My First Dry O And Now It's All I Think About

@EJGJCO What you've described is what we Aneros guys would call "prostate horniness". I have experienced it often. Yes, there will be times when you just HAVE to have a session. You don't need to explain it to anyone, or even to yourself. My wife never really knew about my Aneros usage. I think most of us males can and do get obsessed with something sexual like Aneros or any kind of anal toy. Unfortunately, my wife has not been interested in much sex lately and my Aneros play kind of took over. Now, I am into solo chastity play and I haven't had to give up any sexual arousal. In fact, I am more aroused now than ever! Good luck in your Aneros experiences!

Hello and welcome to @EJGJCO

I think this is a typically normal response for guys experiencing their first anal and prostate pleasures. The good news is that, as you expand the scope and range of your your activities situation at this point in your journey. Within a few days or weeks you will also experience what many of us oldsters refer to as "butt buzz," analogous to some gremlin constantly ringing bell on your "back door."

Soon you'll incorporate (wire) more of your body (nipples for example) into your your session play. I found that I would be reaching for my pecs and nipples during conferences and engagements. Usually men won't take note of what you are doing. Women will so it's best to keep your hands busy with other tasks.

As you continue to expand this new erotic segment of your life, work on maintaining and enhancing your personal relationships. You may find that friends and relatives appreciate your 'new found' self-confidence, outgoing joy and the increase in your positive outlook. 🙂

Remember to finish your Income Tax and soon.

...I got this crazy idea to watch a video of a woman pegging a man. Don't know where that came from, all I know is that I couldn't even finish watching it before I had to throw in my Aneros and obey a new kind of yearning from inside.

Aneros devices are good arousal amplifiers (not good arousal generators), as such we need to be well aroused before an Anerosession for them to be particularly effective. Viewing pornography is a frequently mentioned activity to generate arousal, so your physical and psychological reaction to its use is pretty normal. This is part of the rewiring process and the awakening of your prostate.

Not five minutes later I was twitching and convulsing and moaning for about a minute of bliss - much longer than a regular orgasm!

Congratulations on the breakthrough, your porn induced arousal state is probably a major contributor to this recent success. However, please note that viewing pornography is not the only activity which can generate effective arousal states, please see the thread. Identifying Facilitators to Progress. Also, as @goldenboy mentioned, his solo chastity play is an example of an effective arousal generation technique through temporal abstinence as noted in the thread Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence. Regular viewing of pornography can have its own negative consequences (see the site https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ ).

Now it's all I think about. Even at work I can feel that yearning. My poor girlfriend she has no idea I am doing any of this and probably wonders why I have lost some interest in regular sex. I would say I am fairly obsessed with my Aneros.

The novelty of this new sexual practice is certainly exciting and entertaining but as I cautioned in my introductory PM to you this practice can become addictive. Please read the Psychological paragraphs in the Aneros WIKI and make note of the Getting Help paragraph should the need arise. Your Aneros use should ADD to not subtract from your regular sexual relationship.

Does this subside??

Novelty and infatuations do subside in time as we either drop them or transmute and harmoniously integrate them into our lives. However, if you allow them to become obsessions or addictions they can totally disrupt your life and create many negative situations, please don't allow yourself to fall into that trap. Your Aneros journey can bring health, much joy and personal insight into your life as long as you stay balanced in all your other life activities and don't allow it to become an obsession or addiction. Good Vibes to You !

Thanks for the responses!