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(@jmchemist)
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After reading many discussions on the rituals and hoops people jump through to have a SuperO, I thought I would give my two cents. My prior posts (the ones I originated) describe in detail my SuperO experience. From the responses I get I conclude that I've reached a very high high level (hate to call it a 'level' but the word will have to suffice) so maybe I can help others in their journey.

My technique falls in the do nothing category but with very important mindset. In the beginning of the journey my sessions were mainly about inducing the involuntaries. I would focus on holding contractions until they took off on their own. Also, I would savor them and subconsciously hold them there even if it was a very slight hold. Here in lies the impediment to moving forward. If you focus on inducing the involuntaries and subsequently hold them then you are in essence controlling them. You must 'rewire' your mindset to the constant release of contractions. If you are in the midst of a contraction your goal should be to get it to release. It is a contradiction since the contraction feels so damn good.

Main point- the SuperO lies in the release of the contraction. It is only in the non-contraction state that the full body energy can build to a SuperO. When the involuntaries let go and release, you should be able to feel the full body energy gather. Eventually, your higher chakras will send energy to the aneros instead of the aneros sending energy up.



   
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(@canacan)
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Brilliant explanation.



   
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I always have instant involuntaries and they usually last for a good hour before they tend to pitter out. Though my orgasms have been absent for quite some time. Only recently have things begun to change and I have had some very small dry O's. I guess its all in my mind then why things havent been progressing because for me the involuntaries have never been a problem.



   
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@ineverknew try not having them (: you will have them for sure but use the mindset that you are releasing them.

You never know



   
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@JMchemist, to be honest I really dont try anymore. I even tried to quit for a while using my aneros but the pleasureable feelings I have every session kept calling me back. I'm at a point now where I just do it for fun and relaxation. Whatever happens, will happen and I'm ok with that. I'm humble now. Just dont understand and may never. And I'm ok with that too.



   
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It is only in the non-contraction state that the full body energy can build to a SuperO.

I find that too. I have to keep releasing tension that I don't even feel. It reminds me of traditional masturbation, where if you're given some tension, you hold on to it. Very difficult mindset to work against, if that's the trap you find yourself in. Especially if releasing that tension feels (in the moment) like it's moving away from the pleasure. This is where a submissive/helpless mindset helps me.



   
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@Clenchy I like how you worded it. "Especially if releasing that tension feels (in the moment) like it's moving away from the pleasure." That is much more descriptive than my 'contradiction' statement that I used to explain it.

I was never a submissive type before but apparently I am now (: My girlfriend loves to massage my prostate with her fingers and I totally submit. The role reversal for us is quite hot and connecting as well.



   
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It is only in the non-contraction state that the full body energy can build to a SuperO.

I find that too. I have to keep releasing tension that I don't even feel. It reminds me of traditional masturbation, where if you're given some tension, you hold on to it. Very difficult mindset to work against, if that's the trap you find yourself in. Especially if releasing that tension feels (in the moment) like it's moving away from the pleasure. This is where a submissive/helpless mindset helps me.

Another great comment. If it was for me to decide, this all would be sticky material.



   
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I was never a submissive type before but apparently I am now (:I think different facets of my personality are dominant or submissive. In a recent session I had mentally set up a dominant "in charge" persona and a submissive one. Both running at the same time, with the dominant one coaching the submissive one. Almost playing dominatrix to myself. I had been reading a BDSM prostate milking guide earlier that night, so the idea of rewarding good behaviour was fresh on my mind. The thought was - relaxing what I needed to relax would be rewarded with pleasure, and tensing up (chasing the pleasure) would result in the pleasure being taken away. The mechanics of things actually played out this way too, so it was easy to get into, rather than it being some forced fantasy that I didn't really believe.
My only concern is that some Tyler Durden situation will develop from doing this 😐



   
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Nice fight club reference



   
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Tyler: "Stop trying to control everything, and just.. let.. go."

Oh god, I've just ruined Fight Club for myself, forever. I'm going to be scanning it for aneros metaphors. 🙁



   
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Main point- the SuperO lies in the release of the contraction. It is only in the non-contraction state that the full body energy can build to a SuperO. When the involuntaries let go and release, you should be able to feel the full body energy gather. Eventually, your higher chakras will send energy to the aneros instead of the aneros sending energy up.

Hello @JMchemist,
This statement fully resonated with me. As I was relaxing last evening I felt the A-less buzzing that has been making frequent appearances in my life. I could feel the tightness building up in my chest and abs. It was at this point when I remembered the above quoted statement. I relaxed into the feelings. the tension kept building and I kept saying to myself, "relax into the feelings, let the tightness go". It was at this point when the contractions began. It was awesome! For about 30 minutes, I kept orgasming. It was my most significant event thus far! I feel I owe you some credit here so I'll just say "Thank You".

I hope you can get back to this tone of postings. I know things have been pretty contentious around here lately.

Thanks again!
-LS



   
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@Longshanks holy F! I am freaking ecstatic for you. Can't wait to hear about your next full on session.

I can't help but give my warning that I have given before so please forgive if it is starting to sound repetitive. If you find that you can't turn it off or it becomes too much, the peridise is an excellent way to enjoy during the work week while saving the full on prostate hitting product lines for the weekend. That way the likelyhood of losing sleep is limited to the less important weekend days (assuming one works a standard work week that is). I find that the peridise is less prone to next day aftershocks and excess energy releasing which translates to better sleep. Plus, I personally think the superT is better with the peridise.



   
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Can't wait to hear about your next full on session.

I can't help but give my warning If you find that you can't turn it off or it becomes too much, the peridise is an excellent way to enjoy during the work week while saving the full on prostate hitting product lines for the weekend. That way the likelyhood of losing sleep is limited to the less important weekend days (assuming one works a standard work week that is). I find that the peridise is less prone to next day aftershocks and excess energy releasing which translates to better sleep. Plus, I personally think the superT is better with the peridise.

Thanks @JMchemist. I will most certainly let you know. I went through a bout of unexplained anxiety about 6 months ago that has since passed. I've recently acquired a EuphoSyn which I've had one session with and was pleasantly surprised. My most significant O's thus far have been A-Less and not at times of my choosing. I have been able to fight them off during inopportune times though.



   
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@longshanks you sound on the verge of an awakening.. or not. If you believe the kundalini enthusiasts, you are chosen for the awakening by some spiritual destiny. I can't go that far with it but it does have a significant impact on how you perceive the world.

Euphosyn- I'm personally not a fan of the Syn product line. The arm on the Ptab is too pliable. It doesn't seem to provide the rocking action to my satisfaction. My fav is the eupho Classic.

In time the uninvited Os diminish. But they can be called upon in a heartbeat (:

I too had the anxiety. I didn't sleep for three days and had to go to the doc. The look on his face was hilarious. Broke the no sleep/anxiety feedback with Valium. Good to hear it no longer plagues you.



   
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@JMchemist
Must you continue to ply your blatant and unabashed dis-information on Kundalini Energy? You have Kundalini Syndrome. This explains your various maladies. Now... The Aneros awakens the Kundalini Energy(in most), unless one has had a near death experience, or some other traumatic event. Your hubris is laughable, albeit in sad way.

You spoke of being at a "high level". RUBBISH. Were you at a supposed high level, you would not be having any Energy Blockages whatsoever. Nor would it take you a week or more assimilate energy. Were you at a "high level", perchance you would not be sending certain ones into further chaos and tumult. In a sense, the blind are leading the blind.

Remember this O Scientific Genius :^o, if the Root Chakra is unbalanced and/or weak, the other 6 are going to be off-line and firing improperly. Surges occur, blockages occur, thereby causing the issues most complain about. These problems are further exacerbated by the ones that constantly have voluntary A-less. The A-less is like the Super O. You let it find you. The voluntary A-less creates unnecessary tension in the process.

Further problems are created when YOU and others over use the Aneros. Or over indulge with A-less. You are robbing Peter to pay Paul. You feel the Peredise is somehow soothing your Kundalini Syndrome, but it's making your situation worse. Rewiring the brain to the constant release of contractions is erroneous, and very comedic. Do you think that not letting the contraction run its course will cause problems?

How does the Super O lie in the release of contractions? How do you know that full Energy for a Super O can only be created in a non-contracted state? Remember this Dr. Frankenstein, the Root Chakra will send energy up the system during an experience when all 7 Chakras are in play. The Energy will be released through the Crown Chakra. Energy can be emitted from each Chakra individually. As far as Energy flowing from the Crown to the Root, don't see it happening (unless your imbalance can cause a reverse flow). That would be a reverse flow for the Energy.

Were you at a "high level", you would not be using the Aneros as your crutch. Nor would you have to take Valium to go to sleep. Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin! Best of luck to you. Hopefully your imbalance won't cause you to get abducted by malevolent entities or cause you to spontaneously combust.
SQUIRTY HAS SPOKEN. =))



   
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@longshanks you sound on the verge of an awakening.. or not. If you believe the kundalini enthusiasts, you are chosen for the awakening by some spiritual destiny. I can't go that far with it but it does have a significant impact on how you perceive the world.

Euphosyn- I'm personally not a fan of the Syn product line. The arm on the Ptab is too pliable. It doesn't seem to provide the rocking action to my satisfaction. My fav is the eupho Classic.

In time the uninvited Os diminish. But they can be called upon in a heartbeat (:

I too had the anxiety. I didn't sleep for three days and had to go to the doc. The look on his face was hilarious. Broke the no sleep/anxiety feedback with Valium. Good to hear it no longer plagues you.

I feel as if I am on the edge of something! Your advice has helped me.
Re-Syn: So far I really like it. I've used it a total of 1 time. We'll see how it goes. Yes, the arm with the P-Tab is pretty flimsy.
Did you really tell your doc exactly what you were doing? I'd like to hear more about that conversation some time. That is if you're willing to share.



   
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@Longshanks
Be mindful, for the Syndrome is waiting for you.



   
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@longshanks I told the doc exactly what was up. I wouldn't be half surprised if he went out and bought an aneros that day (: the Valium was only a short term thing to get me sleeping again. It worked. I had a history of not sleeping when I was married.. Stress from a narricist can do that. I don't f around when it comes to my sleep. The doc was my neighbor and is an actual friend. He helped me get back to sleep prior. Having the conversation with him wasn't all that awkward for me due to our history. Still though.. He was grinning from to ear to the ear.



   
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@JMchemist, LOL......I am too as I picture my doctor's face!



   
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So whats your favorite position to do this in?



   
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@Alex_xxx on my back, knees up and spread just enough so that nothing interferes with the movement of the aneros.

Once again my warning- I hit a place where I couldn't turn it off. I had constant orgasms for three days and couldn't sleep. I punched through it and I never Õ without my permission now. It was really bad when I laid down to sleep.

Main point to my rambling- don't aneros in the same position you sleep in. When I got on my back (which is the position I anerosed in) the Os kicked in. Luckily, I sleep on my side. If I had anerosed on my side then falling asleep would have been a nightmare because I'm convinced it would have been even harder to stop O'ing.



   
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@JMchemist,My experience with even the smallest Peridise is that, while I can fall asleep fairly easily with it onboard, I always wake between one and two hours later, with P-waves in operation. There is only one way to get back to sleep and that is to remove the tool!

Re: SYN models, I heartily agree. The P-tab does nothing for me and I have found myself reverting to the Classic models of the Eupho and Helix.



   
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