TL;DR version: Since my rewiring, my monthly professional massages have progressed to include p-waves, dry-Os, and now hands-free ejaculation. Has anyone else experienced something similar?
This is my first time posting on the forum, so a little bit of background about me: I am a married man in my 40s. I discovered the pleasure of manual prostate stimulation a couple of years ago and bought my first anal toy (a vibrator from another company) about a year ago.
My Aneros journey, in brief: Wearing the vibe (around the house, when alone) over the summer months felt good, but I knew nothing about p-waves or the potential for dry-Os, super-Os, etc. Then one day I stumbled across the Aneros wiki, while wearing my vibe. Perhaps because I had good PC muscle control and experience with yogic breathing, I was able to easily follow what I read in the wiki and felt some p-waves that very day. Within another day or two, I had experienced a mind-blowing 20-ish minute sequence of super-Os. I ordered a device from Aneros right away and within about a month of learning to use that I was: able to achieve dry-Os anytime/anywhere even "A-less"; fully "rewired"; and able to have super-Os while fucking my wife, which was a new source of pleasurable sensations for her.
On to the topic I'd like to put out for discussion today: Has anyone else here found that (traditional/Swedish) massage brings their rewired body to dry-O, super-O, and/or orgasm? [I couldn't find any earlier discussions of this, so feel free also to direct me there if I missed something.]
My massage background, in brief: As an adult, I've long enjoyed receiving a professional massage and have indulged myself increasingly as my means have allowed. It has been typical of my body to get a partial or full erection one or more times in each massage session (even with a male therapist); I believe this to be of a strictly physiological response to the massage, not sexual per se. For about the last 18 months I've been visiting the same professional and very experienced therapist for a ninety-minute monthly massage.
Since my rewiring my therapeutic massage sessions have become increasingly orgasmic. At first it was just that I would feel p-wave energy flowing during the massage. Then I started to experience dry-Os on the table, especially during the lower back massage. There was no way the massage therapist couldn't have noticed my dry-O shudders and shakes (once she even had to put my arms back up on the table), but--like the erections--no words were ever spoken about them. Given how few people in the general population have ever heard of dry-O, p-waves, etc., I wondered what she made of my shudders and shakes: did she recognize them as orgasms?
During a massage two months or so back, which happened to immediately follow an Aneros-wearing session, I experienced a sustained series of both dry-Os and erections. Even as I rolled over onto my stomach an erection persisted, which had never happened during any prior massage. I was embarrassed and hoped my arousal was not noticeable. But instead, as she moved on to the lower back massage, the sensations built and built in me until she must have sensed how tense my whole body had become. My hips even started to push down against the table during some of my dry-Os. And suddenly, without my expecting it, I erupted along the inside of my leg. My butt became slightly exposed in the process and she re-draped the sheet to cover that. I considered that she absolutely must have known what happened.
After that massage I felt more relaxed than you can imagine. But I was also embarrassed. And concerned that she would be upset with me when she changed the wet sheets, if she wasn't already. But she said nothing then or since.
A month later I went for my next massage determined not to have a repeat. I didn't even want to have dry-Os. I remained concerned and embarrassed about what had happened. I even masturbated in the morning, to pre-relieve any sexual tension in my body. I thought she might massage me differently--more cautiously, perhaps--maybe even spend less time on my butt and/or lower back. But this time it seemed she was pushing me forward: trying to make me come again under her skilled hands. In fact, she spent longer than usual working on my lower back and even repeated over and over the motions that had put me over the edge in the prior session. Despite masturbating in the morning, I somehow nearly did ejaculate again--and I certainly had many dry-Os. When the session was over I noted from the clock in the room that she had kept me a full 15 minutes longer than the appointment.
So this week when I went back, I decided to just relax and enjoy myself. I began to have dry-Os from the start of my massage and allowed my body to shudder and shake as it wanted. I didn't have quite the sustained erection of that first time, but I did allow myself to ejaculate as she worked my lower back. It took a lot more time (and movement and whole body stiffening) than the first time. And she was very clearly trying to help me get there. There's no way she didn't know exactly what was happening to me. Almost comically, she kept up the charade of proper therapist-client relations by readjusting the drape of the sheet as I squirmed. And, oh man, was it ever the best massage of my life! Yet once more neither of us spoke of what happened.
I'll admit to being completely puzzled as to what is going on in her mind: Did she always know that my dry-Os were orgasms? Does she now or has she ever had other male clients who could dry-O? Or ejaculate "hands-free" on her table? Does it arouse her or is she simply happy to make me feel as good as possible?
And I have questions for you, my Aneros brothers, including: Have you ever experienced a dry-O, super-O, or any other kind of orgasm during a professional massage session? If so, did your therapist know what was going on? Has the experience of massage changed for you in any other way post-rewiring? Has anyone ever tried wearing an Aneros during a massage?
[To be clear: All of the massage experiences above were A-less. Though I am draped during a massage, I would be too concerned about being seen "wearing" that. Above all else: this woman is an excellent massage therapist and I would not want to lose her massage services even if it meant no more "massage orgasms" of any kind.]
I should add that the only thing keeping me from having super-Os is sheer will power/embarrassment. My very-verbal and very-physical super-Os seem to come from a very animal ("reptile"?) part of my brain, but "I" am still in control and can keep them from occuring.
I have always been worried about this but so far nothing on the table despite my fears.I could not vote in the pole as you dont give a option for rewired but no feeling at all ?
Sounds magical.
You are naked under the towel and it sounds like your penis is pointing down your leg?
Here in Australia e must have our undies on. They pull the back down to expose the lower back then put them backup. I wish i could go naked. Doesn't it hurt having a erection with your penis bent down between your legs?
@benzi, yes and yes. I've had several "sensual" massages which were either by a professional masseuse or free sensual massage exchanges which were mutual, both parties gave and received massages. I'm gay so the massagers were all men. A sensual massage is a whole body massage including the genitals but the object is not to get you to ejaculate but to be awakened sensually, slowly. In fact during a 5 hour massage workshop a guy I was massaging pleaded with us(there were 2 massagers) to get him past the PONR. the instructor came over and talked him out of that and I helped move his sexual energy away from his genitals. You can use your whole body or any part to massage someone and we used qigong techniques to move and conserve sexual energy. It feels wonderful, total surrender, every erotic nerve tingling. Erections come and go, strong emotions come up. I've even rode my eupho once during a massage and then got a digital prostate massage happy ending!
I'm sure your masseuse has seen what you experienced before. You should talk with her about it to clear the air.
Somewhat off-topic, but I almost get an orgasm while doing push-ups. Typically on my 2nd or 3rd set of repetitions, when my body is very tense. I think I even had one that way, but it doesn't feel great, just "oh, another orgasm".
I'm sure that woman knows what's happening, and attributes it 100% to her awesome skills. Let her believe, it's fun for both :-).