Some things to share (Sorry its long)

Hello all. I have been lurking around you message board for a week or so and I thought it was time I shared my story because some of the things I have had happen and learned over the last two weeks would be interesting for you folks to know. I will try not to make this read like War and Peace, but bear with me it has been a wild ride!

First - I am your typical MWM in my early forties. Although conservative in life, I have always been what I would call hypersexual. I often think I have used the release of orgasm to let go (or cover up) the stresses of life.

Over the past two years my sex drive has just gone off the charts. Not good when your wife is pretty conservative and shy (although a wonderful and beautiful wife!) in the bedroom. I have always been facinated with anal play and the sensation of perineal play but never had anal sex and only played with things around the house casually and never really cared to the penetration fealing (from the toys) all that much. I wondered, "am I bi, gay - what is going on?"

Over the past month my wife has seemed to start to respond to my higher sex drive and have some fun with it. Note: she only knows I am horney as hell - she does not know I play anally but she does know from me having her slip me a finger during a bj, that the sensation feels good to me. My wife can only have an orgasm by clitoral stimulation and only from oral. I got into reading about orgasms and the different types trying to find a way to have my wife have a G Spot orgasm. While seaching yahoo and google for information about types of orgasms, I find references to Anal and Prostate Orgasms. When I read an account from someone having an orgasm without ejaculation I was instantaniously obsessed with trying this.

I have an acrylic tube (actually a tube from a very big expensive cigar). I have actually talked the wife into me using it on her several times. Over the last two weeks I began using it on myself trying to stimulate myself to see what response I would get. I really didn't get much out of it. I had used it on myself last Friday afternoon and nothing big happened. I got rerally horny and never even had time that day to ejaculate. On Saturday morning while laying on the couch (the wife was still asleep. I came across the following post on jackinworld MALE MULTIPLE ORGASMS: ONE MAN'S JOURNEY | JackinWorld . It got me thinking about edging and about breathing (Never heard of Jack Johnston before). I started masturbating and made sure to stop before ejaculation. I then got caught up dealing with other things. About an hour later I had to have a morning Poo (sorry don't mean to be gross). You know that really satisfied feeling from a big poo you get in the area of your prostate? Well I was having it! I begin reading the jackinworld article again a realized how I was having some of the same sensations the author described. I began the breathing he described and the pulse from my prostate went out of control. Two big pulses hit me and I exploded in Orgasm!! I was facinated and i tried to repeat it twice that day and couldn't get there.

Over the last few days I have been reading all the Aneros forums and have also orders Jack Johston's program (should be in the mail tomorrow). Yesterday I came across information on what was called "Anal Breathing" do yourself a favor and google it. The following link has a great illustation that allowed me to immediately get it. The Anal Breathing Method - random images - moonbuggy I have been practicing this over the last few days. I cannot seem to have the big one from it yet but Holy Cow it charges your entire body with Sex and will make you squirm like never before. I am going to try the Jack Johston before I get an Aneros as I want to be able to trigger the orgasms mentally without stimulation (whenever I want). I will let you folks know if I can get there without the Aneros. If not I'll be back asking for tips :rolleyes:.

PS I am not a Yoga guy or into Metaphsyics but the power of this breathing process has changed me. Likely forever! I hope I didn't bore you folks to death and someone finds this helpful.