Is it just Me?

Posted by: @nice-sounding-guy

Is it just me or do we all think that the sensations and experiences we are having with these truly wondrous products from Aneros should be shared with all men?... what we have here is something quite special.

I completely agree with you my fellow Anerosian. More than a decade ago I posted the thread Ideas for Spreading the Word... which addressed this topic which is as pertinent today as it was back then, I invite you to add your thoughts to that thread as well.

Good Vibes to You!

Yeah, it's a shame, when this clicks and you experience the superO, you'd think the impulse would be too high five your buddies but that just doesn't fly. Too many hang ups out there. I can't even talk to my own wife about it. 

This forum is do different...it doesn't matter where you are coming from here. Just come as you are and you progress is celebrated and helpful advice is given. It would be nice to see a little more of that in the world, but yeah, it feels like an underground fraternity.

Posted by: @nice-sounding-guy

Keep up the good work everyone, let's share and support

Spread the word, everyone! 🙂

No, it's not just you.
The first time I felt a Mini-O I also thought I should tell all my friends. Which I did... I don't have many real friends, but I told the three closest ones. The first one politely listened to me and never told me again. The second one seemed interested but always had something better to do and the third one bought a Helix but couldn't feel anything at the moment and is quite impatient... So I doubt he will persevere on this road.

It's difficult to share even on a porn site. You can't really see how much pleasure a person is having. Note how much problem people have spotting a regular female orgasm in porn. It doesn't help that actresses can be pretty good at faking it, and there's a strange practice of cutting away the footage where they actually DO have an orgasm.

A real prostate orgasm doesn't look spectacular from outside.

Type "prostate massage" on a tube porn site, and you'll get:

 - lots of handjobs and blowjobs

- lots of guys milking themselves to a slowly dripping ejaculation and calling that an orgasm

- lots of guys using various types of pressure, including cock rings, bending the cock, putting it between legs, swinging their cock by riding something...

Adding the word "handsfree" only helps a little bit because many videos are blatantly mislabeled. Also, female pornstars do it wrong too. Hell, gay porn seems to get it wrong most of the time, because there's expectation to end every sexual act with a cumshot.

I tried to find some prostate massage and orgasms on porn sites, and the amount of noise you have to filter is staggering.

It's much easier to learn to suck your own cock and prove you can, than prove you had a prostate orgasm.

Posted by: @airbag

It's much easier to learn to suck your own cock and prove you can, than prove you had a prostate orgasm.

All your post is true, but this part sums it up so well.

If you're a great golfer, or writer, or painter, it will be easy to prove it and get some credentials. Then start a school or something. "Learn golf with Tiger" would be pretty popular. 

How to talk about MMOs, convince people it's real, that you can do it and guide them toward it ? That's a tall order. 

I sincerely think that more people having access to MMOs and the Super-O and experiencing them could really change the world for the better, so this difficulty in spreading the word is very frustrating.

It's funny, but Aneros experience has a lot in common with a definition of... mysticism!

ideas or thoughts that are difficult or impossible to understand or prove

I know I can cause an ejaculation by fingering my foreskin, by combining aneros with thrusting, or even holding aneros or something else in my hand and "dildoing" myself. I've done that and stopped. I want an experience, an orgasm, which can ONLY be explained as a prostate orgasm. I'm getting there. I've only recently learned the right (for me) way to use Progasm Ice. I get the biggest turn-on when my dick is NOT flopping around and I still leak lots of precum. So I stabilize my legs (doggy works great for this reason), don't use my lovely glans ring, and keep my hands waaay far from genitals.