NOOOOOOOO!

Hi y'all.

After about a month of reading up on this wonderful item, I ordered and it arrived on Thursday but I am sorry to say I am having nothing that even compares to what I have read. I have been unable to have a "standard "O let alone a mnd altering 5 minute O.

I have had no pre cum fluid draining, no orgasms at all, no really nice sensations. Nada.

Lemme tell you what's happened and a few q's I have.

On Thursday, I read the instructions carefully and inserted it with lube. I used Baby Oil as I had no KY or sex lube.
I curled up, inserted the device, put on a porno for added stimulus and just forgot about it as I was aware I should not force it.
As soon as it went in, my penis hardened but I think that was down to general stimulus.

Today, Friday, I lay on the bed and repeated the exercises. After a good 25 minutes of "not much" my anus started to go all tingly - almost like when your hand has been to sleep and is just coming around!
Was this correct or was my anus just getting numb after 30 mins?

Then I felt like I needed to pee. I took these as good signs but unfortunately nothing materialised 🙁

Problem 1:

The instructions say that after acclimatising it, to contract the muscles 20 - 30 times in time with your breathing and that I should be in a state of euphoria after that.
No I am not.

Problem 2: I am not even sure I am doing it right! The instructions mention using your sphincter yet at another time mention using your PC muscles.
How do you differentiate between the two?

All I know is I tense muscles that make sit seem like I am trying to "suck" faeces back up my anus rather than expelling them.

Problem 3: The instructions seem to contradict.
First it's "contract 20 - 30 times in time with your breathing" and then they say "contract 1/4 to 1/2 a full contraction" and then later they say " make a strong contraction of your anal sphincter."

When contracting 20 - 30 times, should this be at 1/4 to 1/2 strength as well? I am lost!

Problem 4: The Perineum Abutment does nothing for me!

Problem 5: My contractions are steady, like breathing. Is thsi right or am I meant to hold each one?

Please help! I want to experience great Os.