Intense, Continuous, Cascading Orgasms

3 years, i have in fact just finished another unsuccessful session. This guy tries and within minutes is in heaven. I know i will receive a backlash, not least from the poster, but i feel that this thread/story cant be real, i am devastated that someone here, or indeed anyone has these experiences when i follow the instructions, guides and whatever else i can i get nothing, this guy gets it all with little effort.

It just feels like its not true.

@inhope that's just the name of the game man.
In my 11 months of using aneros regularly with no results, I have seen probably 20 newbies join, and then post to the "my first super O" sticky thread, all before I've had so much as a p wave.

You are presented by a fork in the road.
To your left, you could bitterly tell yourself that its not true, because of how unfair it is. Continue life as it was for you 3 years ago. Forever feel cheated in life for being born male with such limited orgasmic ability.

To the right, you can accept that life isn't fair. You don't have to like it, but you must understand it. You must acknowledge that some people can have Super Orgasms within hours of their use of the aneros, while others may spend years before seeing the faintest result. You acknowledge that you are in the latter group, and keep working towards your goal.

I recommend you re-read raaikims post "the point of aneros". Clear your head. Occupy your mind with something else until you can think clearly. I'm going to show you some tough love, and offer some perspective. Try and listen.

You ARE the lucky one. Maybe not comparatively to some of these men or women, but none the less, you are. Think of the women who go through life never having an orgasm. It happens... Think of the botched circumcisions that happen, and then the boy is damaged for life. And these people are the luck ones too! Think of the children who die too young to have love, or to enjoy life or food... And look, even THEY are the lucky ones.... The fact is, for every human you have ever seen, there are millions of potential humans who will never be born. The fact that you ever got to think a solemn thought means you have won the cosmic freaking lottery. For every pregnancy, the child born was the %0.0000000003 of potential humans that could have been born. Whether you believe in a God or not, it is hard to deny the fact that you are here, hell, the fact that any of us are here, is so freaking slim, that we should be nothing but greatful about the privilege we have had to take a single breath or think a single thought...

And here we bitch about not having our exotic orgasms that were previously thought impossible for males to have, not fitting closely enough to the timeline we made up in our minds.

Should you feel bad now? Hell no! That's the last thing I want! What I hope you to gain while reading this is a bit of perspective. It is easy to focus in so deeply about what we don't have, that we blindly ignore all the things we do.

I went in a very depressed period in life too, and this is what I needed to hear to get me out of it.
And the person who told that to me said it in far less nurturing words.

There is not a site on the internet, nor a group of people on the planet, who want to help you have mind blowing orgasms more than this site. So just go with it and don't let yourself get too jelly of anyone. There's plenty of orgasms to go around!!

So keep your chin up dude! Progress will be made!!! Just make sure you remember the big picture!!!!!

You're right MMO_RPGlol I'm going to accept it and keep moving forward, i just need to develop a strategy of doing so, i think my issue isn't really with being jealous of not being there already its not having any direction. I know this is true because when i lack focus i get angry/envious, when i have focus, even if it leads nowhere i feel great! I enjoy the journey more than the goal sometimes.

I just wish i knew where i go from here, what else do i try? you suggest "the point of aneros", where is this? might be the first place to try i guess?

@inhope here is a link to the thread:

https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/14926/the-point-of-aneros-in-my-opinion

I know exactly how you feel, I believe. I used to feel the same way. If you would like, feel free to message me and we can think of some ways to point you in the right direction! I just started having success, so its fresh in my mind.

Maybe some practical help would be of value too. If you have Skype, you could do a video call with a more experienced aneroser. They might be able to show you how they do it or tell you what they see you doing wrong. I assume you've been reading the tips in this forum. What have you been doing in your session? How do you set it up? Which device do you use? I'm not in a position to offer you help directly because I'm in a similar position, I get the pleasure but no deep orgasms since starting 6 months or more ago. Read my lament at the end of the "Key to sexual stimulation freedom..." thread. I discovered that I need to resolve some personal issues before I can proceed. I felt depessed, humiliated and defeated at this point. The other things I've learned is questioning why I need to experience the super O at all. Will it give me happiness, fulfillment, resolve other problems, sexual or otherwise? Unlike you I stalled out at the point of experiencing a lot of pleasure where I thought I would encounter my super O. I don't know whether you have some psychic blocks to feeling pleasure like me or just need a little"hands on" technical support. when the aneros massages your prostate. There must be some practical help based on what you've doing to at least give you some pleasure.

addendum. I just read your thread at https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/14871/just-had-my-first-hands-free-aneros-orgasm-but-i039m-very-confused#Item_19, and have gotten a better picture of you. Sounds like you were getting p-waves, and orgasms when using porn but now you're not and the pleasure has stopped. Is that right?

@inhope

This may be kind of like a paradox, like trying to bite ones teeth, or trying to cut a knife with itself. But have you ever been aware that you are aware? But really aware of it.

I say this because that freedom is what makes the difference, how often do you just "let go"? Try not to hold onto things, let go, let it be. What will happen if you let go? You give space for other things to manifest, other things to flower. As long as you let go, free your mind, your human qualities will flower.
Let go, give yourself space, time, free yourself from prejudices, don't be afraid of feel other things,etc.

This orgasmic energy has interesting qualities, it really heals your body, it can be an explosion of emotions, but if those paths are WAY TOO blocked, it will hardly pass through them. Let go of everything, don't attach yourself to anything, try to just wing it.

I strongly recommend Mantak Chia's Multi Orgasmic Man, also Taoist Male secrets of Love Cultivating. Get into them, no matter how apparently innefective it is, it's crazy when you learn how to work with energy instead of your denser being which is your body. Look for his teachings on youtube. Just do it, learn to feel Chi, learn to pay attention to an organ and let Chi gather up there.
Conscious training.

The intent of my thread was simply to share my aneros experiences and certainly not to be a source of frustration nor to fill anyone "with anger." I actually had hoped that the thread would be a source of encouragement and excitement.

I really don't have an answer as to why the aneros works so well for me. I have never read any "how to" books, never studied Taoist material, and never considered letting go or unburying repressed feelings. I just stick it in and it does its magic. Certainly there are others like me out there. If we were all just making up untruths, I doubt that this website would survive.

I assure you that my experiences are authentic and, if anything, my descriptions are totally inadequate to fully describe the intensity of my experiences.

Surely there are many others like me out there?

Welcome - there are lots of people like you.

Please continue posting and don't hold back. You've done a nice job of writing about your experiences and your posts will help others. It's clear that you have a healthy attitude and share the wonder of what we are all learning. Like anything worth learning, it can take a long time for some. Also, sometimes after a period of great success, it just stops. Aneros definitely teaches patience and persistence, and can test both to an extreme. It can be very hard at times.

You have joined a special group of men that are very generous with their support. I look forward to your contributions in the future!

Xileh

Thanks Xileh, I suppose I was mostly venting in my post yesterday. After I wrote those words I received a ton of support in the chat room, and, also, 30 minutes with the Progasm JR did wonders for my mood. 🙂

MENTAL VACATION

Earlier in this thread, I wrote: I love the aneros because it gives me a "mental vacation." My life is
stressful and I have a lot of responsibilities. It is great to escape
to my oasis of pleasure and let my mind rest (even while my body is tied
up like a knot).

It is hard to overestimate the value of such an oasis. When my life seems overstressed or the deadlines pile up on me, or when things at home are not the best; my aneros(s) takes me to a place of complete mental rest.

I have just returned from such a vacation and the great thing about THIS vacation is that I didn't have to go any further than my own bathroom floor. (smile)