Pre/Post Session Masterbation

I love to play with myself before a session. It awakens my prostate and gets the orgasmic energy flowing. It also makes me think of pleasuring myself and the knowledge that I'm going to have orgasms because I'm not playing with my cock makes my ass want to cum.

When I've gone straight to prostate stimulation I'm either extremely horny already and I know if I even touch my cock it will ruin my session, or it's a bust because I'm not hot already and could've used the warm up.

Rarely have I masturbated after a session with any amount of time in between, like waiting an hour+ to have a TO. I'm usually completely spent and know my ass isn't going to allow for anymore hands-free orgasms, and my cock is calling, and I either leave the same toy in me or insert the one that will make my TO be a certain way, and then go for broke and ejaculate and orgasm all over myself! But 9 times out of 10 I'm masturbating within seconds to a minute of my last prostate orgasm.

I often edge before a session to get more aroused, unless I "hear the whisper" of my prostate, but I try not to masturbate after a session. To be honest, I don't think it's really that harmful to the rewiring process but I try to keep the two separate anyway.

By the way, I selected "neither" in the poll because I'm not sure if edging counts as actual masturbation.

@Judge.... I'd draw the "masturbation line" just short enough from PONR that there's no involuntary pelvic contraction that would release even a drop of ejaculate. (and the trace of prolactin that's the "lust killer."

Short answer: No ejac for me before a session. I think refractory and prolactin made that impractical in my late 70's.

Boorish answer: Having been into the Prostate stim game for over five years, my dry-O arousal paths are more focused and repetitive in nature than they were years ago. Most of the time my pre-session desire/lust and potential energy is concentrated in one of my core chakras. That's the Dan Tien (Navel Chakra) when the stimulation path will best physically traverse my ano-rectal center with an Aneros. On the other hand, borderline 'frenzy' in my Heart Chakra is usually an indicator that an a-less approach may have promise and perhaps a quicker result.

My prostate triggered dry-orgasm is far more assured when I leave my cock alone and follow a more proven stimulation path (nipples, triceps, thighs, feet, etc.)

That said, when the path becomes foggy, male-deer play (testicles & pubic massage) usually regenerates the session). In these situations and at my age, there's danger of a Prolactin surge from overdoing (just two miniscule contractions/pulses will kill most sessions.)

Finally, "settling" on a Super-Trad isn't all that disappointing.