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03/16/1999 6:00 pm
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I often find myself becoming too relaxed in my sessions and Im struggling to find that sweet spot. I either drift away on some other thought instead of focusing down on my body, or I just get to sleepy to where its a dud. Im just curious to how some of you guys dont over relax and focus down on every sensation without your mind wandering? The struggle is real, it sucks getting bored in a session.
11/21/2016 6:20 pm
Yeah I had a lot of that early on. I'd relax, then realize I'd been day-dreaming about some random crap for the past 20 minutes, and my session had flat-lined. You might be going too relaxed too early. I find when I have some background pleasure to hold onto I can drift into relaxation without my mind wandering off. It's like I only drift into relaxation if I can take the pleasure with me. And when that works out, it all feels very natural. You don't have to relax to 100% all at once, right at the start and you don't have to "become blank". Maybe just half-relax to start, until you can feel something worth relaxing into. Paying attention to your body, and keeping an erotic mindset going is more important. You can learn to do both, and you'll find the right balance in time, but stay present until it feels right not to. If boredom is really that bad, you could try integrating some nipple play to keep yourself in the moment.
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