Sorena's Technique

Hi @sorena_,

glad to see you opend up a thread dedicated to your journey. Reading your latest report, I must say, it sounds quite good already. A major breakthrough might be just around the corner. 🙂

Yes, mental arousal is that important, but also is relaxation. In auto-pilot-ejaculation-mode, these two are opposing each other. When I was at the stage you are describing now, I was able to build up ample arousal but not able to relax into it and expand it into my body. That results usually in hitting an invisible wall (that is impossible to overcome - no super-o on the other side). The connector for arousal and relaxation is mental surrender / letting go. I know that sounds vague, but that mental state of surrendering does the trick because it stops the tensing up while being arousing iteself. Immersing in according fantasies (of being helplessly surrendered to a source of lust) helps a lot.

I wish you the best and keep us posted about your progress!

I know there is no super o on the other side but rather the current plateau of pleasure currently felt is increased through sunseuent sessions as your body becomes attuned and 'learns'. So its my intent to intensify these feelings, hopefully one day, into something else. For now its fine, though next week it will all stop, probably forever like all the other times.

Just as method of crudely illustrating what i experience here is a video of a guy using a rude boy (a device I've owned but really not recommend, its really not great!)

http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=rRGy6-J144-

However note the constant erection, the points where it goes flaccid then when builds to an erection he moans and visibly reacts, then when it his max erection... the orgasm. Also note the fact he is watching or possibly listening to porn (this for him keeps him aroused i assume)

wow, so many views and yet no answer from anyone...

I know there is no super o on the other side but rather the current plateau of pleasure currently felt is increased through sunseuent sessions as your body becomes attuned and 'learns'. So its my intent to intensify these feelings, hopefully one day, into something else.

That's the spirit! But don't try to push the excitement. Rather relax and observe into the sensations. Fokus on them so you don't lose them, but don't try to push - observe and surrender.

For now its fine, though next week it will all stop, probably forever like all the other times.

Not sure if I understood you right: are you fearing a dry spell?

Just as method of crudely illustrating what i experience here is a video of a guy using a rude boy (a device I've owned but really not recommend, its really not great!)

Jeah, I read similar testimonials about the rude boy. Vibration is nice in general, but it seems not beneficial for the aneros approach. Vibrations somehow dulls your nerves over time and that's quite the opposite of what you want to achieve.

However note the constant erection, the points where it goes flaccid then when builds to an erection he moans and visibly reacts, then when it his max erection... the orgasm. Also note the fact he is watching or possibly listening to porn (this for him keeps him aroused i assume)

Hm, I wouldn't worry much about erections. They sometimes kick in with a rush of (serious) arousal, but they are not a good indicator for the nerval response / feedback loop. My stronger super-o peaks come rather with a semi than a full hard on - most of the time I'm flaccid.

Watching porn is a good way to lift your mental arousal and give it push when needed. I normally set up a long playlist of amatur porn when I start a session and use headphones to keep up the immersion when I close my eyes during the session.

@Sorena_, do you vary/experiment withyour session-routine? I set up mirrors rather rarely, because it distracts me to find a position where I can see me and still stay comfortable and relaxed.

Thanks @unfug.

"Not sure if I understood you right: are you fearing a dry spell?"


Im just being a bit sarcastic, everytim i make a breakthrough i find the technique used stops working after a time and then never works again (thus far). But we shall see. I also have a dry humour, might be that too.


"Jeah, I read similar testimonials about the rude boy. Vibration is nice in general, but it seems not beneficial for the aneros approach. Vibrations somehow dulls your nerves over time and that's quite the opposite of what you want to achieve. "


Agreed re vibration however i mainly refer to the shape and length of the rude boy and they fact it never stays in either, useless!


"Hm, I wouldn't worry much about erections. They sometimes kick in with a rush of (serious) arousal, but they are not a good indicator for the nerval response / feedback loop. My stronger super-o peaks come rather with a semi than a full hard on - most of the time I'm flaccid. "


Most of the time, if I'm flaccid, i feel nothing. I only feel nice things if i am in an anerosless session, weather its volutanry or not. Any prostate massager than touches my prostate seems to create a feedback where my penis gets hard, its been true 100% of the time in this journey and i don't know why. It is immensely distracting at times.

"Watching porn is a good way to lift your mental arousal and give it push when needed. I normally set up a long playlist of amatur porn when I start a session and use headphones to keep up the immersion when I close my eyes during the session. "

This is always advised against but yes i agree, it works well for me too.

"@Sorena_, do you vary/experiment withyour session-routine? I set up mirrors rather rarely, because it distracts me to find a position where I can see me and still stay comfortable and relaxed"

I always vary it but only because nothing seems to work twice. However the mirror thing works well because it looks sexy hah, i guess my penis being hard there is of benefit for arousal (to me at least)

Also i know the video is a crude example but its the closest i can find to describe how interconnected my erection/penis is to my prostate pleasure. Saying that though he is able to go one further an have dry orgasms whilst masturbating somehow:

http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=SPbo2-J234-

UPDATE

I tried the technique again today, same warm up session (basically a session with minimal feelings and just designed to generate p waves a few hours later)

Felt P waves all day

Went into session 5 or so hours later not feeling horney at all, this time i use porn and it gets me going.

Instant amazing feelings, wears off and then after a while comes back, using the same technique. I find that a harder contraction is needed later on.

I then find if i sort of tense my legs slightly i can focus an internal muscle and it allowed me to feel the autofcuking muscle better and almost control it, when doing so i got a continual warm orgasmic feeling non stop for about 2 mins.

It wasn't intense, but then i was merely experimenting and was only to see if things were working as before.

Seems to be a technique that is more consistent that all others I've tried.