Mega rare orgasmic dysfunction.. or overfunction??? HEELP 🙂

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Morituri,

Welcome to the Forum,

You have described a curious condition, could you provide us with some more information? Was Aneros use involved with any of this? When you say orgasm are you talking about an ejaculatory experience? Are you aware that ejaculations and orgasms are not the same thing but are two different events? What exactly do you mean by “...auto-orgasm thing...” ?

From what you have described, it sounds like you have suddenly 'rewired' yourself for HFO's (Hands Free Orgasm), but now have an inability to return to the previous masturbatory mode. Is this correct?

As to your question - “Is there any connection between prostate orgasms and the normal ones?” By “...normal ones...” I am presuming you are speaking about penile stimulated orgasms. Yes, I believe they are connected in that stimulation of the penis simultaneously stimulates the entire genital area including the prostate. The main difference between the two has to do with the focus of stimulation. The type of orgasm you receive through prostate stimulation is different from a penile, nipple or anal based orgasm.

I don't know if prostate based orgasms will “...reset...” you to a previous state or not. You can't 'un-ring' the bell but just as you can learn to modify the bells sound in the future, you can learn new ways to direct your body in the future. I don't believe you've really lost the ability to have a traditional ejaculatory orgasm, that knowledge is encoded in your DNA, you may be experiencing a displacement of focus on this new way of having orgasms. I suspect in time your body will exert more and more pressure to return to that fundamental paradigm of pleasure we men usually learn during puberty.

If you continue to be troubled by this situation, I encourage you to visit AASECT.org. The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists is a not-for-profit, interdisciplinary professional organization. In addition to sexuality educators, sexuality counselors and sex therapists, AASECT members include physicians, nurses, social workers, psychologists, allied health professionals, clergy members, lawyers, sociologists, marriage and family counselors and therapists, family planning specialists and researchers, as well as students in relevant professional disciplines. These individuals share an interest in promoting understanding of human sexuality and healthy sexual behavior. You can write to them at P.O. Box 1960, Ashland, Virginia – 23005-1960 or visit their web site for further information.

Aneros wasn't involved with any of this. It just happened one day all by itself...

Yep I somehow learned the HFO and it's very very hard to revert back. I try to masturbate without trying to HFO (which is easy as pie for me) and just feel the pleasure from friction but it always creeps into every attempt. HFO's are pretty strong but are also very very tiring and I feel horrible after them. I'm also pretty sure i didn't lost the normal ability because from time to time I can again feel atleast 5% of the old masturbation style. It's there but it's so hard to get back 🙁

I hope that if I aim for a period of let's say a month or two on the prostate orgasms the brain would rewire a bit so the HFOs atleast woudln't creep back into every normal masturbation attempt.

Reading some of the posts on this forum sure is interesting. HFO's seem more and more to me as a road to hell and not enlightement. When i think about it throughout the day i feel there's something wrong with my prostate and the whole surrounding area.. i feel alot of tension in there (so much tension than whenever i sit i can feel the area and it's distracting) and i can feel alot of times my balls moving.. maybe relaxation through prostate massage might be the key 🙂