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03/16/1999 6:00 pm
I bought my first aneros at the end of January 2016. I was on a business trip to California and spent the whole flight thinking about the aneros and how much fun I was about to enjoy. I felt like a teenager again. My first experience was at the same time both the best and worst experience of my sexual journey. I bought an aneros helix classic at the local sex shop. I raced home to prepare for the sexual bliss that was about to consume me. I had read through the wiki and forum, without really understanding the meaning of anything. Finally, after an eternity of frustration and misguided sexual energy, I succumbed to a warm, tingling sensation in my penis, ass and thighs. I was amazed that it actually did anything, let alone give me a real orgasm. This was at the same time both the best and worst gift I have received. I then spent the next three months consumed with achieving the same experience. True to my male nature, I believed that if I followed the same formula, I would achieve the same results. In the following four months I experienced so much frustration and anger that i was ready to throw my helix away. Thankfully, I am now at a point where I have achieved real success. I now realize what it means when experienced users talk about the subtle feelings that let you know that you're on the right path. I now know that I was using a machete when I really needed a
surgical knife. For those in doubt of what is possible: please do not lose faith, it really is real. I too had the same healthy skepticism. However, what I have experienced in the past week has truly blown my mind. This device truly is amazing! My only real advice is to try and really understand the meaning behind the advice provided on these forums. I started out with an Aneros helix. I always had explosive super T orgasms, but my feelings were always mixed at best. However, this past week I have had the house to myself. I was truly able to relax with soft music and to devoid myself of all expectations around sex and how to orgasm. I feel now that I am on the way to being rewired and understanding how the sphincter and kegel muscles work in tandem. I spent Thursday and Friday night on the edge of sexual bliss. On Saturday afternoon I bought an aneros progasm at my local sex shop. I went out with the idea of buying the Maximus. Unfortunately, they were out of stock. I arrived home half an hour later like a sex crazed teenager. I prepared myself and soon after slid it into my ass. It truly took my breath away. Unlike the helix, I felt like the progasm sat right on my prostate from insertion. Even breathing in let me know that something was different. I did not have a super O the first time I used the progasm. But, I was able to enjoy the feeling of being fucked by the toy. It really does fill you up. When I finally switched back to the helix, it danced like nothing else. I am still amazed at what this toy can do with the right focus and energy - I can't wait to experience what's next!
05/09/2016 1:10 am
Thank you for investing your time in a well said encouragement and testament.
In some ways the Aneros experience will never meet our expectations, in others it will far exceed them.
05/09/2016 12:33 pm
I just want to say that i find the progasm, inclusive of the JR the worst aneros devices in the range, they inhibit movemement of the device itself and the muscles around it. I am a smaller guy so i always think that its something to do with the fact that all other aneros users must have giagantic asshoes and innards.
05/09/2016 3:09 pm
I am begining to think it's a load of baloney.
I don't even have a Super T. Jacking off with Helix, it feels just like a traditional orgasm without Aneros.
Maybe we are of different height or something, Progasm 007?
It's great that you achieved all that in just a few short months... some of us are trying this for years with no success...
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05/09/2016 8:43 pm
Thanks MO_Bosco! The_Fury: for me the progasm really heightens the experience. I can feel the device moving in rhythm with my heart and any movement of the toy feels fantastic. I believe that each toy is roughly the same length though - about four inches. So, it may just not be what you enjoy size wise. Lonewolf: you'll find success if you let yourself. I think that every model can and will give you a great experience. For me, it took a willingness to push aside the negative energy and what was a bad approach to using the toy. Now, I experience so much pleasure when I am not contracting any muscles down there, which is completely opposite to my original approach. And also realizing that I had no idea what I was doing when something did feel good for a fleeting moment.
05/10/2016 12:59 am
As with @Sorena it appears that you have become so very frustrated with your journey. I truly wish there were a set of words that I could type that would magically come to your aide. I know that both of you have spent a great deal of time and energy toward achieving your goals but have been left wanting and your patience must be worn thin. I cannot give advice, only testament and compassion.
I offer this:
I was fortunate, in my hour of complete and desperate frustration, I was able to gather the patience to retrace my steps and find where I had skipped a step. I reread the Wiki and most importantly I carefully reviewed every single line of this sticky: B's Best of the BEE-Line
After hours of careful study I was able to find something that I had missed, something that was critical to my progress. That find was the combination of deep and relaxed breathing in time with very light continuous contraction of various inner pelvic muscles. These contractions led to tensions that built up to what I call the "ache." The ache is not a pinpoint but a collection of tensions, like a self generated cramp. I concentrated on generating and moving the ache around my pelvis. As I did this I added intermittent fantasy visualizations and focused on the arousal that they ignited. The combination of physical tension and the building of intense arousal led to major P waves or blossoms of pleasure. As I lay there filled with this increasing yet gentle rolling pleasure, I made a choice. With great abandon and without expectation I turned away from the need to orgasm, relaxed and just let go. To my surprise the pleasure didn't quickly die off, it just took off. Without knowing it I was already at the point of no return and quickly fell into a series of intense and recurring full body O's.
Once that single event happened it has become fairly easy to repeat. I have only to generate a certain semi-random level of arousal and pelvic sensation to send me into the land of intense pleasure, with or without the device. My results are not perfect or completely predictable. Thankfully my journey continues.
I say this in no way to boast or taunt but to sincerely add hope that you too will find your missing element and your way.
05/10/2016 6:01 pm
@MO_Bosco What a great post! What detail; I believe I and others will gain from your response!
05/10/2016 6:27 pm
MO_Bosco: great post... just not sure how to implement it. I don't think I can do all that.
Hopefully it helps someone.
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