my first session-gctid10006

Congratulations on starting your journey. We're the sirens for real or just your imagination from using the Helix? (JK)

I lube my helix syn with Vaseline and a little KY. That typically does the trick. Just don't use silicone based lube.

You are lucky you felt sensations. Took me a Couple months to feel any prostate tingles.

Good luck. Keep us posted and use the chat room!

Mattp

I think that you will find that after your first session your prostate will have woken up and that you will be getting increasingly pleasurable results from your next and subsequent sessions. As I said in my response to your "My First Aneros" thread my personal preference is for a generous application both in my anus and on the Aneros of a water-based lubricant as recommended by the makers of Aneros. I think that this is especially the case for the Helix Syn with its slightly porous silicon surface to which a petroleum-based lube like Vaseline adheres more readily and is more difficult to wash off. I have used various water-based lubes such as KY, Liquid Silk or Maximus and all have given good results and have not dried up even during sessions lasting well over an hour. I find that after a couple of applications of anti-bacterial hand wash and a good rinse in hot water my Helix Syn emerges nice and fresh. Of course Vaseline is less of a problem with the smooth plastic Classic models.

Porn does not work as a stimulus for everyone, but can serve as a distraction. What works for me is complete relaxation with maybe a few Kegels to get things going and focussing my mind on the sensations that I am feeling and willing them to expand and increase. Once the involuntary shaking and contractions get started relax completely into them and let them take you on your journey.

I hope that your next session will be an improvement on your first. I think it is likely to be seeing that you have already experienced some sensations and have started to leak precum, always a sure sign of arousal.
Best of luck!

My first session was in early January. I tried with porn probably for the first 5 times and go no where. I ended up trying with complete silence and dim light and that is when I had the first "feelings". I have learned to fine tune them and concentrate on the movements that feel good and have explored different positions. I found that kneeling and leaning on the side of the bed and on my back were the best. yesterday for the first time I experienced my first dry orgasm. probably about 5 or 6 to be exact. They came one after another while kneeling and doing absolutely nothing but concentrating on being relaxed with no contractions everything started on it's own and took off from there. Since that I now find that on my knees leaning on forearms do the same trick as well as on my back. This position some how unlocked it for me and now the sensations and O's come within 15 minutes of inserting it, at least this morning then did. I need to take a break for a few days and will try again in a few days. I normally wait a few days in between but the excitement from yesterday made me want to try again today. So it took me almost 7 months to get to this point. I certainly wouldn't consider these super-o's, but they were more enjoyable than a traditional orgasm So don't be discouraged, you had more success than me my first few times. I only use the water based lube. The KY is good and ID Glide is also really good.

a couple observations...

You should do this when you have no chance of being "caught" or disturbed especially when you are in the learning stages. Any distractions or potential distractions will interfere with your ability to focus and learn your body's responses to the new sensations. (Realize when the package arrived if you're like me you probably wanted to rip it open and run into the bathroom right then and there and try it, I get that. But waiting until you have time to relax is going to be better i think.)

Along those same lines, i personally find porn too distracting when I ride so if it doesn't seem to help you are not alone on that one. Try it without porn once or twice as you experiment.

You brought up a good point also...I have found that emptying your bladder as well as rectum is very helpful. Urinate before you start as well as make sure you've recently emptied your rectum. For me it can make a big difference. I even urinate partway through sessions too.

I use vaseline with my helix too. As it is petroleum based it will not dry out but there is some absorption with time so just use more next try. Soap and water clean up works fine just rub under warm water vigorously. Mine comes clean with no odor after. But then again I don't put it near my nose anyway so who cares!

As others have commented you had a very good first experience and you are off to a good start. Keep at it, but remember, its all about relaxing. Try not to "squeeze in" a session with time constraints or when you're not sure when your wife's coming back. Your results will be better that way.

Yea normally I wouldn't have any worries about her disturbing me after she goes to bed but I didn't expect the storm sirens and she is pretty afraid of storms so it made me worry she might find me for comfort.
Also when removing I found it very hard to relax my sphincter as the helix did not want to come out very easily felt like I had to pull a little harder than I should have to get it out, I tried to relax but it was difficult when pulling it out.

i 've noticed sometimes it wants to stay in also after i've experienced some strong contractions for prolonged period of time. It always comes out. try bearing down a little bit as you are removing it.

So me and the wife were up late last night and with the kid I decided I needed to go to sleep to get what I could when I could instead of having another session , and lest just say it seemed my bum wasn't very happy with the decision not to have a session, laying in bed it seemed to be more awake than me and I found it hard to fall asleep for a while.

I didn'texpect that eespecially after only one session

I found that my prostate had woken up after my first session and was ready for more, so you're not alone in having that feeling so soon.