Not getting results (so far) and not sure what even to expect

Others will laugh that I'm giving advice but seriously from one fellow frustrated human to another i believe i understand :

1. at first it is, you need to relax and find that its actually very simple
2. 2 or 3 sessions is nothing, I've had hundreds and only now am making progress (its been many years as well)
3. i don't think this will help?
4. I've tried this, didn't do much
5. read the wiki
6. yes of course
7. up to you buts its reccomened around 90 mins for beginners

Hi, Jusbeginning. Good questions. First have you read the wikis? ( http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Getting_Started#Milestones) It's not really complicated but there's as many paths to prostate pleasure as there are men. So you'll see lots of suggestions that work for individual men; your task is to find the path that works for you. I'm not sure what you're doing or not doing form what you say so have no comment on that. The wikis distill the essence of many men's experiences with prostate massage with aneros devices and as such are the best place to begin. The simple framework for approaching a session is to breathe relaxedly and regularly into your belly, ignore all expectations, eliminate distractions, notice everything you feel inside,especially good sensations, and above all relax and be patient.

I concur with eupheistic and Inhope. July will be the one year mark since i started with aneros and i feel that i am truly 'just beginning' to figure this out. "...relax and be patient.", as euphemistic says, should be the aneros slogan, lol

jusbeginning,

I concur with everything @euphemistic said so concisely. The only thing I might add is allow your ego to take a vacation during your sessions.
Good Vibes to You !

@jusbeginning --- The path to success with Aneros takes many forms, including allowing even the slightest sense of pleasure to grow with time and patience!

You've spent your teen and adult years learning how to have orgasms through stimulation of your penis...now...it's time to learn how to have orgasms through your prostate and anal musculature!

It's a different, and unfamiliar, path, but it's 100% real! And, if make time for your sessions, 2-3 or more per week, you will start to sense feelings you've likely never felt before!

When you sense something new or unique, celebrate it, follow it, and relax into it as much as possible!

Read, and re-read the Wiki and Milestones list for clues as to how you are likely to see progress, with the belief that you may experience some or all of the items on the list!

Most of all, enjoy every success and HAVE FUN!

Awakening your prostate to being stimulated takes time, so be patient with yourself!

It's a new way to orgasm, and you'll love the journey as you learn, and experience the amazing sensations of a prostate orgasm!

TG

Not sure which model you have, but I would suggest trying a different one. I'm new as well, I experienced some mini-o's on my second session with the Helix Syn, the next session, I used the Progasm Jr and exploded with super-o's. The Tempo worked too, but it is VERY subtle...

Another suggestion, lay on your back and try and put your lower back completely flat on the bed, now, thrust your buttocks deep into the bed raising your lower back off the bed, slowly repeat. This will move the head of the Aneros back and forth over your prostate. Picture in your mind the tip of the Aneros rubbing your prostate and try to feel it. Do this very slowly, do not rush, but try and stay relaxed relaxed relaxed while you do this. Lots of lube is also important for this feeling to manifest itself.

After a session, I can still feel the lube on my prostate, which tends to cause some aftershocks, even with the Aneros removed...

Thanks for all the helpful advice!

Someone asked what I'm using and it is the Aneros Helix Syn Silicone Prostate Massager.
I got that one b/c of all the good reviews on Amazon.

Would others endorse the recommendation
to switch to Progasm Jr?

What's weird is "how long" it (may) take to get an "O" everybody's talking about.

I asked my M.D. about it (a female) and she told me NOT to try to massage my prostate. I wonder if that is the normal reply from the medical model community. Any M.D.s out there endorsing Aneros?

Jusbeginning,
I would agree with everyone about taking your time. I started using my Helix Syn about 3 months ago. I haven't experienced a SuperO yet but I can tell I'm getting close. My "rewiring" is well underway and I experience small waves of pleasure throughout the day. When I ride my Helix, the bigger waves are incredible.

Be patient and you will be rewarded.it takes some time.

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Hope that helps!