The End Of Penile Orgasm Challenge

Wet dreams are not a "loss of horniness" because you did not consciously make yourself have an orgasm. You should still be just as crazy horny as before you have a wet dream! Ignore what happens during your sleep state and go for it dude!!!! You got a plan, I can't wait to hear about when you get your Super O. I refrained from orgasm for 8 days on day 8 I had my first Super O and it was the key that unlocked the door for many, many more 🙂

I would love to but I have a Girlfriend so that's pretty much not possible for me

Interesting idea as I have been playing with chastity for a while. Its harder then you think to abstain even when you dont have a choice. You almost have to treat it like you were quitting smoking lol. @inhope, sex with your girlfriend does not require ejaculation. you can still have all of the sex you want without it.

@inhope, sex with your girlfriend does not require ejaculation. you can still have all of the sex you want without it.

what? the thing is I've said this to her before, when I'm wanting to save up my sexual energy, and she feels bad if i don't 'go' because she feel accomplishment in doing so. Plus her blow job skills are seriously incredible, and i mean seriously... oh she also has a huge wall to wall mirror wardrobe in her room and well.. yeah.. its hard to hold back.

On my last few ejaculatory orgasms i have found new heights of pleasure, perhaps a super wet O. I wouldn't want to deny myself those when they happen, the two or three I've had from shooting my load have been ethereal and astonishing, I'm amazed this phenomenon isn't more widely reported here.

@inhope, sex with your girlfriend does not require ejaculation. you can still have all of the sex you want without it.

what? the thing is I've said this to her before, when I'm wanting to save up my sexual energy, and she feels bad if i don't 'go' because she feel accomplishment in doing so. Plus her blow job skills are seriously incredible, and i mean seriously... oh she also has a huge wall to wall mirror wardrobe in her room and well.. yeah.. its hard to hold back.

On my last few ejaculatory orgasms i have found new heights of pleasure, perhaps a super wet O. I wouldn't want to deny myself those when they happen, the two or three I've had from shooting my load have been ethereal and astonishing, I'm amazed this phenomenon isn't more widely reported here.

@inhope the "ethereal" feelings you describe, I know those well!! Do you get them with an aneros in, or just from straight up sex? I've had them both ways

@techpump no only through sex/oral, twice through using a cobra libre and once jerking off. Never with aneros. The orgasm are so powerful I've often ended up unexplainably laughing or occasionally near tears/crying.

Hi guys,

Can someone tell if orgasm can be localized in the penis? I thought orgasm if it were localized would be localized most specifically in the prostate.

I find @MyTurn's original posting in this thread to be most tantalizing.

Thanks,

Thom./BigGlansDC

@inhope, yeah i understand lol. I was just saying that cause most men feel sex is pointless without ejaculation. Some of the best sex me and wife have ever had was when she never even unlocked me from my device. It just takes a different mindset.

@MyTurn, my advice to you is never say never. I've tried the ejaculation challenge for up to a month before I forgot about it and stopped counting 🙂

It definitely enhanced arousal and thus my rides but I found I had to relearn the pleasure of ejaculation after a while. Maybe it's just my age, 68, or the rewiring conflicting with the original wiring for ejaculation. IDK. Now I have to go back and relearn ejaculation LOL. The good thing is that it's like riding a bicycle and perhaps even more fun!

Never say never 🙂

I agree, she just can't accept that I don't want To cum sometimes, so she always does her best to make it happen

@MyTurn, my advice to you is never say never. I've tried the ejaculation challenge for up to a month before I forgot about it and stopped counting 🙂

Never say never 🙂

Well, with my current dating situation (zero), I'd rather be Super-Oing and not know how to enjoy penile ejaculation than vice versa! You can always relearn that when the time comes as it's easier to learn.

I have been away from this site and the Aneros, more or less, for years. I never reached the Super O in the past although once or twice I had some really nice waves.

I have decided that I am going to officially stop all penile stimulation from today. And I haven't masturbated for a week now. My only sexual stimulation will be perineal, anal and prostatic.

I have had my last penis orgasm for what could be many years to come. If I end up having a wet dream I will resist the urge that says: "since you lost the buildup of horniness due to the wet dream, reward yourself with penile orgasm". No. I will continue right where I left off and keep the rewiring going.

Does anyone want to join in as a king of pact? Is anyone already doing this? I will try to keep this thread up to date with my progress.

Timely thread as I'm on day 16 of self-imposed no ejaculation. I've always wanted to go 30 days and that is my current goal. My reasons are varied. First, I'm just curious how it will feel to ejaculate after 30 days. Two, some men on the chastity forums report wet dreams after 3-4 weeks and having a wet dream is a turn on for me. Third, I figure it will enhance my Aneros use and maybe help me breakthrough to dry O', HFWO's, or even a super O of which none I've achieved.

I have tried this experiment in the past. Going for periods of a few days to my best of 21 days. Ironically I've had mixed results with both the Aneros and my orgasms at the end of the time. There have been times where I went to masturbate and I had trouble even getting hard and other times where my cock was so incredibly sensitive that I thought I'd cum in a few seconds (rare for me as I take a while to cum).

As far as the Aneros I'm not sure how much, if any, it has helped. In a way I think after like 3-4 days the sexual tension might be counterproductive. In this latest stint I had better feelings in the first week than I did in the second. Even though I've been constantly aroused all day. This is doing 1 session almost every day.

For years, my penile orgasms have been limited to when I have sex with my wife. Otherwise for me it's--not the Aneros--but nipple orgasm. I find that I have more pleasurable erotic feeling in my genitals from nipple stimulation than if I stimulate the penis directly. And I regularly have clusters of orgasms this way--usually three or four at time. And even when I ejaculate, there is no refractory period. I am ready for another cluster within five or ten minutes.

I don't understand how abstaining from ejaculation will help you Super O, I'm sure there are benefits to not ejaculating but doing it to Super O is misguided. 're-wiring' is only a metaphor probably thought up by a technical person to help them understand the focus on inner sensations instead of penis focus.
So if you'd call re-wiring re-focusing you're less likely to think cutting out penis or cutting it off is going to help you re-wire to your anus. Truth is being able to focus on what's going on in your body makes the penile orgasm a whole new experience as well.
Besides, I often find the days after ejaculating my anal/prostate orgasms are better as well

It helps because it builds arousal if you abstain, the more aroused you are the better your sessions tend to be.

I don't understand how abstaining from ejaculation will help you Super O, I'm sure there are benefits to not ejaculating but doing it to Super O is misguided. 're-wiring' is only a metaphor probably thought up by a technical person to help them understand the focus on inner sensations instead of penis focus.
So if you'd call re-wiring re-focusing you're less likely to think cutting out penis or cutting it off is going to help you re-wire to your anus. Truth is being able to focus on what's going on in your body makes the penile orgasm a whole new experience as well.
Besides, I often find the days after ejaculating my anal/prostate orgasms are better as well

"Cutting it off"! Aneros castrada! Yikes 🙂

I get your point "refocusing" does sound like a more biologically friendly term. We built computers to mimic our own human mental processes and wind up having our own functioning defined in terms of computers. It's hard to get away from that, it's everywhere. Sometimes it helps me to go back to the biological origin of computerized jargon to clarify what is meant.

Refocusing sounds luke meditation to me, a mental physical discipline. The analogies between what we are doing and meditation became clear to me when I actually began meditating. My process is to aim for emptiness, observing the picture show of emotions, images, memories that float up to consciousness, then letting them go. After a while, fewer and fewer "stuff" comes up and I'm just my body breathing, metabolizing, in a room in my world.

Likewise with riding aneros, I'm constantly refocusing. Sometimes my penis comes up, sometimes my ass or other body area. I usually try to keep my focus on the excited area but perhaps I should just enjoy it and let it go.

My point is the continual refocusing of attention in this way is another way of looking at"rewiring" for those technically challenged of us. Or ludites :). Eventually I trust we will end up in the same place anyway. A reinforced pathway into our soul.

Day 20 without ejaculation.

I've been using Aneros about every other day. I've had some good sessions but no major breakthroughs. I've never made a ton of pre-cum during sessions and ironically I've had some decent sessions and not even had a drop...weird. This even after feeling like some was slowly creeping up my urethra during the session.

I'm going for 30 days mostly for other reasons but seeing if it improves Aneros use is one as well.

OP...Have you been abstaining?

It helps because it builds arousal if you abstain, the more aroused you are the better your sessions tend to be.

That works to a certain extent, days-a few weeks, but the longer you abstain the less aroused you tend to become. I'd even claim that the more one abstains in general the less aroused one will be. And so of course it makes sense to be aroused going into an Aneros session, but there's a fine line...If you're ejaculating many times a day of course you'll be less aroused, but you'll be more aroused if you abstain from ejaculating a few days or a week than if you go 3 months or whatever without.
Anyway once you've developed your sensitivity you'll actually realize that after ejaculation there's a point inside your body that becomes really sensitive, it's like a horny spot and when this spot becomes sensitive (the days )after ejaculation having Super O's and just better O's in general than without ejaculating.
I like to think woman have this spot as well and it wouldn't surprise me coz doesn't the same apply to women the more sex they have or masturbate the more they enjoy it?
Or do you think women that abstain from sex or masturbation are going to be hornier than those that don't?

@ euphemistic: Although Aneros is in some respects analogous to meditation; body awareness leading to body sensitivity for example thru the meditation of the Micro Cosmic Orbit I still don't find it an apt description coz meditation is about taking a third person's perspective whereas Aneros is about experiencing.
But body awareness depends on where you put the focus, but sensitivity comes from tuning into the subtle sensations. I can be technical when I absolutely have to but this never extends beyond the task at hand( e.g. I wouldn't need to see wires going to my hands to better understand this).
And body sensitivity is holistic whereas re-wiring redirects the wiring from one area to another which is just a totally wrong analogy coz all 'the wiring' is already in place, it is it's just that your consciousness has learnt to tune into other signals as well so traditional isn't so traditional anymore and abstaining doesn't make sense(that would only work if you really had to re-wire)

@Ehm, I see what you're saying. I was sort of free associating in my comment so just thinking out loud about the similarites. A lot of things can be learned and reinforced through practice like prostate pleasure or microcosmic orbit energy movement. It's what we do. As for abstaining, I was just warning guys that I found it's possible to go overboard and lose the knack of ejaculaing. But like all knacks I'm dedicated to relearning it 🙂

What do you mean by meditation taking a third person's perspective?

"What do you mean by meditation taking a third person's perspective?"

Observing your body/thoughts etc without getting involved.

Losing the knack to ejaculate??? I doubt it, possibly age related?
And in my case it's possibly the hash, but after ejaculation there's a very sensitive spot inside that actually makes it easier to Super O. It's the same spot when I focus on it while masturbating I can stay hard for hours....so abstaining from ejaculation to me is like abstaining from touching your nipples.

It's amazing to me that people are still having this conversation...There are possibly some benefits from conserving your sperm but ejaculating and being conscious of the spot that becomes sensitive can actually help you have Super Os acting like a beacon

Day 20 without ejaculation.

I've been using Aneros about every other day. I've had some good sessions but no major breakthroughs. I've never made a ton of pre-cum during sessions and ironically I've had some decent sessions and not even had a drop...weird. This even after feeling like some was slowly creeping up my urethra during the session.

I'm going for 30 days mostly for other reasons but seeing if it improves Aneros use is one as well.

OP...Have you been abstaining?

Yes since I started this thread I have not had a penile orgasm. Unfortunately, I've only been able to have 2 Aneros sessions since I made the original post due to my hectic life. I plan on having one tonight if I can fit one in.

I can only tell you by my experience that after 3 or 4 days of abstinence from masturbation and ejaculation I tend to have a harder time getting aroused. Of course in 40 years old and that may play into it. I'm finding the abstinence for me has little to no effect on how good an aneros session can be. If I ejaculate through sex or masturbation in the morning and I have aneros session at night, it can be a good session. I haven't had a super o or dry o yet, but after 5 months I feel like i have made huge progress over the last few weeks and feel like i am almost fully rewired.

well I had a wet dream this morning so I may as well fap today and tomorrow and begin the no fap on Monday

i don't understand how a wet dream against your conscious control constitutes or is equal to a forced ejaculation? It just sounds like you're being hard on yourself @MyTurn and you shouldn't consider that to be a "losing" factor. Carry on, your body is just getting rid of sperm it can't store anymore.