I had my first good experience after a year and a half on Monday....see my previous posting but after this mornings which was different I need to know what I should now be doing.
After Mondays mind blowing session I tried again later and nothing much happened, I figured I was probably tired and maybe I should have a days rest I tried had a hard on first first thing this morning so lubed up and relaxed. Again I wasn't getting there, there was something but nothing like before. Then as I was about to give up and sat up it hit the old G-spot and so I starting pushing against the duvet and this was sonething else, My whole body tingled and shook, I got short of breath and there were kind of spasms...I'm not sure whether I liked it or not, it was almost scary. I lay back and it continued for about an hour but was more convulsions in my backside and a feeling of an itch that needed scratching...is this normal? I couldn't keep still and my body shook and my heart was beating like an african drum,but it never seemed to get past that point, I feel I needed to go just a step further. In the end I stopped, I thought an hour of it was maybe too long and I didn't know whether this was normal and worried about the feelings I was having but maybe I should have carried on. If anyone has experienced this please let me know what I should do and if this is the "O"
Thanks
Percy
Hi Perc!,
>My whole body tingled and shook, I got short of breath and there were kind of spasms...I'm not sure whether I liked it or not, it was almost scary. I lay back and it continued for about an hour but was more convulsions in my backside and a feeling of an itch that needed scratching........is this normal?I should have carried on.<
Don't do that. If you start to feel scared or uncomfortable stop, and wait until the following day. Above all, don't try to make things happen - don't even wish for things to happen - both can be very counter-productive! Do take that seriously.
Good luck,
Mog 🙂
Thanks Mog for your advice. It seems like I am heading in the right direction.....two sensations in three days with nothing much to talk of for the last eighteen months. I hope the re-wiring of my body and Aneros sort out soon so I can enjoy the big "O" without feeling scared. It was a shock having my body trembling and buzzing and all the spasms......here is hoping it gets better next time.
You help is appreciated.
Percey
You will probably get many more interesting sensations, some of them a bit scary, as the re-wiring gathers momentum, and not all of these will necessarily feel orgasmic.
I was reading Mog's reply here and was struck with the fact that this is not talked about enough. I just thought I would highlight it because I think it is important for people to know.