Penis NOT, balls‘n‘nips YES!

Thanks for sharing. Recently, in my A-Less sessions,I noticed some extra pleasure from massaging my gonads. Especially if I’m also pulling them away from the body at the same time.

My balls have always been an treasure trove of pleasure. I have brought it up a few times here, as well as with other men in real life, and I rarely find other people who feel the same, so I am glad you do! I once asked a very promiscuous gay man what his experience was, whether men he slept with had more or less sensitive balls. He answered in a way I should’ve expected: some guys love having their balls rubbed and massaged, some like them sucked, some like them tied up and slapped, some don’t like them touched at all, some have no sensation in particular, and so on and so forth.  As for all things sexual, there is no normal.

I have especially sensitive balls.  They are so sensitive that I frequently flinch when people reach a hand towards me, because subconsciously I think they are going to tap my balls (possible younger sibling syndrome).  Lucky for me, the sensitivity is a good thing. Long before Aneros, i learned how to harness this power for exceptional pleasure, and for years I directed partners toward my balls, not my penis, teaching them how to caress them in a manner that was on the verge of painful without going overboard.

What I learned through prostate play was how to turn this pleasure into orgasmic pleasure.  Now my testicles have become a pleasure-receiving organ far superior to my penis, and I often prefer having them stimulated to having my penis stimulated. For example last night my partner was gently tickling my feet for 15 minutes, when suddenly she reached up and started fondling my balls.  I went from pleasantly cooing in a meditative state straight into an almost seizure like orgasm that lasted for 5-10 minutes, including strange hallucinations.  Never has my penis given me that much pleasure, at least not in the same way.

My testicles and their sensitivity are as mysterious to me as my prostate. Sometimes they are less sensitive, and sometimes they’re so sensitive that the slightest touch is enough to send me overboard.  One thing I’ve noticed is that arousal is very important, and the state of blue balls is ideal because it makes my testicles far more sensitive. On the other hand if I am completely flaccid I don’t get much pleasure from having my balls touched, and it can be even unpleasant.  Penile pleasure can distract from testicular pleasure for me, breaking the spell in a certain way.  And lastly, like the prostate, my testicles are wired to other parts of my body.

My experience with my testicles when I am alone is that the majority of times I’ve had extreme sensitivity, like that which I described above, is during prostate play. I have had many moments with a toy in where I have a sudden urge to start caressing my testicles, and it feels like someone else’s hand is doing it, it is so intense.  I like to do this when I am in my favorite position, on all fours, sometimes tying up my balls before I get into position (anyone who might be inspired to do this, please read on how to safely tie up your balls before just grabbing some rope and tying away). Another thing that I like to do with a toy in is, while lying on my side in the classic position, I pinch my balls between my thighs...

Gentlemen

What a fascinating thread.  I thank you all for being so open about this aspect of your sexuality, arousal, and  enjoyment.

@divineoblivion, I am green with envy.  Yes, I have noticed at times the sensitivity of my balls in solo play, but to say that your balls are more sensitive at times than your penis is intriguing and I (and possibly other men) want to know more about what you are doing to get to that kind of sensitivity.

I can only assume @divineoblivian, that your nipples are generators of pleasure for whatever is going on with your balls.  Anything else?  I do appreciate your saying that when you are aroused, that is when your balls are most sensitive.   That gives me some parameters of when to try to make my balls more sensitive.  Maybe when I am at the PONR in solo play in MMOs, dry Os, and ruined orgasms, I can direct that energy away from my penis to my balls.

Please brothers tell us more about anything else you are doing.  I want to follow suit and perhaps there are other men also who want to know more.

Much appreciation.  Cant wait to get aroused and try focusing on ball play next time up in solo play.

Posted by: @divine_o

They are so sensitive that I frequently flinch when people reach a hand towards me, because subconsciously I think they are going to tap my balls (possible younger sibling syndrome). 

I never heard of 'possible younger sibling syndrome'.  What is it?

Although my balls are not as sensitive as described by @sowithoutaneros and @divine_o, I have my own way of stimulating them along with the entire area.

I wet my fingers, reach behind my butt and grab my ball sack and pull it tightly in between my butt cheeks as close to my sphincter as possible.  With this done, my jewels are tightly in between my thighs and rubbing when I'm walking and going on my business.  This massages them while giving great sensations.   For added pleasures,  I pull out my dick through my brief’s pee hole inside my jeans and complete the process by breathing deeply such as through the diaphragm.

@sowithoutaneros,  thanks for bringing this subject up for discussion.  The topic doesn't come up too often in this forum.

@turnrow

The sensitivity of my penis and my testicles are of drastically different nature.  I think like most of us, my penis gets pleasure through friction (be it with lubricant or without, it is still friction) and through pressure. My testicles on the other hand mainly are receptive to pressure.  

I don’t know why I am so sensitive, but I suspect it has something to do with how I am wired naturally.  It is something that I noticed very early in my coupled sex life—a hand on my balls would make me ejaculate immediately—and it is something that I subsequently developed through directing partners to focus on my testicles. For example, I have gotten maybe two blowjobs and two handjobs in the last year, while I have had my balls sucked or caressed a couple times a week.

If you watch ball torture videos, the type of pleasure I get is surely similar to that, but I have a very low pressure threshold compared to most guys I’ve seen. Like anything harder than a hand firmly grabbing my balls is outright painful, and even that without slowly building up can be too much.  Because there’s so much potential for pain and other strange sensations, there is a large psychological factor to this sort of play.

Like I said, my experience solo is less exciting because there is often slightly less arousal, but prostate stimulation (coupled with other stimulation, such as nipple) brings me to similar states of arousal as with a partner, making it highly satisfying to caress my balls while I use an anal toy.  But because there isn’t the unpredictability of another persons hand and mouth—and for the same reason it is hard to tickle oneself to laughter—it is hard to replicate the psychological aspects when alone. I have succeeded in using imagination to this end. For example sometimes when I am on all fours with a toy, it is enough for me to imagine that someone walks in the door and slaps my balls, and I immediately orgasm (I would pass out from so much pain in real life). 

If you want to develop pleasure in your testicles, @sowithoutaneros @helghast @ggringo and yourself have given good ideas. I would say experiment in a safe way, balls are delicate (thought CBT videos seem to show otherwise). Hold stroke tickle tap press pull... if you really want to get into it, why not spend a week just playing with your balls and nothing else, not touching your penis?  Sorry I don’t have many other ideas, but I think the best way is through experimenting alone, just like with our prostates.

@Ggringo

I made up the younger sibling syndrome, and I just meant the fact that a lot of us younger siblings were beat up a bunch by our older siblings, and are a little bit jumpy...

Posted by: @divine_o

@Ggringo

I made up the younger sibling syndrome, and I just meant the fact that a lot of us younger siblings were beat up a bunch by our older siblings, and are a little bit jumpy...

 

Gotcha!   I'm in that boat with 7 siblings (4 older than myself).  Along with being pushed around in my younger days, I've inherited tons of used shorts and socks.

@divine_oblivian

Thanks so much for such a detailed post.  You are so fortunate to have a partner who sucks your boys.  That is one of my dreams that probably never will happen in my marriage. Sigh.........

There are many guys on this site who have taken their sexuality to the max.  Several of those guys either authored or appear in this thread. @Heighgast's wife is a dream made in Heaven in the way that she loves her husband's body.  I think a great percentage of wives in my aging generation think of sex for their husbands as nothing more than intercourse.  When in reality, men want wives to love their dicks and bodies and body parts as much as they love them themselves..........another sigh.............

I am eager to try out what you have experienced. I believe you are correct in setting forth that pleasure in ball play must be individually and personally pursued.  @Nicesounding guy has pursued pleasure and arousal in many forms including electrostim.  To round out this subject, if @nicesoundingguy reads this thread, please tell us what electrostim does to ball pleasure if you have been that route in your self pleasuring.

Again, my thanks to the author of this thread and all the guys who have contributed here so transparently on orgasmic pleasure of the testicles/balls.  Sexual pleasure is what we guys are all about.  

Posted by: @turnrow

@divine_o

Thanks so much for such a detailed post.  You are so fortunate to have a partner who sucks your boys.  That is one of my dreams that probably never will happen in my marriage. Sigh ...

Affirmative! Thanks to you all for your open and interesting contributions, I appreciate them. 

Posted by: @divine_o

... why not spend a week just playing with your balls and nothing else, not touching your penis? 

That's been my idea too and I can tell, the outcome is surprising. Only try this (best done naked):

Put one finger on your lips right on the edge to the surrounding facial skin and trace that line around your mouth as sensitive as you can until merely touching it. Wait some seconds, then do it again and try to be even more cautious and tender. Do you already feel some subtle arousal?

If so, put your left middle finger tenderly on your right nipple and let it rest there, then put your right middle finger on your ball sack about two or three fingers in front of your perineum. Only hold your fingers in place without pressure.

After a while let your forefinger and your ring finger cautiously lift your gonads, feel their weight and form, then let them down again, and once more and so on. 

While you do this, realize that this place hides your own production plant of an enormous capacity, which would be able to father more than a million descendants, if you only were able to distribute your millions of sperms to a corresponding number of ova. 

Now consider what will happen when you decide to ejaculate.

PLAYING WITH YOURSELF

Taoist sexuality was developed as a branch of medicine, not morality. It therefore does not prohibit any form of human sexual activity but simply tries to teach people how to stay healthy while engaging in it. The Taoist masters saw masturbation, which they called solo cultivation or genital exercise, as an essential way of developing ejaculatory control and of learning to circulate sexual energy to revitalize the body. (Remember, solo cultivation, which we will refer to as both self-cultivation and self-pleasuring, does not include ejaculation.)

According to the Tao, play is one of the best ways to learn, and "playing with ourselves" is an excellent way to strengthen our genitals and our sexual energy. Many people worry about masturbating "too much," but the Taoists knew that there is no such thing, as long as one learns to control ejaculation. Too much ejaculation is the problem: it drains men of their strength, but this can happen with intercourse as well as self-pleasuring. ...

TOUCH YOUR BALLS. If touching your scrotum is not part of your regular routine, you may want to try it. The testicles can be especially sensitive to light touch, although many men also enjoy pulling on their scrotum. Rubbing your testicles actually increases production of testosterone, which adds to your potency both by raising your sperm count and by improving your overall health.

In Taoist sexuality you cannot separate your genitals from your heart because the sexual energy circulates throughout your entire body. As one multi-orgasmic man explained, "I used to actually want to keep sex and emotions separate, but as I practiced Taoist sexuality, my genitals became more connected to my heart and I discovered real, profound love for my partner and even other people."

The Taoists have a simple exercise for connecting your heart and your genitals (love and sex). Try it if you find that your are feeling irritable, frustrated, or distracted when you start being sexual with yourself or your partner; put your right hand on your groin and your left hand on your heart, connecting sexual energy with love. If you often feel anger, hatred, or other negative emotions, you must transform these feelings before cultivating your sexual energy. The Inner Smile and the Sex Healing Sounds⎯techniques described in Mantak Chia's Taoist Ways to Transform Stress into Vitality can help, as can psychological counseling.

From Manta Chia's "The Multi-Orgasmic Man"

A dozen bucks for the Kindle version - worth every single cent - only my 2 cents here. 😉

Caress your semen plant! Good vibes and take care! Mart

P.S.

At the same time it is important not to become obsessive about non-ejaculation and not to give yourself a hard time when you do ejaculate. As Michael Winn explains, "It is very important not to be fanatical about non-ejaculation. A lot of men who learn about Sexual Kung Fu think, 'Wow, this is great. It makes sense. I want to do it.' And then they have a problem controlling their ejaculation. And then they start passing judgment on themselves and feeling guilty. They are missing the point, which is not even whether you ejaculate or not, but whether you are able to recycle some of the sexual energy up through your body before you ejaculate. Obviously, the longer you can delay your ejaculation, the greater your opportunity to cultivate this energy for creative and spiritual growth. If you need to ejaculate and it's coming and you can't stop it, just go for it. Don't beat yourself up. Because what is really important ultimately is not just the energy in the sperm, but the overall love between you and your partner."

loc.cit.

Hi Folks, I hope you’re enjoying your Easter weekend - in Germany spending us an extra holiday on Easter Monday. As Eastern also means the custom of going for egg-hunting ... read and repeat! 😉

This morning my penis wasn‘t in the mood and unwilling to get excited about any variety of my manual stimulations. But then, still in bed and on my back, I grabbed my left nipple with my left forefinger and thumb, drew it upwards only about perhaps half an inch and just held it with rarely any pressure. Now I softly pressed down my scrotum with the ball of my right hand and let my fingers play with my gonads lifting them up and let them fall back, tenderly knocking at them with one fingertip or jingling them. Finally I additionally stretched my middle finger and tapped on my perineum quite close to my sphincter and in turns massaged that spot gently in tiny circles. This playful attention to my testicles was earned with a respectable hard-on in about something less than a minute or so and even joined by multiple mini-orgasms making my day. 

Every day is ball games day!
Don’t let your ball sack only hang out.
Kick it while kicking it,
softly of course!

Love you all! Do you love your gonads! 😉 

Mart

Playing with my balls and nipples are an integral part of my sessions.  My nipples are like two little buttons that send jolts of pleasure to my groin and prostate when I'm riding.  Ive always played with my balls even before I discovered aneros but when I'm riding, my balls feel like they generate extra pleasure when I fondle em and gently scratch em with my fingernails.  I also get great pleasure from tickling my inner thighs while riding too.

Posted by: @logik

Playing with my balls and nipples are an integral part of my sessions.

Always being on the prowl for new ideas I came across the following bondage technique, I've already tested and enjoyed. Massaging my then separated and swollen balls with some body cream made it an extremely exciting variety. Stay playful! Mart

P.S.: For beginners:
Don't exaggerate, 15 minutes should be the maximum.
If your balls feel cold it's high time to stop the fun!

@sowithoutaneros  I have a 45mm cockring from primalrings.com that works great and does similar during my rides...its snug enough to feel like its gently squeezing my junk but not so tight that it is uncomfortable to wear for hours at a time.  Obviously measure yourself properly for rings if you are going to buy one because it is definitely dangerous if you get one that is to tight.

Another trove of pleasures presented itself to me this morning, when teasing my balls the following playful ways, while totally neglecting my penis:

• Thumb and forefinger of my right hand on left nut and ring finger and little finger on right nut, then shaking from side to side at highest speed like vibrating. Funny how different this felt when using my left hand.
• The same fingers poking rhythmically from below and lifting my balls or slightly slapping them.
• Grabbing both balls with thumb and all fingertips, palpating them and veering them around in circles in circumductions.
• With three fingers against one ball and in a mixture of flipping and nudging pushing that ball against the other ball and against the opposite thigh.

I can tell, peaceful (precum) waters flowed a lot, and finally I couldn't withstand. 😉

Enjoy! Mart

Posted by: @logik

I have a 45mm cockring

I myself already have and use several cockrings too, including some heavy metal stuff. What intrigued me here mostly has been the separation of my balls, which adds a delightful exposition of the nuts themselves, making them even more receptive for touches from slight massaging to teasing to torment. 😉

Posted by: @turnrow

want to know more about what you are doing to get to that kind of sensitivity.

Don't know whether I've already mentioned it, but having your balls neatly shaved is half the battle. 😉

@sowithoutaneros

Thanks for this. A++ 100% would tie again. Not my cup of tea normally but this is simple and elegant. I like it! 

Posted by: @zentai

100% would tie again.

I confess, I've already got a bit addicted to this technique, teasing my exposed balls gives me so much pleasure! I love it. Using a thick rope made of silicone makes the third plus for me. 😉

@sowithoutaneros

i haven’t tried this yet because in my experience my scrotum is too tight to separate my balls and I am afraid to hurt myself. I do do cock ring knots occasionally but at that point the skin is already shiny and distended, with no stretch left. More than this can be outright dangerous!

i tried something new with my partner these last few days. When fully erect, I lay on my back with my legs up in the air and held tight together, keeping my hard dick and balls on the opposite side of my legs (like when you pretend you have a vagina).  The sensation of that alone is intense for me—maximum sensitivy and vulnerability, plus the distended erection probably massages the prostate from the inside—and when she then licks my balls, it is sublime. It feels like i have a different sort of genitals, and I tell her to lick my pussy when she does it...

@divine_o, I appreciate your warning, everybody should take care. Our physique is as unique as our journey and we should be cautious with our best parts. No one should feel intrigued to compete with anyone else but thoughtfully avoid any harm.

Your report again reveals how wonderful it is to have one's partner involved and get such sensitive caressings. Indeed you've described a technique I love too. Missing that tongue at my balls though.

After all it's a matter of genetic preconditions. Another important role however belongs to the ambient temperature, which makes the difference between low hangers and your ballsack drawing your jewels high and tight.  Between your thighs your balls get warmed and stretched at the same time - a win-win technique! 😉

I myself envisioned an exciting scene this morning. Lying on my back in bed, window wide open to let some air in, a cold breeze went through my room and I laid my hands on my inner thighs, visualizing a girl on my left (heart) and a guy on my right side touching me with their hands. Then I let them in turns ever so slightly and tenderly touch my balls with one or two fingers, then rest their hands on my thighs again. During these interruptions I felt entrusted to their tender loving care and experienced strong orgasms. When the orgasms subsided one or the other hand started another playful approach to tickle my testicles in a new way or caressed my inner thighs or my pubic area. Finally I found myself squirming and writhing in Super-O-Land.

Life is so wonderful, stay playful and enjoy yourself!

Mart

I always fondle my balls lightly to get the build-up started...usually pays wonderful dividends!