The tl;dr for this post is: Read The Damn Wiki and Follow The Instructions 🙂 🙂 🙂 That's how I finally got super results reliable. Everyone can do it.
Some details about me, for context:
For the last four years or so I've had many dry orgasms and only 3 or 4 super Os, never more than one per session. Max 3 sessions per week, average 1 per week.
So in the past I was using porn, not really relaxing well, and moving around. Since about January 2020, I changed my procedure after reading the wiki from start to finish and actually following the instructions. Surprise surprise, that worked 🙂
For the last 4-6 months I'm absolutely quiet, keeping my hands behind my back with fingers crossed to ensure I don't touch my penis, and using no porn, no audio, no light, just doing NOTHING. Always using the Progasm. Reliably, within 5-10 minutes or less, the Progasm starts moving back and forth. That makes soft pleasure radiate from somewhere in my anus to my legs and tummy, and buttocks.
Pleasure gets more and more intense, the aneros auto-fucking me, without me doing anything. It's totally out of my control, happens on auto-pilot. I concentrate on the pleasure and nothing else, mind empty of any thought --I'm not able to think about anything but the pleasure by this point. The pleasure is pretty constant level, not really rising or fading.
When I feel ready, maybe 3-5 minutes in, I make a few very subtle (less than 1/2 inch for sure) voluntary circular movement with my hips like I'm hula dancing, until my anus CLAMPs down hard on the Progasm, sending a big WAVE of pleasure everywhere in my body. I try to do these circular movements as slow and tiny as possible. Usually only 3-5 are needed.
After this first wave I can not complete a full circle anymore, it feels like an enormous pleasurable weight is pinning me down on my stomach and hips, so I can only make side-to-side tiny movements with my hips (why make these voluntary movements? see below). Pretty soon, maybe 30 seconds after the first clamp down, pleasure increases SHARPLY and what I think is a super O starts. It involuntarily causes my torso to rise up off the mattress maybe 2-3 inches and a strong tension in my abs. The feeling is like pre-ejaculation, point of no return (PONR), only incredibly more intense. And you feel it even in your fingertips, toes, and earlobes. The best part is that it lasts between 30 seconds and 3-4 minutes per super-O, coming in waves.
Forgot to mention that by this point my penis is standing at erection, very hard and full. That is totally out of the ordinary with my ED condition, and amazing, especially such super-hard erections. The erection helps with keeping the pleasure going, because it also makes my muscles and prostate swell. That in turn makes the movements of the Progasm generate stronger pressure, a virtuous cycle, or cascade.
So as one super O ends, I rest a bit and my torso relaxes back on the bed. The pleasure recedes but does not stop, and the aneros is still moving involuntarily. The feeling of weight on my belly and hips also lightens a bit, as the orgasm fades. After my abs are no longer tired, I can start another super O with just one side to side movement of my hips, and repeat until I am exhausted. Being able to cascade or even overlap super Os is why the subject is 'Super O Cascade' 🙂
Then I clean up, get back into bed, and drift into sleep in 10 minutes max.
Summary: Follow the instructions, relax, no porn, no music, no light, keep your hands behind your neck so you cannot touch your dick, breathe as normally as you can, DO NOTHING most of the time, feels like minutes long PONR pleasure only incredibly stronger and full-body, I cannot make any sound and don't flail much if at all.
Pretty good abs exercise too 😉
Comments and insights are very welcome.
@buick45571gmail-com how long have you been using Aneros? I don't know if it will work for you, just reporting that it works for me and trying to give as much insight into what it FEELS like. I've been on the journey for 10+ years now, have had a few super Os but not consistently and never multiple ones. The current level of enjoyment might have something to do with already been rewired completely, that's why I asked how long you've been using Aneros...
One thing to know is that, thus far in my journey, there's always been a next level. Can't imagine what that next level would feel like 🙂 Like ... WOW
Thanks for giving us a great insight about your method. These things are not always easy to explain and you did a great job. I think I'll get my progasm out of retirement and try to follow the steps exactly and without thinking, just to see what happens. Will report back !
@zentai hey I hope it works for you!! No guarantees, ymmv, my $0.02, etc -- expect nothing, accept everything 🙂
Within the original post there is as simple and concise a description of what my "super O" feels like. I am using "'s because I don't know if they are considered true super O's or not, and frankly I'm not thinking about that -- just tremendously happy these feelings are happening consistently and reliably for the last few months.
Here's what I wrote:
"Pretty soon, maybe 30 seconds after the first clamp down, pleasure increases SHARPLY and what I think is a super O starts. It involuntarily causes my torso to rise up off the mattress maybe 2-3 inches and a strong tension in my abs. The feeling is like pre-ejaculation, point of no return (PONR), only incredibly more intense. And you feel it even in your fingertips, toes, and earlobes. The best part is that it lasts between 30 seconds and 3-4 minutes per super-O, coming in waves."
EDIT: One more point -- the circular movement in my method is to make the Progasm stroke your prostate from side to side.
@buick45571gmail-com how long have you been using Aneros? I don't know if it will work for you, just reporting that it works for me and trying to give as much insight into what it FEELS like. I've been on the journey for 10+ years now, have had a few super Os but not consistently and never multiple ones. The current level of enjoyment might have something to do with already been rewired completely, that's why I asked how long you've been using Aneros...
One thing to know is that, thus far in my journey, there's always been a next level. Can't imagine what that next level would feel like 🙂 Like ... WOW
I have been doing P-play for only a year and a half. Early on I had two Aless super Os. Of course I can't duplicate them but that's ok. Sessions get better all the time. I can get regular involuntaries every session now. Most of the time I can have a orgasm or two. Things are just slowly improving all the time. I think it's a good idea to go back and read the basics in the wiki like you stated. It can only help me more and solidify more research and knowledge. If and when the super Os come, I'll be extremely grateful. Until then I'll very happily enjoy the moment.
@buick45571gmail-com go for it! 🙂
I would like opinions from "elder statesmen" like @rumel who are able to have many super Os on whether what I described in the first post matches what they call a super O.
Thanks!
Whatever it is, I am super happy to have discovered this phenomenon -- the pleasure is out of this world!
I would like opinions from "elder statesmen" like @rumel who are able to have many super Os on whether what I described in the first post matches what they call a super O.
I think it is important to note that Super-O's may be quite varied and if you think you are having Super-O's then you ARE ! I would even go on to say, IMHO, many men are in fact having Super-O's even when they don't choose to identify them as such.
Whatever it is, I am super happy to have discovered this phenomenon -- the pleasure is out of this world!
I can't disagree with your there and I am pleased to hear you have found a combination of techniques which has unlocked your orgasmic potential. While the Aneros WIKI does provide guidelines and information I don't see it as an instruction manual. I view the WIKI as an informational launching pad for an individuals self exploratory voyage into his pleasure space.
Congratulations on your continuing journey
Good Vibes to You!
hi @rumel, thanks for your reply. I agree that the wiki contains guidelines and information, not a manual 🙂
That's why I asked the question about super O's in the way I did -- I want to compare and contrast what *I* am experiencing with what others experience. So for example (this is only an example) do others experience the weight and "pinned down" feeling and the restricted movement ability during during super O that I did? Often? sometimes?
Comparisons and contrasts between many people's experience can lead to better overall understanding of what's commonly experienced during a super O.
So for example (this is only an example) do others experience the weight and "pinned down" feeling and the restricted movement ability during during super O that I did?
The "pinned down" feeling is not a regular event for me, but sometimes I'll get a feeling were I feel powerless and at the mercy of the experience and all voluntary movement is just too much effort. Are we using different words for the same thing ? Possible.
Some of those who use cannabis for their sessions will have experienced "couch lock" which I think would be even closer to what you describe.
Then you have "calm seas" and I like to call the opposite "rough seas". So I could feel pinned down in a loving, warm way that I accept, or in a harsher, colder, dominating way that I'll try to escape, having to let go and submit anyway. So even there there could be a lot more differences than similitaries between what we experience.
I have been changing out the helix trident to a progasm, once I got the Ice in me I started shaking. ,I was shaking so much ,I barely made it back to the bed ,,once I pinched my nipples it kicked in came so hard,I quivered ,then shook, then the progasm shot out on the towel , I was a mess I laid there to compose myself,
Great thread!
In the same way the WIKI helped you I find re-reading @B Mayfield s 'B's Keys', B's Best and B's Best of BEE line posts very helpful.
He was a very respected active and prolific leader for many years here.
I miss his insight. (wonder whatever became of him?)
Good buzz and bliss
p38
@p38 Yeah I miss B Mayfield also... no contact. I don't know what became of him. He worked with Aneros at events and public conferences related to sexuality for a while, and then he disappeared w.o trace. I hope he is OK and out there somewhere teaching people about prostate stimulation!
Cheers!
So for example (this is only an example) do others experience the weight and "pinned down" feeling and the restricted movement ability during during super O that I did?
The "pinned down" feeling is not a regular event for me, but sometimes I'll get a feeling were I feel powerless and at the mercy of the experience and all voluntary movement is just too much effort. Are we using different words for the same thing ? Possible.
Some of those who use cannabis for their sessions will have experienced "couch lock" which I think would be even closer to what you describe.
Then you have "calm seas" and I like to call the opposite "rough seas". So I could feel pinned down in a loving, warm way that I accept, or in a harsher, colder, dominating way that I'll try to escape, having to let go and submit anyway. So even there there could be a lot more differences than similitaries between what we experience.
"The "pinned down" feeling is not a regular event for me, but sometimes I'll get a feeling were I feel powerless and at the mercy of the experience and all voluntary movement is just too much effort."
Yes, what you describe in your reply to the "pinned down" feeling is EXACTLY what I feel. Too much effort to move, if I really put an effort into it, then I can make small movements but that's it. I usually don't make the effort while a super O is happening, and then when it recedes, it becomes easier and the smallest movements starts another super O. Only way to get off cloud 9 is to wait very still until most of the arousal dissipates. Move too early and you're right back at heaven's gate.
For the last 3+ months this has been a major component of how I feel, and very regularly.
"couch lock"
I don't use MJ, never experienced the couch lock, will try to find it as described in the forum and/or wiki.
"pinned down in a loving, warm way that I accept"
That's a perfect description! I havent experienced the harsher, colder version yet.
So 1 out of 3 is not bad 🙂 I'd love to stay in the "calm seas" experience forever 🙂
Later today I'm going to reread all the pages on the Wiki about the experiences described there, and will try to figure out which things I've already experienced and which ones not.
@evergreen Didn't know that. I'll have to go through the learning center's videos.
@flesh_joe Firstly, congratulations! Must feel great to have really pleasurable reliable results after so long.
I had a couple of questions, hope that's alright.
I'm absolutely quiet,
Do you think this helps you? Or is coincidental?
I've read some accounts here that guys finally giving voice to their pleasure, moaning, is one of the main factors to their success. (I am mostly quiet too FYI)
Do you think if you had followed these simple steps at the start of your ten-year journey, then you would have had the same results?
If not, then what happened during that time to elevate you thusly?
"Read the wiki and try the 'do nothing' approach" are sage enough words, however, that is not how you personally have arrived at the "Super O Cascade". This reads as an, admittedly fascinating, description of what happens to you during orgasm, not how you got there, if that makes sense.
Those breakthroughs that allowed you to seemingly effortlessly sustain arousal, to quiet your mind in an instant, for the slightest hip movement to spur things on so explosively in so little time. Those are the things that really interest me.
within 5-10 minutes or less, the Progasm starts moving back and forth.
For example, has the Aneros auto-fucking always worked for you? Has it only recently started with this renewed attempt at 'doing nothing'? What other factors contributed to it starting to move, driven subconsciously, within you?
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(If there is a pang of jealousy to my words, then you are reading them just right, hehe. I've made great progress over the years but have never really had an Aneros move by itself. Perhaps I am not far along enough for this to be helpful to me, yet. If so... that's alright, y'know.)
EDIT: Now with 50% less shade.