Not hard during Aneros sessions

its not advisable to end sessions with ejaculation anyways so I wouldnt worry about that. You may want to check out yourbrainonporn.com. Lots of good advice for quitting porn.

its not advisable to end sessions with ejaculation anyways so I wouldnt worry about that. You may want to check out yourbrainonporn.com. Lots of good advice for quitting porn.

Hi Yes I have looked at that site and it has been helpful. I had read that a lot of people were finishing sessions off with traditional thats where I got the idea to try agreed I will leave it alone in the future it seems the last effect after of fully body orgasm is much better any way,

Yeah I think I need to keep working on the porn part with the erections. seems to be the lager concern for me at this point, I really do not know what else to blame it on I am on high blood pressure medicine which can also contribute.

Himm I was reviewing that site and this seems to be what I have been describing.


To develop porn-induced ED, heavy porn users have spent years overriding their normal mechanisms. Once porn users with ED stop, they generally experience a period of no libido and “dead dick.” They are now experiencing their true libido, minus the 'drug.' For years, they have simply ignored their true libido (when it signaled, "Enough!"). The urge to use was an urge triggered by cues for their addiction.

Seems correct

@chiman, yeah i think this answers your question. Seems normal to have a period where your brain is going to try really hard to get that porn fix, so without it your going to feel empty and not as horny. Stick to your guns and in no time things will go back to normal.

I have the opposite issue, mine is too hard and is a distraction form the feelings and a 'swelling' in my prostate i look for in my sessions

I have the opposite issue, mine is too hard and is a distraction form the feelings and a 'swelling' in my prostate i look for in my sessionsHi way before I knew about aneros and was single I had experimented with anal stimulation but was always timid and would try to convince myself not to do it I was homophobic and I know that now I am no longer afraid and have deep sensitivity for guys of all persuasions that are on this site I feel what ever you like we are all connected through the discovery hereAny way not to get too much off topic one of my X Girlfriends was an anal maniac we were in the back of the car and really getting into some heavy sex all of a sudden she stuck her finger up my butt and hit the prostate I did not know what that was back then thought she had some kind of magic powers, and I came like I never had before she caught me totally off guard. After that experience I would battle with the idea of further experimentation when I finally gave in it would be infrequent but when I stimulated my self with a vibrator I would always get rock hard like you are describing I could never recreate that feeling she gave me that night as I had no idea how to achieve it I was close but as Mr. Mayfield points out vibrators are like cutting butter with a chainsaw when it comes to prostate massage.. Who knows once I get though this ED thing it may be the same for me. But I would prefer if it was not during the sessions. Maybe you should try desensitizing creams to try and numb it up a bit just a thought

Sorry I don't know why it says inhope says I was trying to reply to Inhope

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Don't sweat it. I never get erect during a session. In fact, my dick nigh on disappears..! I find this helps take my mind off it, which is a good thing.

from all the videos I've ever seen of successful sessions (not that you should trust the videos all the time or use them as a guide) show guys having a stiff dick, usually though its up and down in relation to the pleasure level they experience. This is true of myself for example.

@ChiMan

What in the Wiki, the Forums, or in chat has led you to believe that erections have ANYTHING to do with what we are doing here?

Can you cite examples?

I mean, really....WTF are you thinking and what is it BASED one? (and I am specifically addressing 'erections')

@AneRico
I really do not like the tone of your reply take it easy man This is a discussion site not an inquisition.


You obviously do not understand what I am talking about here I used to have erections during aneros session . As inhope pointed out it can be an up and down experience during sessions that's what I used to experience, Lately I have had none flaccid the entire time not that its bad thing . But I am trying to avoid Porn as an experiment to see if it affects my ability to have and keep an erection and so far I am finding that it does.


I am trying the rewiring approach that I had read on the your brain on porn website so far it looks to be what I am currently experiencing


See below from the Wiki, it does not speak about an erection but normally a Super - T requires stimulating the Penis to ejaculation.Which in a normal situation would cause the penis to be erect. I have also seen mention of people on this site that will be erect the whole time they are in a session its an individual thing. We are men we get erections pretty simple eh


I am not sure why you came off like you did in your reply we are all trying for the same thing here I was just looking for support from other users,. And from the responses on this discussion that's what I have been Primarily getting.
Wiki quote
If it so happens that you're not ready for the Super O there's always the Super-T. Skip right to a traditional penile orgasm (with the Aneros inserted). The Aneros can turbocharge a traditional orgasm (ejaculation). Such orgasms are typically far more intense, produce a greater volume of ejaculate, are of longer duration and are much more satisfying! So if you are not up to a Super O, enjoy a Super T and have no guilt about it. After all, tomorrow is another day.

also erections during sessions is fine if you have them same goes if you don't have them. Also the wiki is not a 100% accurate a thing, its just a guideline, 90% of the wiki doesn't work or apply to me for example so yeah...

Check out some videos of guys using the aneros and you will see they have super erections, for some guys when we get prostate swelling/feedback/warmth/movement it results in an erection, it does to me no matter how my focus is away from my penis or of porn. it just is this way it is, though when i get a super erection it does cause the swelling to get 'too much' and then can stop me getting the nice feelings which is frustrating.


"Skip right to a traditional penile orgasm (with the Aneros inserted). The Aneros can turbocharge a traditional orgasm (ejaculation). Such orgasms are typically far more intense, produce a greater volume of ejaculate, are of longer duration and are much more satisfying! So if you are not up to a Super O, enjoy a Super T and have no guilt about it. After all, tomorrow is another day."


The above for me is NOT true at all it is the opposite, for me results in a numbed ejacultaion or an average one, i seem to be the only one that this happens to apparently.

I am really not in a happy place with this right now,
Your erectile state has no influence over your ability to experience pleasure using your Aneros massager. Many men have no or minimal erections during their Anerosessions, this is nothing to be concerned about it is just they way you are naturally wired. The fact you are on hypertensive medication could be a huge factor as well, it is well known that such medications often have the effect of elliciting erectile dysfunction. It is also becoming widely known (as you've already read) that frequent/obsessive viewing of pornography alters the brain chemistry exasperating ED problems. Most ED problems are psychological in origin, as such addressing those underlying psychological issues is the solution.
I suspect you are still tightly holding to a penis centric view of orgasmic generation. This is a very common condition for newbie Aneros users. I strongly urge you to read 'cockadoodle’s thread Penis, NOT and 'rook's thread Whole Body/Whole Mind - the mental side & "zoneros" for a little insight on the paradigm shift in thinking necessary for successful Aneros use.
While some videos of men using an Aneros do show full erections (many of these also show supplementary stimulation techniques/devices to maintain those erections) there are also videos of men experiencing multiple orgasms with a flaccid penis. IMHO, this annotated video by 'myvidfun' is an example of what a more common Anerosession might look like to the casual observer, no "...super erections..." needed here!
Good Vibes to You !

Great advise @Rumel, though that video clearly shows the guy getting a very big erection several times, on and off, his angle of where he is positioned shows it less obviously so, but you can see when the pleasure level rises he gets an erection (if he were standing or kneeling you would see it more clearly)

Look at time index 15:56 as one example and when his orgasm start at 30:31, its super hard. There are many more examples in the video but i stand by what I'm saying and its evident to see.

Incidentally this is what happens in my sessions, though my dick goes a little bit harder than his.

The other videos online all show erections I consider it normal if its hard, semi hard and flaccid. None of the videos i refer to show the user touching their member.

I have been wondering what the aneros does to ones sexual life, what happens to the view of sex and traditional orgasming through that as opposed a super orgasm, it pales in comparison? perhaps this is why you are experiencing ED ChiMan because you find prostate centred orgasms more fulfilling (as does your body)

Need to lay off the porn as well, even that vid rumel posted to me, now, is considered too much and a distraction. Might be good to watch for the visual bank for sessions later on though 🙂

Hi All I appreciate the support I agree the aneros is great for people with ED and If I never had another erection and just did Aneros I would be in bliss any way.

But when you have the misses to service ED is a big PITA pardon the pun. We are now mixing anal and traditional sex in our play time but a women needs the erection part as much as most of us would enjoy a good Pegging once in a while from them.

I am totally convinced that Porno has had caused my ED.

Great news on lunch break today my wife and I went at it and no ED it was Awesome! I am going to keep the abstinence from viewing porn and continue with a couple times a week Aneros sessions no porn just imagination and I think I am on the road to recovery. I have not masturbated to porn for just about a month now slipped up once and was sorry I did. this seems to be working out, I will keep you all posted on my progress and again appreciate the support of our Aneros community.

Inhope wrote

I have been wondering what the aneros does to ones sexual life, what happens to the view of sex and traditional orgasming through that as opposed a super orgasm, it pales in comparison? perhaps this is why you are experiencing ED ChiMan because you find prostate centred orgasms more fulfilling (as does your body)


Sorry missed this


Yes I agree that may also have something to do with it but as I had said I am a partner and need to satisfy the other half and when erections don't happen or go down in the middle of heavy encounter getting a flat tire as I call it its not too good.

The literature on Sex and Porn Addiction sets out a 90 day total abstinence period from porn to heal the neurochemical condition of a porn addicted brain.
I am sure there are variables in how fast men heal, but I am wishing you the best ChiMan. Hope you heal quickly and ditch the porn. It is not reality. Still further, one third of porn addicts are Intimacy Anorexic. A book by that name has been written by Dr. Douglas Weiss advising men how to go about healing intimacy anorexia and connecting/reconnecting with their wives in sex.
Good luck Man

@inhope, regardless if you get erections, they are not important to success! I see erections as just a side act that usually happens just because of how good things feel. Before aneros use anytime I would see something stimulating sexually I would get an erection. After aneros use when I see something stimulating sexually I feel my prostate come alive first and then if its really good I will get an erection. Also during my sessions erections tend to be very bothersome and distracting, so for the past month or so I have been purposefully relaxing more when an erection develops which tends to kill it surprisingly, though I'm not all the way there. By simply focusing more intensely on the prostate and less on your penis the erections seem to diminish.

Thats what i said i my reply ineverknew, it doesn't matter what your dick does in sessions, just s long as your focus isn't there. I was just pointing out that rumel was a little wrong in saying that the guy in the video doesn't have erections or super erections throughout his sessions, he quite clearly does.

from all the videos I've ever seen of successful sessions (not that you should trust the videos all the time or use them as a guide) show guys having a stiff dick, usually though its up and down in relation to the pleasure level they experience. This is true of myself for example.

My response was about the the quote above. I was just making the point that you do not need an erection for a successful session.

Thats what i was saying as well, i said that it does not matter if your dick is hard, semi or flaccid in session as long as you focus on the prostate.

@inhope, I probably just misunderstood you then, no biggy.

from all the videos I've ever seen of successful sessions (not that you should trust the videos all the time or use them as a guide) show guys having a stiff dick, usually though its up and down in relation to the pleasure level they experience.Does the guy in this video you referenced ( http://www.yuvutu.com/video/1233521/hello-progasm-let-s-go-for-a-ride/) have a stiff dick? Ain't you overstating things a bit?

@imp That guy suffers with ED. Which he has stated on these forums, I'm not overstating anything, I said it doesn't matter weather it's hard or not, but all the videos I've seen the guys have stuff dicks.

I have been down for the count sick.

I have noticed when I am in aneros session the same thing ,I will get hard and flaccid mostly semi flaccid it seems to be part of the experience as everyone has said don't touch it just accept what it does and enjoy the MMOs

I have not had one for a while being sick.
No one is going to be home tomorrow night would have been the perfect opportunity for an aneros session
If by some miracle I feel better. Doubtful though

My experience varies. Sometimes I'm hard pretty much throughout the session, sometimes I'm totally soft the entire time. Neither the erection or the soft cock seem to matter to the super Os. They continue to happen regardless of the state of my penis.

I thought I'd add my bit on this subject. In the past before I managed to get where I wanted to, I wasn't having any success apart from nice sensations and I was always focusing on my penis. Every successive session I've had since has been without an erection or ejaculation, which I don't desire anyway. I never finish myself off with masturbation because I don't want too, it's almost like I have forgotten I have a penis. All my attention is on my anal muscles and my mind and body. I don't watch porn during my sessions anymore because my first success was without it. I find it a distraction. For me to get anywhere I have to be in a quiet dimly lit room with some weed and that's it.

Dstrange I take it you're not in a relationship then?

Dstrange I take it you're not in a relationship then?

What does that have to do with anything?