It took me about a year, a couple of failed devices, a mindset reset, and a focus on breathing/relaxation. Eventually, with the VICE 2, a relaxation aid (THC, where legal), and the Mindgasm app, I finally broke through to consistent dry O’s and my first Super-O. Don’t give up—patience and relaxation were everything for me.

About a year ago my wife encouraged me to get a toy of my own. I did some quick research, picked up a prostate massager (not from this company), and… it was a bust. I didn’t read up on technique, just tried it during sex. Uncomfortable, no benefit, tossed it.

Six months later I tried again with a Helix Syn (vibe mode). It gave maybe a ~10% boost to a traditional O, but between the learning curve and cleanup, it still didn’t feel worth it. Before giving up I skimmed a little about breathing and relaxation—but I didn’t take it seriously and eventually trashed that one too.

Something kept nagging me not to quit. A few weeks ago I bought the VICE 2, Eupho, and MGX.

At first: still nothing special. Then I read a forum post about using edibles to get deeply relaxed. I tried a 10 mg THC edible (legal where I live; your mileage may vary). That cracked things open: I had several dry O’s and what felt like my first Super-O. I actually thought I’d finished and removed the device, but for the next hour I kept feeling pleasant waves from my prostate. I lay down, focused on breathing and sensations—and had several more dry O’s just from mind and breath.

The following week I paired the Mindgasm app with an edible (plus the MGX) and reached a whole different level—over a 24-hour period I experienced a lot of Super-O’s. Later I tried a traditional ejaculatory O to compare; it was still nice, but honestly, it didn’t come close to the intensity I’d been getting from the dry/mental sessions (full-body shaking, etc.).

What actually helped me

• Relaxation first, then everything else. Deep, slow breathing and letting go of expectations mattered more than hardware settings.

• Mindset over mechanics. Focusing on subtle sensations—not chasing an end goal—was key.

• Tools as helpers, not magic. VICE 2 and Mindgasm were helpful once my headspace was right.

• Optional relaxation aids. A low-dose edible helped me get out of my own way.

• Patience. My first tries were uncomfortable and discouraging. The breakthrough didn’t come until I stopped forcing it.

If you’re on the fence

Don’t quit after a few attempts. There are different paths—breathwork, non-vibe sessions, guided audio, devices, or purely mental. Find what supports relaxation and curiosity for you. When it clicks, the wait is worth it.

Anyway, it scared the heck out of me because I didn't know what it was or how to control it. Somehow, I was able to stop it about 5 or 10 seconds after it started. I was relived that it was over but totally curious about what just happened. 

I have tried to get back to that feeling many times but it has eluded me for years. 

• I was using an Aneros Helix Syn V to warm up and then the Progasm Ice, and I didn’t stop the massaging contractions even when things started to get really intense. I kind of brute-forced my way through the pleasure stages.

• Suddenly, I felt this powerful electric wave rushing through my entire body, and it created this full-body tingling sensation that slowly faded off. But then I got into an even higher state, which honestly scared me for a moment, but I kept going.

• My body started trembling and shivering uncontrollably, I couldn’t stop moaning loudly (which is "special" because I’m usually silent).

• It felt like I was in some altered state, almost like I was watching my body from outside of it. My lower body felt like it was preparing for something, with moving fluids, like right before a penile orgasm, but it was different.

• I started leaking buckets of precum, but I didn’t feel like I was getting "over the edge" like I would with a penile orgasm. Instead, I felt this intense pleasure that I could push more and more, almost like hitting a button pure of ecstasy. I was super vocal, making loud whimpering/crying sounds.

• I even saw colored circles dancing around, and I had strong spikes of full-body shivering and pleasure overload for at least 5-10 minutes, which was really exhausting.

• Afterward, I felt totally blessed but not "released" like I do after a regular orgasm. So, I ended up using my hand to finish off (while still having the Aneros in), and I had the hardest orgasm / Super T of my life yet.

• It was a 3 hour long session while 2-day semen retention + r/gonewildaudio was a big help.

• After that, I couldn’t move for a few minutes, and I felt absolutely drained the next day, almost like a succubus had drained me completely.

This week I tried lying my bent leg on a lengthwise pillow. What a complete difference that made! It took any pressure that the bent upper leg put on my straight leg and seemed to 'decompress' the prostate area. Within 10 minutes I was experiencing very strong pleasure and soon after I had a series of peak 'orgasms' (I assume Super Os) which were quite overwhelming and lasted at least an hour. Very like the overall feeling of a 'normal' orgasm but going on and on in waves. I even got up to use the bathroom which I thought would break the cycle but no, when I resumed my position the waves quickly started again. I only stopped as I had commitments to attend to. I was 'tingling' all over for several hours after.

There is no question that 'less is more' for me. Creating a 'quiet time' where I won't be disturbed, some early and regular deep breathing and getting into the right position are all crucial. I am looking forward to the continued journey...

This morning I took some time to analyze what I can remember but it is so hard to explain. I can't give time frames as I pretty much lost track of everything.  All I know is the session was about 45min and the Super O happened about 30min in or so maybe...

I was very aroused last night so I just had to have a session. It started with about 15 mins or so of me just playing with my ass and perineum sweet spot with just my fingers. This really got me riled up so I moved on to using my helix.

This is where things start to blur. I was using various connections to tease and build the pleasure. It felt so good I just emptied my mind and enjoyed the ride. At some point I started to have some mini short spasms. Almost like involuntary muscle flexes that last different amounts of time.

At this point I subconsciously adjusted my hips ,"I don't remember doing it but I recall them being elevated quite high off the bed when normally they are on the bed." Pleasure started to build quickly and I was just enjoying it so much.  Then out of nowhere unexpectedly I went into a full super O. My breathing was stuttered and aggressive. I was moaning heavily. My total body was in a involuntary convulsion. My whole body was buzzing and very warm and I started to persperate. Everything went to a black void with spirits of colored stars. I was in like another dimension of intense pleasure.

I remember thinking of my god is this going to end not sure I can keep taking this. It started to fade but my body was still working the helix and about halfway through the fade I shot right back up into another super O. Things eventually faded and I had a couple more small shorter dry O's before I finished myself off with a quick penile rub to end the session. I was so sensitive it only took like two strokes.

It felt like a eternity not sure how long it lasted probably 3 mins or so maybe more no clue all sense of time was gone.

All I can say is oh my fucking God I hope everyone trying gets to experience this and don't give up if you struggle. It is worth the effort. Penile masturbation is just so not satisfying anymore after that experience.

I now pitty all the men out there who are adverse to prostate play due to stereotypes they don't know what they are missing.

I know see pleasure in a whole different light.

Don't know if it would be interesting, helpful or weird.  Ideas?