One question about the super O

I remember reading today in one of the older posts I was searching through that "if you can imagine something more pleasurable, then you haven't had a super-o" or something like that. So I'm guessing it is a lot more intense than a regular ejaculation.

Anonicos & Ashlen,

Though I’ve only experienced a couple of super-O’s, I have to say that they were not significantly more intense than a normal ejaculatory orgasm, if looked upon over the same corresponding time span.
But…
Recall the pleasurable feelings that you experience moments before your ejaculatory orgasm, when you are in that high arousal plateau, now imagine yourself in that state for 10, 20, 30, 40 minutes or more. Now on top of that recall the pleasure you get from the 10-20 seconds of your ejaculatory orgasm, but now it is sustained for 3-4 minutes, then you drop back to that plateau level only to repeat the 3-4 minute orgasm cycle a minute or two later, with this cycle repeating itself over that 40 minute period, that is what the super-O was like for me. The orgasms themselves were not more intense but the whole experience will shake you to your core with the intensity of the totality, because it is just so far outside any previous frame of reference. I certainly hope you get to soon experience that wonderful state of being.

Thanks rumel.

Ejaculatory orgasms do in fact seem to be EXTREMELY intense, but they are short and so localised to such a small area. If one were to experience the intensity of an ejaculatory orgasm all over their body, that I imagine would be pretty extreme.

Would this be fair to say?

I say this because I really am looking to find a more intense sexual experience than the regular orgasm. Not by a bit, but by a lot. Does anyone else have their 2 cents to give?

Great description Rumel of the super-O. Amazing thing is that they get more and more intense with practice and by refraining from ejaculation. Intensity for me now greatly exceeds even my most extreme ejaculatory orgasms of the past. I have only lightly ejaculated a few times in the last months. Now I'm almost afraid to go for a grand finale hyper-O in case my going supernova turns me into a black hole!!!

Intensity for me now greatly exceeds even my most extreme ejaculatory orgasms of the past.

Ok, this is more what I was hoping to hear lol. You see I am looking for two things for my sex life; this prolonged, altered-state euphoria, of course sounds wonderful, but also, a purely sexual, explosive kind of super intense orgasm.

It's the latter I really need to know is attainable or not, else I was look elsewhere for that and stick to the Aneros for the "blissful aura" type business.

GrandTiger,

If I remember my Learning Channel cosmology lesson correctly, the progression from Hyper-O would next be ‘Red Giant’ then ‘Nova’ or 'Supernova', thence to ‘White Dwarf’ and finally ‘Black Dwarf’ before becoming a ‘Black Hole’, thus you see you have numerous lives yet to live, so don’t worry about going from the 'Super-O' to 'Hyper-O' status as you still have much evolutionary time to go before you start sucking all the matter around you into your core being.

Good Vibes to You!

The impression I have of the orgasmic world for men and women is there are supernovas and there are pulsars.

Rumel, what you describe is a pulsar. What a girl gets when she stims her g spot is a supernova. Both are great. I won't both As a male, can I achieve the latter?

Anonicos,

“The impression I have of the orgasmic world for men and women is there are supernovas and there are pulsars…
Both are great. I want both … As a male, can I achieve the latter?”
I honestly wish I could answer that question for you. I suspect that you can. GrandTiger, most recently, and others have certainly described attainment of levels of intensity beyond what I have experienced and I have no reason to doubt their veracity.
I do know this, as you continue along the Aneros learning path you may experience fits and starts, temporary detours and slow progress for reconstruction (rewiring) work but the path ahead appears to stretch to well past your immediate destination, toward terra incognita. I believe that is when the true adventure and mystery of the possible begins, after you have become familiarized with the network of paths around super-O town.

Good Vibes to You!

If I can chime in here, I am not sure exactly what Anonicos is looking for, but maybe simply saying that a traditional penile ejaculation is pinpointed in your penis where all the activity is happening. It is a beautiful thing, but it just doesn't last long enough. A Super O is located in a much larger area. There are times when it is prostate based, sometimes anal. I have heard of orgasms centered in the heart (heartgasms) or nipples.

The sky is apparently the limit when you are talking about a non-traditional Super O. The best thing with a Super O is that they can just keep coming and coming until you decide to stop it. There are times when during a Super O you will actually feel the orgasm move from area to area in relation to where it is centered. That is the "whole body" event happening. I actually had buzzing in my ears this weekend that was directly associated to the orgasm I was having centered in my prostate. It was like a beating heart, alternating between the two. Pretty amazing!

Is the Super O as intense or more intense than a traditional orgasm? For me, they are two different animals! I prefer the Super O and as I experiment with it more, its dimensions keep changing so my descriptions of it change as well. I don't know if I will ever know it all. I am in my 40's and according to the age poll in the forum, I have a good 30+ years of experimenting ahead of me. Isn't life great?

Buster

I know what you mean and understand that it's very hard to quantify and compare this.

But essentially my problem is I am unsatisfied with the intensity of my penis orgasms. Mine can be very intense and enjoyable, but I want to be blown away.

I want to experience what a girl feels during a g spot orgasm. That kind of purely sexual, massively explosive, satisfying release.

Has anyone achieved that with their prostate?

Aneros orgasms are great, no question about it. They can go on and on, which is a wonderful thing. It's hard to compare standard ejaculatory orgasms and Aneros dry ones. Both feel great, but they're completely different. I love the fact that I can experience intense orgasms that last a long time, but I have to admit that at the end of a long session, it sometimes feels like something's missing or unfinished when I haven't ejaculated. I love the release of a big ejaculation, and rarely have that with the Aneros.
I don't think you'll be disappointed with the Aneros, but it may not be the exact experience you're seeeking. It is what it is.

Ok, I think I understand.

I do feel a little disheartened that this might not be possible with "our bits" as men. No doubt there are women that do, or would if this was more well publicised and understood, be envious of the long, euphoric Aneros orgasms, but as a guy, I do envy the ability of some girls to have those brain melting gspot orgasms.

Perhaps by combining a super O with a regular orgasm at the same time? Is that even possible?

Many thanks Rumel for the lesson in cosmology. So I guess I have nothing to fear just yet regarding going supernova. I'll hold off for a while though because I know if I let myself go into hypergasm I'll be totally spent for the next three days. By holding back I'm enjoying all these super-O's mornings, evenings, and middle of the night too, every day. If I didn't have to work I'd be doing it afternoons as well.

Yes Anonicos, of course it is possible, it's just a matter of deciding to go for it!

Yes Anonicos, of course it is possible, it's just a matter of deciding to go for it!

Have you ever managed it? I mean, both kinds of orgasms, at the same time. Or does our anatomy prevent the two from happening simulataneously?

Ok, I think I understand.

I do feel a little disheartened that this might not be possible with "our bits" as men. No doubt there are women that do, or would if this was more well publicised and understood, be envious of the long, euphoric Aneros orgasms, but as a guy, I do envy the ability of some girls to have those brain melting gspot orgasms.

Perhaps by combining a super O with a regular orgasm at the same time? Is that even possible?

I'm not an expert but from what I've read and seen on tv (in addition to discussions by Zaneblue and B Mayfield) on the similarity of male and female orgasm they are likely very similar.

The male penile orgasm / ejaculation is similar to clitoral orgasm. The location and nerve center wirings are in similar areas. Likewise the female vaginal / g spot orgasm is likened to the prostate / perineum orgasm. Females based on stimulation may get both at the same time. However, yes, you can be in the midst of an intense Aneros Super O and decide to end with penile ejaculation. That would likely be very incredible if timed at the same time. I haven't done it at the same time, as I'm usually too busy enjoying the Aneros orgasm but I'll try it soon when I'm nearing the end of a session.

I will say that I suspect my orgasms at times are as high in intensity as the best female ones...but just a guess. When these happen I am overwhelmed and my body is just taken over. Breathing is very fast, and heartbeat is fairly fast as well. Prostate is likely milking / ejaculating and entire body is basically convulsing in pleasure. When I am done my vision may be blurred.

Is this good enough for you?

Yes Anonicos, but haven't done it for a few weeks. With practice, ejaculation becomes a decision. You can decide ahead of time that you are going to go for a grand finale on this occasion. Then after an hour or so of sustained non-ejaculatory orgasms to can decide to go for it. Then allow it to build slowly, no hurry, just let the tremendous crescendo take place and enjoy.

Reason I haven't done it lately is because the experience is so extremely intense and such a huge load is spent, it leaves me totally depleted for two or three days. Whereas refraining from ejaculating keeps me feeling full of energy and always ready for more.

Yep, I agree with Grandtiger. Normal ejaculation runs you down, and takes your sexual and other energy and drains it for awhile. The other day during my 'Screaming O' I determined I don't masturbate my penis and ejaculate because the feeling is SO GOOD, and SO INTENSE that I don't want it ever to end. That may be one reason to do the penis ejac though - so that you finally do end and don't want more.