Hi All – new member and user here. Just received my Helix Syn and it is TINY. Have been into butt play for a while and think I may have bought too small. I also read that it is advised to use a water based lube. I have a couple but I have found they dry out or get absorbed into the skin quickly. Have used Johnson & Johnson Baby Oil Gel with other toys and it lasts a long time. Can this be used or do I need to reapply the water based stuff a lot? Will spend some time with my Helix Syn on Sunday and see what happens.
Use any lube you want. EXCEPT silicone based luvs with the syn line of products they will react and deteriorate the silcone of the toy.
When I lube up u put some unrefined coconut oil right into myself and coat my helix syn in vasaline with sheabutter. Before I found the vasaline Shea butter combo I used regular vasaline, then added the unrefined coconut oil later.
That combo of coconut oil and vasaline keep things slick for a long time.
Also try searching for lube in the forum, there are threads with that disscusion and are very informative and the ideas will surely last longer than what you have now.
Just remember NO silocone based lubes with the SYN products.
thanks for reply - looking to explore this weekend
Also the less you expect the better, it can be a long road to the desired pleasure so if nothing happens or you feel little don't dret, concentrait on how it feels and where you feel it and relax. Reading the wiki would be a great place to learn about the journey your going to under take.
Let us know how it goes! The aneros comunity is very nice and helpful with any questions that may arise!
Well - first time this morning and nothing. Will try again when I get some extended alone time.
I'd say minimum 1 hour for a good session. Some do 45 minutes minimum but I like to have at least an hour.
Definitely just relax I like to do almost nothing thw whole time, maybe a few contractions and I can feel the aneros rub my prostate. Also try changing positons if you'd like, classic on the side with one knee straight and other bent, try left and right sode, also in stomach, this pit's pressure on the penis, which is usually a negative for prostate play. You want little to no penis involvement. The pleasure comes from within not the penis. Also on my back is a position I enjoy but becarful tonot to impede the aneros ability to move.
Nothing happening is the norm for us newbies, I'm fairly new to riding too I've had sessions where nothing happens but then my last session I had a few moments that felt like I was to about to have a wet orgasm even though I wasn't completely hard. That was my best to date. Since then I've felt a desire to get the aneros back in there a desire from within.
Just don't expect a whole lot your early sessions and try to focus on the aneros inside you and the feeling around your prostate.
Keep us updated!
@inchingup , I also started with a Helix Sin 7 months ago and I now feel a lot more sensations with every sessions. I average 2 sessions per week for 2 to 2.5 hours. No super-o or dry-o yet but I enjoy all the feelings I never had or noticed before Aneros. We need to be patient and enjoy what our bodies decide to let us have for feelings.
Good luck and enoy!