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03/26/2015 12:24 pm
It's been over a year since I started with the Aneros and things are really starting to go to the next level. I've been through all the preliminary stuff (sensitive nipples, involuntaries etc.). Now it's at the point that I put the Helix in and just concentrate on the subtle feelings of my prostate. After a while, my mind just kind of goes to another place and I start feeling very much in an altered state and feels like my body is just floating. I then get the awesome feeling when you are about to cum for a few seconds and then it goes away. I get that feeling a few more times and then I always seem to ejaculate (which ends the session). Anyone else had this happen? I feel as though if I can somehow just NOT ejaculate, that the awesome session will keep going. I think that I'm close to a super-o, as that whole body floating feeling and full body energy is there, but then after a few pre-orgasmic waves, I end up blowing my load. Any tips on how to refrain from ejaculating during this stage?
03/26/2015 3:11 pm
Great to hear that things are going well. Try to refrain from any penis stimulation which includes a blanket over your penis or rubbing your penis on the mattress while on your side or stomach. Relax and enjoy and it will come.
03/26/2015 4:07 pm
I found, in the beginning, that involuntaries can't really manifest without some degree of tension being applied - either concsiously or unconsciously.
If you're applying tension, or contracting the PC, that gives a traditional orgasm some fuel - like @brucemarkland said, relax. Relax everywhere. 🙂
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03/26/2015 4:12 pm
I have been doing this on my stomach, so maybe I'll try it on my back next time (see if that helps). I usually don't contract (I just try to do nothing and relax). When I get that "altered reality" feeling and the floating sensation etc., then a while after the "pre-ejaculation" feeling starts happening a couple of times. I think that my body expects to ejaculate (because that's what it's been used to doing when that feeling happens). Not sure if I should try and "fight off" ejaculating (if possible) or what.
03/26/2015 4:59 pm
This used to happen to me all of the time, and I was lying on my side. I tend to thrust. With the Aneros inside, even my scrotum rubbing against my leg was enough to cause a surprise ejaculation. Lately, if it's been a while, I will go ahead and ejaculate the day before a session to reduce the tension and sensitivity of my penis. My sessions usually go much better this way.
03/27/2015 10:10 am
I completely agree with thugofalltrades. I used to have the same problem as you mrcanuck. The first time I ejaculated with the aneros it was on my stomach. So I thought ok let me try on my back, it happened again (2 more times actually) I learned to completely let go. That includes not even thinking about contracting my PC muscle haha. If you feel that you have a lot of tension, relax, and ejaculate a day before your session. That was the only way that worked for me to overcome this.
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03/27/2015 10:13 am
Thanks for the suggestions everyone. I'll try on my back and will also try to relax even more.
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