaxing, staying aroused, breathing, locating and growing upon all the sexual feelings that come from it are all things that must be learned along the way.
But learning about your body like this will take time and you wont always be successful, so you need to learn to let go and not set expectations. With expectations you aren't successfully seperating your normal sexuality from your aneros experiace and prostate.
Its so hard to pick out all the perfect tips and advice to tell you mainly because these are what worked for me. It may be that you will be entirely different, so I hope to just give you some ideas on how to look on things. In the end, its your door and its your keys. Only you will find them.
Relax. Let go. Feel. Stay calm. Loose all expectations. Expand the feelings. Be engulfed. Bliss.
01/22/2017 11:38 am
Wow! @Tatornator, you seem to have an old, wise soul, well said! Nothing to add.
01/22/2017 4:05 pm
@StevenJets413, yet another remark: perhaps this picture might help you to get your wave as I would best compare our Aneros usage with surfing.
And if you want to read more (what would be the best advice of all) and if you can't decide what to read first I would recommend
- Barbara Carrellas' "Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex For The 21st Century" (14 bucks the kindle edition - worth its printed weight in gold) and
- Mantak Chia's "The Multi-Orgasmic Man", (at the same price but as easy to find elsewhere by searching for "pdf the multi-orgasmic man")
As everything belongs to your mindset this wonderful read is able to widen your horizon and enables you to understand yourself.
Just closing my eyes I meanwhile only need to focus and I get my full body orgasm at will. Thus without porn, without arousal, without masturbation, even without Aneros, nevertheless longing deeply for my next ride with my toys.
Good vibes and have fun!
01/23/2017 12:53 am
@SOwithoutAneros Thanks! The complement means lot! And you aren't too shabby yourself, I've always thought that your well written comments to be on-par with rumel's.
This forums has been great to me, so I try to share aswell!
01/24/2017 8:53 am
@Tatornator Don't exaggerate, though thanks a lot for your compliment. 😀
This forums has been great to me, so I try to share aswell!
Thus you live the soul of this forum, I love it!
02/22/2017 11:19 am
Some very good advice here. I will add that to make the Aneros experience work, one needs to either greatly reduce masturbation frequency or better yet, give it up altogether and let Aneros sessions be your sole autoerotic pursuit.
02/22/2017 1:24 pm
Some very good advice here. I will add that to make the Aneros experience work, one needs to either greatly reduce masturbation frequency or better yet, give it up altogether and let Aneros sessions be your sole autoerotic pursuit.
Thats fine but what about sex? its hard to be able to do this like semen retention etc when you have to fulfil the needs of your partner as well?
02/22/2017 4:07 pm
My wife and I decided years ago to stop having sex. We have a great marriage, but we were very sexually incompatible.
02/22/2017 4:18 pm
@islandprostatemilker wow what? So you're both happy with that arrangement? She is able to take care of her needs?
02/22/2017 4:19 pm
Yes, we are both happy with that and her needs are met.
02/22/2017 4:39 pm
Yes, we are both happy with that and her needs are met.
Well I'm obviously not going to pry here but I would love to know exactly how the mechanics of that work, sounds really unusual a situation that.
02/22/2017 6:23 pm
I've found that have 1 to 2 week breaks are very helpful. So far my best sessions have been the first one after my breaks and thats with regular masturbation too. Just a few days ago I had my first wave after wave of full body orgasm that lasted maybe 45 minutes and only ended because I ended it by masturbating untill ejac mid super O. Jeeze that whole experiance was unbelievable. Ive never had even 1 full body before that. Let alone 30.
Another thing I do is read a book and concentrate on my session. It helps me not try too hard and destracts me to relax through the beginnings of the session. I would highly recommend anyone to try reading during. Haha dont expect to keep reading past a hlaf hour 😉 it wont be the priority any more.
Sorry if there are typos, using a phone and in a hurry.
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