Just one dry orgasm per session?

@The_Fury Remember to keep expectations low during a session; you won't be disappointed that way and you may be very surprised! Lately, even without "formal" Aneros sessions, I get very aroused just through "semen retention", chastity and "do-nothing" (Aless) sessions. As I always say, your body will let you know what it wants and needs!

Yeah I'm not disappointed or anything but when you have to repeat this process:

- make sure bowels are empty and clean
- prepare location
- get tools
- remove clothes
- insert device
- get relaxed

then when a session isn't anywhere near as good as sex or mastubation would be (99.999999%) of the time I stop, usually the session falls flat around 15 mins in

- remove device
- clean self
- clean decice
- put tools away
- get dressed
- make sure area is clean as well

you realise that the total time spent preparing is longer than in session. Have this process occur for years and and years and it soon becomes hard not to feel somewhat short changed.

I should give it longer than 15 min, perhaps change position as many times as needed maybe? It's just the arousal seems to go away after the first orgasm, I feel alone in this ? Nobody else can identify with me?

For me, it can sometimes take 15 mins before I even have the hint of an orgasm starting. Usually my average is about 3 or 4 minutes before something starts, but 15-30 min isn't that unusual either. And I might have a pretty small orgasm(s), but they usually build up to the strongest orgasms being about 45 min into a session. That's just some rough numbers/estimates.

Also - not sure what toy you are using, but variety is the spice of life! You should try a few different models to make sure you aren't using something that just doesn't work for your body. Unfortunately, it's not something that's easy to measure or know what size you should have before you try. But it's worth the investment IMHO.

I own and use all the devices, the only one that works more consistently is the helix classic.

I too only have genuine orgasmic states about 1 to 2 times and its in the beginnings either way I am contempt. They are lovely, not mind blowing but lovely. And after they pass theres still that glow that you spoke of and I am just all around feeling good. Im at a good point and I can feel reasured that Ive made it this far in almost a year now.

Even without the orgasms, the whole process is still very fun and relaxing for me so perhaps you should try enjoying the over-all process too? Maybe that will yield more results. JUST ENJOY IT I SURE DO!

Something I've noticed this past month is that my prostate is very VERY active and buzzes all the time. Sometimes I'll get aroused from it and feel my bottem area going through the movements as if I were in a session. At completely random times throught the day and when I sleep sometimes too. Its very strange and very nice too; but since this started, I've only had positive results!

P.S.

Enjoy every moment and let your prostate tell you when to have a session, not the otherway around! Good luck.

I look at it as it never being a failure but as a prostate massage that is healthy for the prostate. The great feeling is the bonus.

@Tatornator I like your philosophy. Although I no longer do Aneros "sessions" (my last ones only lasted ~15 minutes and were considered "duds") that does not mean that I do not get anal pleasure. I am using different toys and techniques. Aless is always there too. I am now into semen retention (completed 26 days!) and now male chastity cock cages. The sexual pleasures continue and are probably stronger than ever! I don't rely nor expect prostate orgasms on any kind of "timetable". They will come on their own; sometimes when you least expect them!

@goldenboy Exactly! If you can't force anything else about aneros or prostate orgasm i should say, why should forcing when you have sessions be any different? If you pay attention, you'll hopefully notice that you'll have what I like to call "prostate boners." So when your just feeling the strong desire to have a good session, that is the time.

I too kind of experiment with semen retention but I never go really extreme with it. I just look at it as an investment for the future pleasure to be inhanced. I think I've capped out at a week and a half and usually have no desire to go past a week. Although I'm super curious about wet dreams, I don't know why but just the thought sounds hot. Have you experienced them yet @goldenboy?

Also, It's wierd for me to here about everyone has very short sessions. My average session is usually about 1.5 to 2 hours long and then after I'll probably edge for an hour. I dont ever feel the time pass by usually at the half hour mark because I'm just in the moment. Anyway, good talk!

P.S. you kind of sparked my curiousity about chasity a few weeks ago but I feel like it would be painful. Does it just squish you if you get a erection?

@Tatornator Check out my recent blog post today. I think with the right chastity device (I like the CB-6000S now) I didn't think it was painful at all. I have worn it for at least 6 hours recently and 3 hours this morning and had absolutely NO soreness of balls or cock and one of my erections was extreme, like one you would get overnight. Of course, the mental anguish was another story, but it was bearable and quite erotic! Regarding SR, I wanted to experience a wet dream but never did. I think I came really, really close! Honestly, I now prefer chastity to edging if that makes any sense. Somehow, denial (even by myself) is a greater turn-on that just being able to jerk-off at will. What do you think?