Hi all, looking for a few pointers if possible. I'm a relative newcomer to the aneros, only had it a few days. I had my first semi successful session last night, where I experienced the major muscle shakes, and clamping, but as far as I know, no orgasm, mini or otherwise. I'm assuming the orgasm with this feels similar to an ejaculation, but hopefully with no ejaculate. Anyway, on to today, I've felt all day as if I still had the aneros in, but didnt, and felt it build a few times, then just now I was sat on the toilet and felt it build majorly, all over shakes, abdominal shakes, pleasure, some cowpers fluid etc but as far as i know, no orgasm. Needless to say I tried a repeat, and the same happened, but still with no orgasm. (edit: make that 3, its addictive lol) My questions are, is that the orgasm and I am misreading it, or would you assume it to be the beginnings of a super-o that somehow i am killing? And is it normal to be able to do it without the aneros, am i going to feel close to orgasm all the time, or is that just my body rewiring? I tried browsing the forums here, but cant get a description of the actual orgasms themselves, so not quite sure what i am looking for. thanks.
@neros wrote a great post called The Myth of Super Orgasm ( https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/the-myth-of-super-orgasm ). I suggest you start by reading this post. It will give you a good base for understanding non-ejaculatory orgasms and what lo look for and expect.
It's quite normal, and not uncommon to be able to get orgasms without the Aneros. It is often referred to as Aless in this forum.
During rewiring, all sorts of interesting things can take place, but I haven't heard of anyone who kept feeling close to orgasm all the time.
We are all different and unique, so it is impossible to say what your journey will look like. You write of muscle shakes and clamping, as do many others. Yet others, like me, are completely relaxed throughout the entire process. Neither is more right or wrong. Just different.
Enjoy your journey! 🙂
hi @Pavlov, thanks for taking the time to respond. A very useful link, and informative too, I guess in being a learner I'm trying to figure out just what I'm looking for instead of just enjoying it. I'll keep going and see what happens, but its great so far. Thanks again
@weeman I'm happy if I can be of help 🙂
Patience is a virtue when you embark on your journey towards the land of bliss. Throw your expectations overboard, relax, listen to your body and see where it will take you. Enjoy the journey itself.
Having just written those words, I realize it sounds like I'm on drugs, but then again, if we should believe those who tried both, there are many similarities...
@weeman,
I agree with what @Pavlov wrote and I'll add my thoughts as well.
...I've felt all day as if I still had the aneros in, but didnt, and felt it build a few times, then just now I was sat on the toilet and felt it build majorly, all over shakes, abdominal shakes, pleasure, some cowpers fluid etc but as far as i know, no orgasm. Needless to say I tried a repeat, and the same happened, but still with no orgasm. My questions are, is that the orgasm and I am misreading it, or would you assume it to be the beginnings of a super-o that somehow i am killing?
IMHO, Yes you are in the orgasmic phase but you may be miseading it because you are expecting to get sensations like traditonal penile based masturbation, this is a trap to be avoided. Prostate based orgasms can induce similar spasms to traditional ejaculatory events but they can also produce a wide variety of other sensations. Any orgasmic build-up can lead to a Super-O but depending on the circumstances you may or may not enter that particular level of orgasm. The Super-O can NOT be forced to occur, it must be allowed to happen and there are plenty of things that interfer with that process (please see the thread - Identifying Obstacles to Progress).
And is it normal to be able to do it without the aneros, am i going to feel close to orgasm all the time, or is that just my body rewiring?
Yes, it is normal to develop orgasmic potential upon application of one's intent but it is not an uncontrollable sustained orgasmic urge all the time.
I tried browsing the forums here, but cant get a description of the actual orgasms themselves, so not quite sure what i am looking for.
You may find reading the thread - What's an Orgasm? helpful. I think it is important here to make a distinction between 'looking for' something and simply looking (being a patient observer). As Jack Johnston said, on his KSMO forum,
Expect NOTHING... yet ALLOW ANYthing...
Good Vibes to You !
@rumel Over nine years on this forum and you still take the time to truly help guys that are just starting. Yours is a fine example indeed. Keep up the great work.