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I think you answered your question: "Enjoy [your] sessions for what they are." Having asked the same question, I received much sage advice from this forum. Relax, have no expectations, focus on what feels good, and just let it happen. Once I got to that point, and stopped feeling the need to grab my cock to finish every session, I've found that my sessions get better and better.

In addition to what jb1057 said above, think of this as a wonderful journey. A journey that takes a world of patience. A journey of training your prostate and muscles to gradually work together for increased pleasure. In the beginning it is like stumbling around in the dark. Unfortunately there isn't a flashlight to see you way. So, you have to rely on listening to some very small and subtle feedback from your body. In my early days, my rewiring process was sometimes hit with what I call a lightning bolt of energy... came out of nowhere... never repeatable. But, not one of us has had the same path to get to this place called a Super O. So, be patient and from time to time re read the progress timeline,. Be thankful for the progress you have made so far and every so often you will add another progress notch.

[...], then things simmer down and not much else happens. [...]

To me this situation always is a typical pause before my ultimate pleasure starts. Don't know how long you already tried to endure this phase. I go with it, try to throw away all my expectations and try to sense every little sensation I can discover.

Especially a dumb feeling around my prostate and some light involuntaries correcting my legs' position lead me to upcoming orgasms. What you can add in this phase is to vocalize your emotions, giving your exhale a voice. Listen to your humming's pitch level you detect where your vibes just are. When you've followed them for a while, you can try to direct them. Focusing on my gland my humming goes deep, leading my focus up my spine my voice will get higher and higher. Thus I learned to help my vibes find their path and connect and open all my chakras leading me to new dimensions and sending me into that blissful state of arousal, when I finally give up command and let my gland take over.

As you already feel rewired it may help you to give up command to a hypnotic voice to furthermore improve your relaxation capabilities. You would need nearly one and a half hour to try this file, but I would say it's worth every second. It may be too early to start with this file, as I already learned many triggers from earlier files that may have helped me to relax and focus on her voice as needed. But why not give it a try?

Shibby's Super O Slut file you find here. If you want to or need to go through the basic conditioning first you should start with Shibby's subreddit wiki.

May the vibes be with you on your further journey! 🙂

@sfs To get to the "next level" you have already held-back an ejaculation (or two). May I suggest "trying" the 21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge and see how far you can go. I practice chastity and that means no masturbation and no ejaculation (recently 18 days and now on 10 days). You will feel a horniness and a need for sessions (or an ejaculation) that you have never felt before! An analogy I can draw is a rocket ship waiting to be launched (Super-O or Super-T). In my case, the engines are lit but I have not pressed the "Launch" button! How long can I go?

@goldenboy, I love your simile of a "rocket ship waiting to be launched" when dealing with chastity and the 21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge!" As a 68 year old man, I can go for weeks without an ejaculatory orgasm. I may masturbate once or twice a month, but when I have an ejaculatory orgasm it is very sweet, thick, and creamy! 😮

I steadfastly followed Aneros directions for use and kept my penis out of the equation from the very beginning when I began my Aneros sessions in early June 2012. Eventually I aspired to have sessions that are fun and pleasurable. Experiencing Aless three weeks into my sessions has been a great help.

Also when I let go in my sessions and learned to relax that my sessions began to take off. As a six year Aneros user, most weeks I have three to four sessions per week. I use my sessions and my Aneros devices to educate my ass. O how I love to Kegel in sessions and Aless! 😉