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09/15/2021 11:52 am
Hey Gents.
Like most guys here,I share my prostate journey on the forum with other like minded individuals. Not so much so in regular life,work colleagues,gym goers and the like,not sure how I’d tell them I love things in my ass until i fart sparks ;).
The wife however, keeps her best and oldest friend,who she’s known since they were kids, up to date with our exploration of the prostate frontier and the things we get up to. That’s never been a big deal for me since emms has lived in Belgium for many years. They keep in contact via phone,visits etc. When they are together though,it’s awful,they are super girly,silly giggles,acting like a couple of teenagers.
Emms doesn’t know much about it all,think she’s heard of it,in her view,it’s some sort of tantric sex practice. So after hearing a lot of my new talents in the PO orgasm dept Emms conveyed she’d love to see it all up close and personal. Wife agreed.
So,the wife has said she wants me to session for her and her friend during a visit in the coming months. Being naked etc isn’t the issue,I’m in good shape,any woman who didn’t like the sight of me naked would be asked a simple question: “bro,are you even female?” 😉 I’m apprehensive about performance,it isn’t a pic or a FaceTime thing,she’ll actually be in the room. I’m not sure how easy it’ll be to perform for a ‘prostate stranger lol’. Especially if they’ve downed the usual gallon of Prosecco and are in that tipsy incessant giggle mode. Plus,there’s the pressure from wife,she won’t want no half ass dry o,she’ll expect the big stuff,visiting the next place etc. The wife reckons I’m just being silly. “It’s only our Emms” lol “Don’t be such a baby,you should be glad of the chance to show off your super powers”. That woman loves turning the screw!
Am I being over cautious and making too big of a deal about it?
09/15/2021 4:49 pm
Am I being over cautious and making too big of a deal about it?
That sounds like an exhibitionist's dream come true but is that really a part of your personality? I think caution should always be part of any decision making process and only you can weigh the pros & cons of allowing this vulnerability to be put on display. So.... in response to your question...I don't know, I'm not you.
Good Vibes to You!
09/16/2021 12:53 am
Yup, I agree, only you know! We all have our desires and limits, and no one can tell you yours.
Personally I don’t see the point of exhibitionism. It does nothing for me at best, and often tends to make me uncomfortable. My relationship with my partner is very different than yours, from what I’ve gathered, and this situation with its particular dynamics (two drunken giggling childhood friends egging you on) is impossible to imagine for me because it never would happen. If it ever were to happen with us, it would not be show-and-tell. Rather, it would be part of a more traditional threesome (though I don’t see this on the horizon, because neither of us are interested in this).
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09/16/2021 1:33 am
Well,I suppose everyone’s relationship is different to everyone else’s.
It isn’t going to be some sort of 3-way. Wife would never let me fool around with another woman. She’d remove my testicles with a rusty axe lol.
I think I’m worried about failing,i don’t want to fail in front of either of them. Guess I’ll have to see if I have the mettle for it.
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09/16/2021 9:52 am
I’m not particularly exhibitionist,at least no more than most people. It’s not the being seen that’s the issue,more performance anxiety. Don’t really want to get stuck and not complete the task at hand. The wife reckons it’ll be fun all round. No problem with just me and the wife,but even though I know the woman well,it’s making me question my abilities.
09/17/2021 9:16 am
Hey Bro
You have got a whole lot more steel in your nerves that I. Will you be wearing your cock cage when and if you do it? That may give you some comfort and lessen the performance anxiety. Maybe not. Only you know. From this end of the spectrum, you have ONE interesting life. Watch out bro for that rusty axe applied to the things we absolutely have to have as men.
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09/17/2021 11:55 am
I say go for it fella. Sounds like a blast. If I had half the skill & the opportunity, I'd give it a shot (or two, heh heh). Maybe a "fizzle clause" could be negotiated between you & the mrs, prior to the show. Or you could always ask her to assist if needbe, as a backup so to speak. Too many euphemisms & metaphors, dirty Glandrake, SMDH, laughs.
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09/17/2021 12:02 pm
You have got a whole lot more steel in your nerves that I
Don’t know about that bro hahaha.
Will you be wearing your cock cage when and if you do it? That may give you some comfort and lessen the performance anxiety.
Haven’t been told the parameters yet. That’ll come later when she’s has time to mull over what direction to go in.
From this end of the spectrum, you have ONE interesting life
Loving my journey bro,wish I’d discovered it a long time ago instead of being pussy on the brain 😉
Watch out bro for that rusty axe applied to the things we absolutely have to have as men.
I’ll be grand mate,if I’m honest,I’m not interested in other women,I’m happy with the one I’ve got. 🙂
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09/17/2021 12:07 pm
I say go for it fella. Sounds like a blast
It’ll happen either way,and I’m ok with it,I just don’t want any stage fright.
Maybe a "fizzle clause" could be negotiated between you & the mrs, prior to the show
What’s a fizzle clause? 🙂
Or you could always ask her to assist if needbe, as a backup so to speak. Too many euphemisms & metaphors, dirty Glandrake, SMDH, laughs
She always works on my arousal,can’t fault her at that!
Dirty is good mate,who doesn’t like a bit of dirty! 😉
09/17/2021 12:37 pm
Fizzle clause is a term I made up especially for you & this situation, heh heh. If it fizzles out or doesn't work out.
Basically my creative way of saying talk to the woman & get an agreement from her prior to showtime that if things don't spark like she wants, that she might be called upon to lend a hand or simply understand that you tried & weren't really sure how it would play out the moment of the show.
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09/17/2021 12:50 pm
Fizzle clause is a term I made up especially for you
Why thank you sir,you are a gentleman. 🙂
Basically my creative way of saying talk to the woman & get an agreement from her prior to showtime that if things don't spark like she wants, that she might be called upon to lend a hand or simply understand that you tried
Yea ha she doesn’t negotiate much,she’s very bossy it’s me that does the agreement but lol. She expects success,not I tried my best hahahaha.
09/18/2021 2:32 am
she’s very bossy
So, why worry. Finally she decides that you‘ll do it. Perhaps the „Work“ by Byron Katie can help you here. What thought is worrying you? „I could not perform best.“ Ask yourself, if this could be true and why this should be true. Then ask yourself the opposite. „Could it be true that you‘ll perform better than ever before and perhaps only because of the added thrill your wife has chosen for you?“ Guess what? I‘d bet you WILL. To even fuel the pressure you already feel, Bro, you now are performing in place of all your slobbering and drooling bro‘s here! 😉 Good vibes and enjoy your performance! Mart
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09/18/2021 3:40 am
Women tend to be fascinated with the idea of a guy having multiple non ejaculatory orgasms and want to talk about it.
Agreed,over the course of their conversations,her friend expressed quite a curiosity about it,and has jumped at the chance to see it up close.
Some time in the near furture I will do a blog entry on the one I slept with for 5 nights.
Looking forward to it already,make haste lol
In many regards the verbal exhibitionist in me really enjoys the on line sharing as much as the in person experiences.
Ditto. Unfortunately the forum is one of the few places we can talk with other journeymen and like minded individuals. It’s just not a topic that can be easily brought up with others in day to day life.
The two I was with I trusted implicitly. That is a discussion between you 3 that needs to happen.
I suppose I’ve known her a long time too. So the trust is there I guess.
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09/18/2021 3:45 am
So, why worry.
I can’t help it haha.
What thought is worrying you? „I could not perform best.“ Ask yourself, if this could be true and why this should be true. Then ask yourself the opposite. „Could it be true that you‘ll perform better than ever before and perhaps only because of the added thrill your wife has chosen for you?“
This is true,I know what’s expected of me,and don’t want to fall flat on my face. It’s very much a mental game now,I wouldn’t wouldn’t want to let either of them down. I guess I’ll just wing-it,your likely right mart,it’ll be alright on the night 😉
09/18/2021 4:27 am
Well,I suppose everyone’s relationship is different to everyone else’s.
It isn’t going to be some sort of 3-way. Wife would never let me fool around with another woman.
Sure, everyone's sexual relationship is different. But YOURS is particularly far from mine, given your wife has come to have almost full control of your sex life. In our sexual relationship, no one has more or less control, and we don't set goals like you two seem to do (prostate orgasm, hfwo, now this).
Yes, I understood it won't be a three-way. It seems clear to me as to what it will be, and again, it isn't personally my idea of fun. I like sexual acts to be a sacred shared moment, and giggling tipsy gals observing and goading me on me falls outside of that category (for me, I can't stress it enough!). Ironically, my first sexual experience in middle school ended with me masturbating into a condom in front of two giggling girls (consensually!). However, it was part of a three-way (that was very strange because we had no clue what we were doing)...
Anyways, like most of your questions, it sounds like deep down inside you knew the answer before you asked it, so... have fun, as always 🙂
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09/18/2021 7:40 am
But YOURS is particularly far from mine, given your wife has come to have almost full control of your sex life. In our sexual relationship, no one has more or less control, and we don't set goals like you two seem to do (prostate orgasm, hfwo, now this).
Well,fortunately or unfortunately goal setters are the type of people we are. Especially me,without goals I may as well be dead lol. I couldn’t live without things to work toward,train for,practice at. We can only be us,do what suits us and do what is fun for us. That’s not to say it’ll suit everyone.
I like sexual acts to be a sacred shared moment
Who’s to say ours are not? Over 20 years I’ve been with my wife,and those decades have been filled with sacred shared moments. The new fun and exploration since I discovered the prostate journey have been equally sacred,as we’ve visited places together,and discovered pleasures we never knew existed.Our love and passion for each other have been recharged,strengthened and mirror the earlier honeymoon period of our relationship. Maybe I don’t convey this enough in my posts,my mistake. Having said that,the matter coming up wasn’t really in the goal category. Her friend had expressed a curiosity and interest in my journey,and said out loud it’s be cool to see in action,and wife said why not? It’s a bit of fun for them in particular. Getting over any stage fright and having fun with it will be how i turn it into a goal i can prepare for,even if only mentally. 😉
09/18/2021 12:10 pm
/snip > > To even fuel the pressure you already feel, Bro, you now are performing in place of all your slobbering and drooling bro‘s here!
Almost had a spit-take with my coffee on that one. Feels like a voyeur sometimes, Glandrake does. Or maybe an invisible cheer-leader, heh heh.
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09/18/2021 12:17 pm
09/18/2021 11:37 pm
Who’s to say ours are not?
Excuse me, i didn’t mean to imply yours weren’t. I meant that this sort of thing doesn’t fall into my personal definition of sacred. It may have sounded arrogant, like my way of doing is better than yours, and I didn’t mean it. That is what I wanted to avoid, by using an excess of words like “personally”. Because one person’s sacred might be another’s sacrilege, but as long as no one is getting hurt, each experience is as valid as the next.
09/19/2021 1:14 am
Her friend had expressed a curiosity and interest in my journey,and said out loud it’s be cool to see in action,and wife said why not? It’s a bit of fun for them in particular.
Thanks, Bro! You just fueled some wonderful fantasies and made my morning Aless. Considering my terms I’d like to be negotiated, I’d wish that this couple should not only be viewers but at least should give you some comfort by being naked too and even better join in with masturbating while watching you. As a bisexual being my next idea has been, whether your wife wants you to show your latest success too - namely cumming from getting pegged and how far the curiosity of Emm’s friend would develop from watching her mounting you. Maybe this too inspires Emm’s fantasies and she will show up as bossy as your wife and feel encouraged to make her hubby fulfill her wildest fantasies. Or has all this already been the mean plan of those giggling girls? 😉 Excuse me, only my fantasies running wild, but quite your fault - finally the result of reading your explicit reports. Don’t misunderstand, this shall rather be an encouragement than a complaint! 😉
Thumb (LOL) up! You WILL PERFORM! 🙂
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09/19/2021 7:41 am
Your doing plenty of fantasy fuelling yourself hornball!!;)
by being naked too and even better join in with masturbating
I’m not greedy Mart,I’d be happy with just that he he.
watching her mounting you.
My god man stop ha ha,I could make that work 🙂
Im developing a hum drum in my gland. 🙂
09/19/2021 10:28 am
Im developing a hum drum in my gland.
Same here. 😉
Btw, if anyone had asked you - about a year or so ago, whether you might once cum from being pegged by your wife, what would you have answered him?
Just kidding!?
Keep us informed, PLS! 🙂
Mart
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09/19/2021 11:28 am
Btw, if anyone had asked you - about a year or so ago, whether you might once cum from being pegged by your wife, what would you have answered him?
Honestly I’d have said no chance! Fortunately, wife had the good sense to push me into it,I’d never have asked her to do it. I do owe her a lot to be fair,I’d never have experienced some of the pleasure I’ve visited without her size six planted on my ass 😉
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09/25/2021 1:56 am
Its happening,no doubt about that ;).
Im wondering could I talk the wife into them being naked,that would do wonders for arousal lol 🙂
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11/24/2021 2:43 pm
hahahhaha yea last weekend,I looked all over the house for you,but you were missing in action 😉
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