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@goldenboy, it is said that "absence makes the heart grow fonder." I know that my rewired prostate is the same way when I go a week or so without a session. It needs its salutary exercise. However, I hope you can continue to give your blog posts though. They are so good! 😉

Anyone else experience this?

Delicate prostate buzzing here, every now and then all day long. Denial can be so arousing! :o:p
Adding even more physical edging and mental teasing (erotic hypnosis*), I enjoy my frustration!
My abdomen and spine are vibrating from feeling oh so needy and craving. Buzz! Buzz! Buzz! :mad::cool:

*Tease and Denial is so much fun, don't you think? I've turned it into a game. [NSFW!] Depending on how well you do, on how good your self control is, decides how long [...] you will be stuck in mental chastity, [...] Because I said so. It could be awhile ...

*Take a Chance! [Hypnosis Tease and Denial Game][NSFW as well!]
(11 more parts ("rolls") you can find here by searching the linked page for "Take a Chance")

Cheers, Mart

With me, it tends to come and go in phases. I can feel highly orgasmic and sexual where nearly everything works. I can also feel close to nothing and my sessions will be relaxing and pleasurable but most of the time won't be that big. This is also a reason why I approach a session like a meditation. Some relaxing quiet time where I focus on my body is valuable to me too.

When I don't feel like it I cut back on session frequency or not do it at all for weeks sometimes. I'm not sure if cutting back leads to my arousal amplifying, I don't think that it does. Not in the way that cutting back on ejaculation would.
When I do feel sexual I would describe it as an Aless throbbing or as a type of energy that wants to play. This is usually a signal for me that my body wants it. I don't like to deny my body this but understand why this could be fun.

I think the 'golden ticket' to feel sexual for me has more to do with the state that I'm at mentally and I often use Aneros sessions among other things to improve it. I have had sessions I would describe as being blown open by the force of the orgasm and can feel a sort of high that can really brighten my day(s).

I meant to type this as a different view. Why I think that for me personally and the way that my sexuality works, It makes sense to listen to my body as opposed to fitting it in a certain regime. I don't mean to speak negatively about teasing and denial, I enjoy that as well.

I wish to thank @goldenboy for being a great inspiration for me and other guys on Aneros Forum and his prolific posts in the blog section. He has spoken much about male chastity and has inspired me and other guys to take up the 21 Day Semen Retention Challenge.

Now he has decided to reduce his frequency of Aneros sessions. Perhaps he is trying to set for us the example of 'Aneros Chastity', at least for me. For most weeks of my close to seven year Aneros journey, I have had two to four Aneros sessions a week. Maybe I should reduce the frequency to once or twice a week.

I enjoy my sessions very much. My approach toward working the Aneros is 'relax, enjoy, and have fun.' I find my sessions now give me health-promoting vitality and abundant pleasure which spills out into my vibrant and extremely pleasurable Aless which I engage with diddling my nipples and Kegels especially at night in bed. However, even as a seasoned Aneros user, I must guard myself against Aneros addiction.

@goldenboy, I owe much to you for your inspiring and thoughtful posts, and perhaps now to pull back a little as I use the Aneros! The other message I receive that as I experience much with the Aneros is for me to be rooted in reality.

@BigGlansDC Your words are always so kind; thanks! I must admit that I too have also pulled-back from something. I have gone without sleeping in a chastity cup overnight for the past week and it has definitely made a difference in the way I sleep. Yes, I am still awakened by some night-time erections which feel so good and even after a few days of SR, I feel like I am ready for another ejaculation! But I control my urges until I can't resist it any more. That seems to be the essence of limiting Aneros sessions as well. Yes, it it is almost like "Aneros Chastity" isn't it? Only you know how your body responds to sexual stimuli! Onward in the journey!

@goldenboy @BigGlansDC You guys are really lucky to have such sexual freedom! I suggested SR to my wife in the form of ejaculation denial,like say we have sex,she cums but I don’t..shot down,as she says she can’t do without ejacualtion inside her,to be fair,it always brings forth an orgasm no matter how many orgasms she’s had during.
Also no to a chastity cage,which I think is quite interesting,but again shot down,no point apparently and unnecessary.. Any tips on how to get around stick in the mud wives? I’m starting to wonder if she’s a lot more sexually dominant that I gave her credit for. :D​​​​​​​

My prostate wont allow more than 3 days with a hug. When I went on my business trip a few weeks back it was literally a week in between and my prostate was ravaging me in wine country via aless.

@goldenboy , I have also noticed this as of late. A few weeks ago I had an experience that was strange and after that it all went down hill to where nothing I did gave any sensations at all so I put things away and went back old school. Manual stimulation and masturbation to change things up as I was doing 3-5 sessions per week when I should have been sleeping but no other time to have quiet. This past week on Wednesday while sitting for lunch I had the start of a light a-less that lasted about 2 minutes. I could feel my pulse going in my anus & prostate making my groin & legs tingle lusciously than again at dinner, the next day the same but slightly longer. Waited till friday night before joining w/ Miss Helix. Wasn't mind blowing but had some wonderful sensations.

@Tommygunn, "Any tips on how to get around stick in the mud wives?" I'll trade you. ;).

@somebody well I do sometimes feel like I’m missing out,some of the describe some little delights. 😉

@Tommygunn What you need is to learn to have those ejaculation free ejaculation orgasms where everything spasms like you are filling her up but nothing actually comes out, automatic SR. I've read that it is outwardly the same, just no cum. She wouldn't know till after during cleanup, unless she likes to reach down and get a taste, had a girlfriend once that loved to do that (getting hard thinking back to those days), I wonder how she would react?

I was actually trying to be a smart ass, sometimes I miss the mark.

@somebody only just got the hang of the prostate orgasms,not clever enough yet for no cum cumming just yet..She wouldn’t mind that,long as I finish with a TO. Christ,just when your getting the hang of something,gotta start learning a new skil,the journey is like being back at school. 😉

Ya @Tommygunn, the learning never ends. I can relate to not being clever enough yet. been trying for months myself.