Whenever I would use my aneros toys, I just lay on my back and focus on my breathing and just not expect anything but be ready for any feelings that might come along the way. I do get involuntary contractions from time to time, especially when I change positions from back to side. In the meantime I do get erections from time to time and then get extremely aroused. How it always ends for me is I end up on my stomach and the involantaries get to me where I start moving and with the penis rubbing against the mattress makes me ejaculate. It’s definitely a pleasurable feeling but I’ve always wanted to experience a “dry orgasm” if I could. The penile orgasm definitely has high intensity when the toy has been inside. The longer the session seem to give a larger orgasm/ejaculation. Anyone’s thoughts or suggestions would be appreciated.
Note* I am not complaining about my experience. I Just end up always turning on my stomach and can’t help not doing it which results in stimulation and ejaculation. Would be nice if I could strap myself to one position and not have the opportunity to move lol.
Anyone’s thoughts or suggestions would be appreciated.
The conundrum of having ejaculatory orgasms from prostate stimulation is not all that unusual and has been discussed on the forum numerous times. Here are some threads to give you some suggestions for resolving your obstacle -> How to avoid ejaculation?, How to avoid handsfree wet orgasms , Avoiding ejaculation during orgasm? , Hands free ejaculation being an obstacle & Cumming while lying face down.
I Just end up always turning on my stomach and can’t help not doing it which results in stimulation and ejaculation.
The path toward prostate based dry-O's is largely a mental exercise requiring a modicum of mental discipline. It sounds to me like you have mentally programmed yourself to this action by repeatedly following the same behavioral sequence. You CAN change this behavior pattern but you must consciously make the effort. I believe you intrinsically know this but have found this orgasmic path simply too easy and enjoyable to seek an alternate path toward orgasm (prostate based). I am confident, if you make the effort, you CAN solve this problem using the techniques suggested in the linked threads above.
Good Vibes to You!
@rumel is right about this in my opinion, at some point you'll have to take charge if you want to progress further. It's mainly a mental game, where you might have to make a deal with yourself to postpone the immediate gratification of flipping on you stomach, in exchange for greater pleasure down the line when you session is not interrupted by an ejaculation...