I've reached a place in my journey where after 10 years of no success I finally broke through. I don't know exactly what I'm experiencing but it's great. I do believe I'm having Dry O's, and not the Super-O though. I'm not experiencing "pleasure waves". It's more like being on the cusp of a traditional orgasm that just keeps me there. It's a very powerful, wonderful feeling and somewhat emotional. I find myself saying and thinking that I don't want the experience to end, and often am trembling. Now these Dry O's seem to last anywhere from maybe 30 seconds to I'm guessing 2 minutes. I had one really great one that I'm guessing hit the 3 minute mark. Is this normal for Dry O's? Maybe it is a Super-O but I don't think so because I'm not experiencing any kind of pleasure waves, or tickling/buzzing of the prostate.
One thing I do note during the Dry O is I feel like I'm approaching some kind of ceiling. Kind of like when you know you're about to ejaculate, you feel that it's approaching before you go over the edge. I'm experiencing something like this during my Dry O... Maybe I'm just that close to actually ejaculating so it feels like that but I don't know.
Considering wet O's go for about 3 to 5 seconds, not including the wind down, a whole half-minute sounds pretty great. I've heard Super O's can go for forty-five minutes to an hour, but that takes a lot of "not thinking".
I had an 5 streak mmo once,I’d say the orgasms were 10 - 15 seconds and they hit 10-20 second apart.. I’d say 10-12 seconds usually,definitely at least twice as long as a TO..
my first super o was 1-3 mins,the second was about 10 mins..I’m not sure about subsequent ones as I lose all concept of time now,as I’m learning to switch of more and more as time goes by,at a guess I’d say 10-15 mins..
To me a dry-O isnt determined by time its determined by intensity. Its the medium intensity prostate orgasm. Mino-O being low and Super-O being high. Of course intensity can be coupled with duration as well.
I say this to say...youre on the right track. Dont focus on the length of time...focus on increasing the intensity and your arousal state. Duration will come with training.
Hey @jja ,
First off, the categorization of the different kinds of energy orgasms is somewhat heterogeneous and everybody will define the terms slightly differently. I tried to do my part and proposed a systematization here.
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I don't know exactly what I'm experiencing but it's great.
That's all that matters. 🙂
I had one really great one that I'm guessing hit the 3 minute mark. Is this normal for Dry O's?
That's rather long. You may be walking the line between an initial Dry-O and a following energy orgasm. For me, Dry-O's are peak-type-orgasms while energy orgasms are mostly valley-type-orgasms. With peak-types orgasms being an event, while valley-types are a state. 3 mins sound more like a state than an event to me.
One thing I do note during the Dry O is I feel like I'm approaching some kind of ceiling. Kind of like when you know you're about to ejaculate, you feel that it's approaching before you go over the edge. I'm experiencing something like this during my Dry O...
That pretty much sounds like a Dry-O to me.
Maybe I'm just that close to actually ejaculating so it feels like that but I don't know.
If you are about to ejaculate you should feel it in your groin. Your prostate and seminal vesicles prepare for ejaculation shortly before it happens (approaching the point of no return) and you can feel the fluids moving inside you quite distinctively. IMHO if you were on the traditional path you would rather ejaculate than triggering a Dry-O.
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In the end, categorization doesn't matter so much especially in your situation right know. What you should do is just follow the arousal. It guides the way all by itself. Don't try to push through, don't try to control things. Just follow and surrender. You'll get a feeling for what's happening and what's possible over time anyway.
Cheers, Unfug
Hey @jja ,
First off, the categorization of the different kinds of energy orgasms is somewhat heterogeneous and everybody will define the terms slightly differently. I tried to do my part and proposed a systematization here.
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That's all that matters. 🙂
That's rather long. You may be walking the line between an initial Dry-O and a following energy orgasm. For me, Dry-O's are peak-type-orgasms while energy orgasms are mostly valley-type-orgasms. With peak-types orgasms being an event, while valley-types are a state. 3 mins sound more like a state than an event to me.
That pretty much sounds like a Dry-O to me.
If you are about to ejaculate you should feel it in your groin. Your prostate and seminal vesicles prepare for ejaculation shortly before it happens (approaching the point of no return) and you can feel the fluids moving inside you quite distinctively. IMHO if you were on the traditional path you would rather ejaculate than triggering a Dry-O.
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In the end, categorization doesn't matter so much especially in your situation right know. What you should do is just follow the arousal. It guides the way all by itself. Don't try to push through, don't try to control things. Just follow and surrender. You'll get a feeling for what's happening and what's possible over time anyway.
Cheers, Unfug
Thanks for the detailed reply. Yeah I would describe what I'm going through as a "state". It's like rushing up towards a traditional orgasm. Throbbing erection, pleasurable feelings ect... I rush up to the line, and then it hits the breaks and keeps me at that line in an agonizingly aroused state, shaking, excited, and loving every second.. It is somewhat frustrating because I feel like I need to cum so bad, but can't but I don't want the feeling to stop either. The reason I asked about the duration of Dry O's is because I'm honestly just curious about what I am experiencing. I have read so much on this subject and thought I knew what everything meant. But now that I'm experiencing it I just don't know what I'm experiencing.
I feel like I need to cum so bad, but can't but I don't want the feeling to stop either.
Just give in and let your arousal win the struggle with your wish to cum.
Thus you're on the right way to separate your orgasm from cumming. With tease and denial, continuously edging, but not allowing yourself the release, you need no domina
to teach yourself the skills for day long horniness along with multiple dry orgasms and find your path to the ultimate bliss - disconnected from ejaculations. You do not need to cum to feel this bliss.
You really do not need to cum to feel this bliss.
You definetely do not need to cum to feel this bliss.
You absolutely do not need to cum to feel the ultimate bliss!
😉
Cheers! Mart
To cite an expert again, who's convincing thesis just has been discussed once more in another thread ...
it is like body surfing. in the real thing you are picked up and propelled by a huge wave, a force stronger than you, giving you an exhilarating ride, but instead you go early and have to swim and persuade yourself you're getting a ride. you want an orgasm that picks you up and sends you, not one you're trying to jump on.
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Throbbing erection, pleasurable feelings ect... I rush up to the line, and then it hits the breaks and keeps me at that line in an agonizingly aroused state, shaking, excited, and loving every second.. It is somewhat frustrating because I feel like I need to cum so bad, but can't but I don't want the feeling to stop either. The reason I asked about the duration of Dry O's is because I'm honestly just curious about what I am experiencing. I have read so much on this subject and thought I knew what everything meant. But now that I'm experiencing it I just don't know what I'm experiencing.
I think what you are experiencing is a low level Super-O. If you'll recall the first line in the Aneros WIKI definition for a Super-O it says "...an orgasm that steps out of the normal frame of reference." as well as being a "...non-ejaculatory orgasm...". From your description I'd say you were experiencing something out of the normal frame of reference for an orgasm.
It might help if you were to read @Buster 's thread What exactly is a Super-O? to get a wider perspective of what a Super-O is in reality. Additionally, Please see Super-O Myths & Illusions regarding 'the Edge' plus a couple of other myths and @neros thread The Myth of Super Orgasm.
I agree with @Unfug 's statement :
In the end, categorization doesn't matter so much especially in your situation right know. What you should do is just follow the arousal. It guides the way all by itself. Don't try to push through, don't try to control things. Just follow and surrender. You'll get a feeling for what's happening and what's possible over time anyway.
Good Vibes to You !
Recently we were dinning out ,the waitress set the appetizers on the table and said enjoy.Being an anerosian I thought thats a lot like my aneros sessions.First comes the anal orgasms,the delicious tingle in the balls and cock the fluttering in the glans,its like your body telling you enjoy these awile and Ill be back with the main course later,this maks it easier to give in,let go,and surrender when you feel yourself on the edge of full body bliss.
Hi @jja2 !
Well, I also experience very intense dry-Os (should I call them "low intensity super-Os" as suggests @rummel ?).
Those orgasms typically last a few minutes here, sometimes more. My record : an overwhelming 20 minutes.
I may have experienced one super-O a few weeks ago, it only lasted maybe 15s.
Thank you for all of the replies. I think one of my main issues is not going any length of time without ejaculation. For example my 3 sessions in a row fell on a friday, saturday, and sunday. I had Dry O's or low level super o's all three days. However I'd ejaculated on thursday, friday (after session), saturday (after session), and sunday (after session).. The longest I've gone with no ejaculation before a session is 2 or 3 days.