P Waves!!!!!!

i would suggest a natural oil like extra virgin olive oil, there are many others too if you search on here, they last a long time and are cheap. you could try playing some relaxing music?

The Durex 2 in 1 is performing very good on my side!
Don't like olive oil. Way to messy. And does not slide as good as the Durex.

How long are you riding?
It took me a while before I got the waves. Like 2 months riding 2/3 times a week...

I agree with @ineverknew. Quite a few people use it. Apparently olive oil can be a little messy, and it'll stain the sheets, so put a towel down. You can also try coconut oil. I actually went looking for olive oil in the discount food store here, but I found pure coconut oil instead. It works well, it's thicker than olive oil, and it's fairly cheap. I haven't tried it by itself yet though. I've been mixing it with the little bit of Shea butter I have left. 75% Shea with 25% Coconut.

Ye im with w smoke. I use almond oil and cocoa moisturiser. Smells amazing 2

yeah coconut oil is good too. right now im using shea butter, its the best so far.

Cant have any lingering smells though.

Dude you seem to be very anxious and precocious about this... if you can hide your aneros and lube you can easily do it with a towel(s) you use for your sessions. I use vaseline, I just use a toilet paper when I am done to remove the excess and take a shower before sleeping, usually 2 hours after my session. It works great for me... not easy to clean if you try to clean it. Your skin will absorb it hence the reason why I wait some hours before taking a shower.

Do your own laundry if you are too afraid some one discover your secret.

Can't have any lingering smells, huh? An enema and a wipe with a damp washcloth after a session should get rid of any smells, if you don't have time for a shower. I wouldn't suggest using vaseline because it does hold a...unique odor for awhile. There are many threads about lube. One in particular has alot of great information, and I know you'll find the exact type of lube that fits your needs in there. Just wander around here a little bit and you'll find the thread. Don't use the search function.

As for towels and sheets, I have to agree with @diem. Do your own laundry.

I use vaseline as well. Not messy like olive oil, doesn't stain, lasts really long. Only downside is it takes a little longer to wash off your fingers.

Also, I live with my folks too. Although it's generally not suggested, I like to put on underwear and hide under bed covers. Makes me feel 100% secure.

I use vaseline as well. Not messy like olive oil, doesn't stain, lasts really long. Only downside is it takes a little longer to wash off your fingers.

Also, I live with my folks too. Although it's generally not suggested, I like to put on underwear and hide under bed covers. Makes me feel 100% secure.

Nice, ill skip on wearing unders, i sleep nude, cant wear anything to bed.

Well had another session tonight. Usual shaking but manages to get semi boned n when I wud squeeze I'm guessing my PC my wanger wud grow bigger. Cudnt continue, the shakes are a workout pretty much.. Idk n don't see how some dudes I've seen in vids can go an hr shaking as intensely as I did or more so. Can I skip the shaking part...??? He he. Anyone's thoughts...? Suggestions...?

@newguy8, i think the whole shaking thing is just your way of reacting to the experience and feelings. Eventually you may be able to control them more. I know in the beginning i used to tremble alot, leg shaking, but as time went on they became less and less. With more practice and relaxation i think you might be able to control them more. Good luck.