Before I ask my question I would like to give a little feedback! I don't know if you remember but I purchased a Nexus and did some damage, well i am glad to let you know I am all healed up nicely. My Aneros is a perfect fit and loving it! I haven't had much time to work with it but the little time we have spent together has been great. The main problem I had in the beginning was maintaining an erection, but I seem to have solved it!!
Ok here's my question
My wife and I were fooling around about two months ago. When we were in the swing of things I managed to pump out loads of Pre Cum she really enjoyed it (Major turn on for both of us) I've tried to recreate the situation but since then I can only manage a little. Sometimes none!! My question is , is, is there a way to exercise this ability or is it something that happens occasionally or spontaneously?
I generally produce very little pre cum - a drop or two is usually about it.
athough I do find that when the aneros is really moving, and things are really happening, I produce much more. At that point I can feel it rising through my dick and leaking out.
My understanding is that some do and some don't
Hello Diesel,
My pre-cum production varies. During last week's full moon session, I was dripping like a faucet. Other times I am completely dry. I think it varies with arousal.
Thanks for all the input
Like so many other things "Aneros", if you concentrate on generating pre-cum you will probably not generate much.
While my experience with the Helix and Eupho have only consisted of a couple of months I quickly learned that I had to reverse my mind (thinking). Instead of my mind dictating to my body I have to let my body dictate to my mind.
By that I mean I have to make my mind 'listen' to my body and quit trying to make anything happen.
While I notice that many on these forums seems to need some erotic stimulation before an Aneros session I have found that most of the time I get better results if I concentrate on my own feelings rather than trying to conjure up some image of a sexual nature in my mind. For me it seems that it is a distraction more than a help.
My favorite phrase lately has become "Enjoy the journey". I am not trying to reach any particular 'destination" such as orgasm.
As I have become more attuned to that attitude I have increased the number and intensity of my orgasms.
Let the pre-cum be what it will be, quit trying to 'make' anything happen. I find that I can enjoy my wife's attention much more if I am concentrating on my feelings and her affections and forget about trying to 'go somewhere'. And the wonderful results seem to flow naturally.
BTW, by using this method I find that I can have an orgasm with or without the Aneros by just letting my mind go and listening to my body.
Helixbill
Thank you Helixbill!