Need some help/advice/mentorship to get to the next level

@jim_malone_1234, to share any idea that might help you over the next hurdle, would you mind to first share some more details about your session's setup? Lately I tried some experimental changes adding some stunning feelings to my sessions meaning quite a breakthrough on my own path. Cheers!

@SOwithoutAneros my sessions setup?

Well, like I mentioned I'm either using the helix syn, or the progasm. Sometimes I inject a syringe of lube before I start, but not usually because I seem to be able to get just as good sensations either way so I save myself the time. I lie in bed, almost always on my back with my knees bent. Sometimes my legs are straight, but not usually. I've tried on my side, but that never did much for me.

As I lie there I try to do anything that feels good. Usually just a light overall pressure. Sometimes a little clenching of the PC and anal muscles to get some involuntariness going.

I've tried with and without visual aids. Either way seems to give about the same result.

Is that what you mean by my session setup? I can provide other details if there is anything you think might be important.

What were the experimental changes you added?

I have used weed as well during sessions. It has helped me to achieve amazing prostate orgasms. I prefer not to use the word super. It is hard to describe anyway so why bother sticking a label to it.

Now i can reproduce great aneros (and aless) sessions without weed. I guess thanks to rewiring. Actually i prefer now not to use weed. I started almost 5 years ago. And still discover new sensations, mostly aless. Hardly ever use my helix syn actually. If anything i prefer using my own finger. That way i can now distinguish anal and prostate orgasms.

keep experimenting and read threads on the forum. Sometimes new input can make a huge change. And finally drop all expectations. Even at my level, if i look for that amazing orgasm it usually it often ends up as a mediocre session. A large part of the orgasm is in your head so to speak.

@jim_malone_1234, yes, right, that's what I meant with session setup, thanks for sharing.

Quite from the beginning I myself preferred the prone position, I always bend my left leg, until my knee is at the height of my hip, my right leg I keep stretched out, my right arm lies along my body and my left arm I bend like mirroring my left leg. Thus my hip rises a bit and gives some space to my member. Lately I more often lie on my back, too.

My experimental changes are, for example, visualizing restraints. On my back I spread my legs and arms like on a St. Andrew's cross and imagine being tied at my ankles and wrists or even furthermore at my legs, chest and neck. Thus I feel hindered to break out of these bonds and force myself to reduce the upcoming involuntaries to a minimum. The more I do this, the more I focus on my vibes. Along with my focus my vibes become more intense and overwhelming bodywide arousal occurs.

Or I try to connect certain erogenous hot spots like my nipples and my frenulum by touching both only using one fingertip of each hand. To me it seems like I would connect them with electric cables, as it intensifies the vibes between them to the max. Lately I maximized my arousal by cooling down my fingertips using cold water before touching my nipples.

And I like experimental searches for new hot spots, having helped me to find my palate (ever tried to lick your palate back to your throat as far as possible?), the upper back of my incisor teeth, my lips (touched as slight as possible with one fingertip or with my tongue), my neck, a spot on my spine three to five fingers above my gluteal region, my palms and fingertips (holding both hands as near as possible without touching or, if, then ever so slightly).

And again, these are only some of my personal thoughts coming into my mind when thinking about your original post and your further described session's setup. Don't know if it's helpful, but perhaps one or the other idea you may have missed. Meanwhile it happened that I was surprised rereading one of my own older posts, because new exciting experiences already had buried some of my own older insights.

To say it with @gdunn, the largest part of my orgasm is in my head. As you may have learned from autogenic training, if you ever tried it, only your focus can cause increased bloodflow - felt as warmth - in every body part. Simple repeatedly spoken autosuggestions like "my arms are heavy and feel warm" enable you to lead your vibes where you want them. The bloodflow follows the focus, the vibes follow the bloodflow, the focus follows the vibes, until all this escalates into crescending fireworks inducing mmo's and SuperOs sending you into a state of pure bliss.

Stay curious and keep learning! Good vibes on your own unique path! Cheers!

Being a newbie myself, only a year in with aneros, i found nipple stimulation got me to the next level, just a suggestion, try it next session

@bandit76, if you haven't already made this experience, try cold water for your nipple stim. I only wait until the water from the faucet comes out as cold as possible, then I wet my fingers and touch my nipples. It's pure arousal! Next I will try ice cubes as known from some movies, but never tried. Aless!!! 😎