Hello,
My favourite aneros is Peridise it gives me amazing out of the world pleasure. Session are good and I enjoy my sessions most of the time. I do not have regular Peridise sessions i.e. i have once or twice every 3 to 4 months depending on time etc.
Recently, my wife agreed to have anal sex. she is vanilla, as in she does not know anything about sex toys and never inserted anything in her back door. She also does not know that I use Peridise and enjoy back door pleasure during me time.
To start I am thinking to use Peridise on her specifically the smallest model due to its small size and ease of use/insertion. My question is that, if using peridise rather than a regular beginner butt plug a good idea?
Idea is to give her taste of same great feeling and pleasure that i derive from Peridise. I don't want to be in the same boat where couples try anal sex once and due to it being very painful and not enjoyable or not done right and then anal sex becomes off the list forever.
Any idea suggestion or comments in this regard will be highly appreciated.
Thank you
To start I am thinking to use Peridise on her specifically the smallest model due to its small size and ease of use/insertion. My question is that, if using peridise rather than a regular beginner butt plug a good idea?
IMHO, Yes, that's an excellent idea. Even a so-called 'beginner' butt plug can be intimidating and uncomfortable to an anal virgin.
Idea is to give her taste of same great feeling and pleasure that i derive from Peridise. I don't want to be in the same boat where couples try anal sex once and due to it being very painful and not enjoyable or not done right and then anal sex becomes off the list forever.
That's a great attitude, showing loving, caring concern for the present moment and wise forethought toward future experimentation.
Any idea suggestion or comments in this regard will be highly appreciated.
I suggest you introduce this little 'tantric swizzle stick' in the context of a sensual full body massage (with her having full knowledge beforehand of the intended insertion of course). I believe the intent here should be to make this anal deflowering as comfortable and loving as possible. Creating a relaxing environment is important (see Identifying Facilitators to Progress for some tips in this area), for many women the context of the experience is extremely powerful. Only after you have spent considerable time massaging her buttocks and anal area and she is fully relaxed should you (or her) insert the Peridise. Then continue the massage as long as she desires it just allowing the Peridise work its subtle magic subconsciously. Sex and orgasm are not the focus of this session as you are laying the foundation for trust in future anal play here and her comfort and enjoyment is paramount.
Good Vibes to You ! 
Thanks a lot for great advice.
@iqbal Follow Rumels suggestion. It was exactly how I introduced it to my husband nearly one year ago except it was the Helix Classic. He had never had something up there before (except for doctors examination once or twice) and didn't want anything there either. So I bought the Peridise (he thought the Helix was "huge") when he saw it was two of them he said it would be fair if I tried one of them the biggest. So I sometimes (not often i had some surgery so I like to be careful) use it when we have sex and he use the smaller. I get stronger orgasms. Last time we had intercourse with it in my husband said I screamed so loud that the neightbours 500 meters away heard me.That doesn't mean that I want to try the real thing and I know for sure my husband doesn't either.
Take it slow and just concentrate on her pleasure.
Good luck!
The stubborn wife
Loving wife
wish you much continued success as you explore the Peridise and what it can do for and to your anal exploration! Take it slow and enjoy every session! You will be amazed at the results! Thank you for sharing with us!
Love my peridises and tempo more than anything else. Less is more in my book.